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Post Reply Do you still have respect for someone who cheats in a relationship
Posted 7/4/13

Decepcion wrote:

Your eyes are cheating right now on your girlfriend.


Hahaha, oh news.
Posted 7/4/13

llax wrote:


Decepcion wrote:

Your eyes are cheating right now on your girlfriend.


Hahaha, oh news.


Posted 7/4/13

Decepcion wrote:


llax wrote:


Decepcion wrote:

Your eyes are cheating right now on your girlfriend.


Hahaha, oh news.




Little more subtlety needed.
Posted 7/4/13

mentalese wrote:


Decepcion wrote:


llax wrote:


Decepcion wrote:

Your eyes are cheating right now on your girlfriend.


Hahaha, oh news.




Little more subtlety needed.


Then the chicken crossed the road
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maybe you should just CALL her on the Phone!!
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Posted 7/5/13
I cheat on the left last night. Woke up with the right again for the night.
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Posted 7/6/13
I'm surprised how no one has mentioned the "exception" where cheating doesn't make you a lying hoe bag
One Tree Hill can't even convince me

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honor and pride still exist.
would you like a samurai sword with that?
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Posted 7/6/13 , edited 7/6/13
I'm not a cheater but I already played Someone's heart when I was Second Year.
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Posted 7/6/13 , edited 7/6/13
Got some stupid people up in here. Cheaters are scum and are inherently scum, period.

If you can't see how foul cheating is then you probably have no business being in a relationship.

Cheating is lying, cheating is getting up every morning and telling someone you love them when you're stepping out on them behind their back. Cheating is creeping around, keeping secrets and its inherently wrong due to the behavior it is associated with.

If someone wants out of the relationship, fine. But to stay in the relationship, put up a front like everything is right and okay, but be stabbing their partner in the back everyday? Possibly infecting their partner with an STD of the other person? And for women cheaters some will be having their man sticking in or even tasting sloppy seconds from the other guy without even knowing it. And for some women this is an added thrill, like how some husbands will dress the other woman in their wife's clothes and jewelry when they're away.

Shameful shit.

When you put it all together, anyone capable of that is one devious motherfucker, period.

And I'd never associate myself with someone with such low character.
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Posted 7/6/13

FlyinDumpling wrote:

I'm surprised how no one has mentioned the "exception" where cheating doesn't make you a lying hoe bag
One Tree Hill can't even convince me

RyuMyoto wrote:
honor and pride still exist.
would you like a samurai sword with that?

If that the only option I get?
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Posted 7/6/13
Sadly no. Had a roommate who cheated on a friend of mine and I couldn't bring myself to forgive him.

I think people cheat either out of sheer stupidity or because they really are just bad people. If it's the former, I might be able to forgive them.
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Posted 7/6/13

Creepy response! This kind of anger makes me worry about getting shot. If your girlfriend is cheating on you, there's no need to get so worked up, just leave her.
Posted 7/6/13
The question should be what is considered to be "cheating?"
Leaving comments on other girls/guys pictures calling them sexy, beautiful and asking for pictures when they are in a committed relationship.
Sleeping with other people.
Having multiple partners.
Talking and flirting with many people and pretending to be okay with your gf/bf.

Everyone has different forms of what cheating should be considered. I personally think cheating is bad. Of course you can forgive the person. Because if you don't you might not get the chance to move on and be happier. Why reminisce on the bad things for so long. Forgive and forget! I know cheating hurts like shit but atleast you know you don't need to waste your time on the person! Marriage is a different perspective to me. Divorces are easy to just do and say. But people made that "oath" to be husband and wife til death do us part! Ha~ they should really change that. Either way nothing is an "accident" because everything happens for a reason. Cheaters are just people who love doing it, enjoy hurting others, are unhappy with their relationships, want someone who can be there for them while they go sleep around or just plain old asses xD I
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Posted 7/6/13

kassler wrote:

Got some stupid people up in here. Cheaters are scum and are inherently scum, period.

If you can't see how foul cheating is then you probably have no business being in a relationship.

Cheating is lying, cheating is getting up every morning and telling someone you love them when you're stepping out on them behind their back. Cheating is creeping around, keeping secrets and its inherently wrong due to the behavior it is associated with.

If someone wants out of the relationship, fine. But to stay in the relationship, put up a front like everything is right and okay, but be stabbing their partner in the back everyday? Possibly infecting their partner with an STD of the other person? And for women cheaters some will be having their man sticking in or even tasting sloppy seconds from the other guy without even knowing it. And for some women this is an added thrill, like how some husbands will dress the other woman in their wife's clothes and jewelry when they're away.

Shameful shit.

When you put it all together, anyone capable of that is one devious motherfucker, period.

And I'd never associate myself with someone with such low character.


amen.
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Posted 7/6/13
Cheating, hmm, interesting subject.

To me one of the most important things in relationships are trust and respect, when a person cheats, they show me that they have neither for me. People can justify cheating however they want, but in the end, to me it means they did it behind my back, violating my trust, and they care so little about me, that they didnt care whether i was hurt or not. They might not have intended to hurt me, they simply didnt care if they did.
I would still respect a person that tells me they no longer want to be in a relationship with me, and move onto someone else, than someone that cheats on me. At least the first person had the decency to end our relationship before starting another one.

At the same time though, i also believe people are human and make mistakes, a one night thing during a vacation or something like that could foreseeable happen. While it is unlikely that i would forgive a person after cheating on me right away, if they are honest and tell me about it face to face as soon as they can, I will still respect them and the relationship might be able to be salvaged later on. However, once a person makes the conscious decision to hide it, or to keep on doing it, there is possible justification i could understand.

Now, are they scum? i would not go that far based solely on the action of cheating alone. To me the sum of a person cant be summed up to a single decision.
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