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Do you still have respect for anyone that cheats in a relationship? If so why?
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Well, I would say no but I wouldn't be mad at them.
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Some people who cheat are jerks, some people who cheat made a mistake, it's hard to really define someone based off one action.
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drakedogma wrote:

Some people who cheat are jerks, some people who cheat made a mistake, it's hard to really define someone based off one action.

I completely agree with you on that one :D

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No because it may happen again the only way I would take a person like that back is if he begged for mercy and bowed before me.

Or plan B: If he begged for mercy and bowed before me than I would cheat too maybe...just maybe. Theres always different ways to play the game with an unfaithful partner.

If I took him back and he did it again than no more chances. I had a boyfriend that cheated on me once and his excuse was that he thought I had cheated on him because alot of guys liked me. I was like no we are over. He begged me and cried for me not to leave him. Im not gonna lie I did enjoy his little pleas for mercy but I still said no because I couldn't believe it. I also honestly never cheated on him or even made close contact with another guy so I was pissed at the fact that he didn't trust me enough and he was not the kind to cheat. I only found out because someone hinted it to me one day and some of my friends heard rumors and I let it go because I trusted him so much that I thought it was a silly lie because we were so close and understood eachother. But no his ass confessed. Pretty good on his part I guess.

We were planning on getting married..........................booooooooooooooo
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No, the minute they do, they become scum.
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Those people who cheat in a relationship lose all respect from me. And it's pretty hard to earn that trust with me back, whether I'm the one who was cheated on, or if it was a friend. But that phrase "once a cheater, always a cheater" isn't always true. People make mistakes, (even mistakes they had complete control over...) and they may have remorse and a conscious to keep from doing that.
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No because it may happen again the only way I would take a person like that back is if he begged for mercy and bowed before me.

Or plan B: If he begged for mercy and bowed before me than I would cheat too maybe...just maybe. Theres always different ways to play the game with an unfaithful partner.

If I took him back and he did it again than no more chances. I had a boyfriend that cheated on me once and his excuse was that he thought I had cheated on him because alot of guys liked me. I was like no we are over. He begged me and cried for me not to leave him. Im not gonna lie I did enjoy his little pleas for mercy but I still said no because I couldn't believe it. I also honestly never cheated on him or even made close contact with another guy so I was pissed at the fact that he didn't trust me enough and he was not the kind to cheat. I only found out because someone hinted it to me one day and some of my friends heard rumors and I let it go because I trusted him so much that I thought it was a silly lie because we were so close and understood eachother. But no his ass confessed. Pretty good on his part I guess.

We were planning on getting married..........................booooooooooooooo




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drakedogma wrote:

Some people who cheat are jerks, some people who cheat made a mistake, it's hard to really define someone based off one action.


How can you have respect for someone who WILLINGLY physically and emotionally betrays you? Especially if your supposedly in love in the relationship.

In a lot of cases, it doesn't take more than one action to define someone. For example, lets pretend you have an uncle named Charlie who sexually molests a 6 year old girl. He goes to jail, and comes back out. By this time you're happily married and have an adorable little 5 year old girl yourself. Would you really want Uncle Charlie babysitting your little daughter while your out on date night with your hubby/wiffey? Uncle Charlie only did it once. :p

That might be a bit of an extreme example, but In relation to the topic, what is left to respect after someone cheats on you? Nothing. And if there is something to respect, please enlighten me.

And those kind of accidents don't just happen.

"She accidentally fell on my willy"
"It accidentally appeared between my legs"

OR my personal favorite... "I WAS DRUNK!"

Some things are inexcusable. This is one of those, because it takes two to TANGO! ;)

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Thanks sad sorry lmao
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My wife said , if you ever cheat on me, i will never forgive you /divorce. !!
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cheaters suck.(╯`□´)╯
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I love when Diego Rivera says "sex is like pissing" when referring to infidelity in Frida Kahlo, though maybe a bit extreem. Honestly I belive there is huge difference between sex and love and while it's wrong to cheat we often learn best by fucking up. I have cheated once and I will never ever do it again, and it had absolutely nothing to do with feelings.. just a stupid mistake i regret
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If they where cheating on me I may regain respect for them after much time has passed and they have made serious efforts to change their character. But any romantic relationship between us would be over forever because I would never be able to completely trust them again.
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eegah87 wrote:

If they where cheating on me I may regain respect for them after much time has passed and they have made serious efforts to change their character. But any romantic relationship between us would be over forever because I would never be able to completely trust them again.


At Least you don’t get hurt that way, too bad if he was the real deal
Seems like waste to me
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