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Posted 8/19/13
Honestly it totally depends on the relationship I have with that person,if I had a lot of respect and admiration towards i would be very mad and unforgiving,but if its a best friend or something i think i could forgive him for hurting someone like that but i would never make it seem like I was "okay" with him doing that,i would still call him out and tell him he (or she) was wrong.
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Posted 8/19/13
no i wouldnt hav any unless i saw change in them tho it would be alot different if they cheated on me
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AsuraCryin1980 wrote:
I agree with some of your standings, society in general seems to be a bad thing and gets worse by the day. I disagree to the "everyone cheats" comment. I have ALWAYS been faithful in my relationships and never lied to them. After all What's the point of being a liar, it always comes back to bite you in the butt. I had coworkers and friends like that when I was younger. I no longer associate with humans now irl as they tend to be too much trouble, so hobbies and pets take up my time to keep me mentally happy.




I agree with you on the pet part. Animals are definitely better companions than humans
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No respect for anyone who cheats. If you want to cheat, why not just end things with your partner or spouse instead of lying and leading them on? You are wasting their time, putting their health at risk (STD), and hurting them emotionally. There is no excuse for cheating except a lack of integrity.
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Posted 8/20/13

GayAsianBoy wrote:


AsuraCryin1980 wrote:
I agree with some of your standings, society in general seems to be a bad thing and gets worse by the day. I disagree to the "everyone cheats" comment. I have ALWAYS been faithful in my relationships and never lied to them. After all What's the point of being a liar, it always comes back to bite you in the butt. I had coworkers and friends like that when I was younger. I no longer associate with humans now irl as they tend to be too much trouble, so hobbies and pets take up my time to keep me mentally happy.




I agree with you on the pet part. Animals are definitely better companions than humans


High five to pet pals!
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Posted 8/20/13

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Tophatjames wrote:

By looking at your profile i'd say the conclusion to deal with anyone who cheats is to w-well... just kill him.


There are far worse things than death.


Yeah, ever had an itch you could never scratch? Nightmare...

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Posted 8/20/13
well I don't have it! I don't like that kind of person
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50 / M / In
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No sorry some who cheats is not wrothy of breathing my air. If your unhappy break up and find someone new
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Would I be mad at someone who cheated on me.........Would I be mad at someone that stole from me and Used the money they stole from me to make someone else feel happy While I sit and wait in the dark like a idiot until I find out?.....It's the same thing and I want nothing to do with the person. would I be mad at them? No But they would id never trust them ever again. IF we got back together i'd have the craziest erge to do the same thing back to them. Before anyone tel's me that two wrongs don't make a right please stop yourself because while it might not make it okay i wouldn't feel bad doing it as much knowing that they did it to me.
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Tophatjames wrote:

Yeah, ever had an itch you could never scratch? Nightmare...



Nope, not really.
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19 / M / Toledo, Ohio
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Posted 8/20/13
Hell no, its ether "you choose me, or you loose me" thats how it goes...
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I believe the desire to cheat means you have already given up on making the relationship work in the first place. You are done, unless you are the type of couple who are "open" or you both are swingers.. but then it isn't considered cheating.

Personally, I couldn't give someone who cheated a second chance.

You just needed to try another person for a bit? Well enjoy him, I don't want whatever you catch.

This assumes you are actually a couple, though. Otherwise, again, it isn't cheating...
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Posted 8/21/13
I believe most people have the capacity to change, but it would still be very hard to forgive someone if they cheated on you.
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Posted 8/21/13
No. I have no respect for cheaters, ok if you don't like me anymore! just tell me and you're free to do whatever you want (general 'you' lol) I belief that there is no second chance for guys when it comes to fidelity. Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.
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It depends, I suppose. I've always chose to judge people based on what they do in the present, not the past. If a cheater changed themselves at some point and has done more respectable things I would certainly give them respect.
I probably would lose respect for someone who cheated and stop associating with them, but if I met someone who had cheated in the past I would be more likely to judge them on what they currently do. I like to think I'm a bit of a forgiving person, though, so maybe I'd let a cheater explain themselves after the matter. Who knows, every situation is different.
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