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If you feel something for someone you have to say it before you get friendzoned. That's reality you might have a shot but if you wait too much time will pass you by and you will regret it. And stop putting girls/guys on pedestals or they wont take you seriously people want what they cant have. Life is not an anime love comes after being a dick(no pun intended)... and i know that people will disagree but try it out it works. Love and hate are divided by a thin line. Also have more confidence in yourself i mean if you don't like you why would anyone else? just thought id say some harsh truth to help people out hate me if you want but if i help push one person to take that step to happiness so be it.
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It's not being a dick that gets chicks.
It's showing that you're not weak.

Guys. Women are attracted towards strong individuals. Don't get walked all over, have a little backbone. Doesn't matter who it may be, male or female, just show that you're on this earth to change it and nothing will stop you.

This type of behavior is a common trait among 'dicks', and that would explain why they are stereotyped to always get the girls. It's not because you're a nice guy that you're getting left for someone else, it's because you're not doing what you were born to do. Take what you want, do what you want, and show some independence and never search for someone else's approval. You only need your own.

He's right though. Show some confidence. Love yourself. Sell yourself out to the world. Humans work like sheep, and if you show that you're someone to be loved, they'll be herded in your direction.

Also guys, a little tip. Make sure the girl's attracted before you make the move. Friendzone is just a term for when she's not into you.
Fix that. You're the man. You can do anything.

This is coming from a pick up artist who reads into the study of attraction.
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uncookedsooshi wrote:

It's not being a dick that gets chicks.
It's showing that you're not weak.

Guys. Women are attracted towards strong individuals. Don't get walked all over, have a little backbone. Doesn't matter who it may be, male or female, just show that you're on this earth to change it and nothing will stop you.

This type of behavior is a common trait among 'dicks', and that would explain why they are stereotyped to always get the girls. It's not because you're a nice guy that you're getting left for someone else, it's because you're not doing what you were born to do. Take what you want, do what you want, and show some independence and never search for someone else's approval. You only need your own.

He's right though. Show some confidence. Love yourself. Sell yourself out to the world. Humans work like sheep, and if you show that you're someone to be loved, they'll be herded in your direction.

Also guys, a little tip. Make sure the girl's attracted before you make the move. Friendzone is just a term for when she's not into you.
Fix that. You're the man. You can do anything.

This is coming from a pick up artist who reads into the study of attraction.



I totally agree. People tend to get used because they let themselves think this will get them a chance. Stop being afraid and act on what you feel nothing is worse than regret.
Posted 7/7/13
It's too lateeee to apologize lol
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It makes it even harder when people don't say what they're thinking. Two people could like each other but they don't talk so they don't know
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Posted 7/7/13 , edited 7/7/13

Marsev wrote:

It's too lateeee to apologize lol


lool


Midnight-Luna wrote:

It makes it even harder when people don't say what they're thinking. Two people could like each other but they don't talk so they don't know


To be truthful some guys are oblivious to the hints that women give you. You cant expect a girl to tell you she likes you, you have to see the little signs like if she laughs at your jokes and touches you at the same time for no reason. If she sometimes watches you from across the room and when you catch her she smiles. If she gets "jealous" at other girls. Does she get nervous around you? does she flirt with you? there are too many to count. But a man has to make the first move. Even if there are women that act like men and actually ask YOU out you cant count on it always being like that. Guys grow a spine ask the girl out but dont label it or she will run for the hills xD
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sometimes you can like someone and they can like you back but if all you do is avoid each other then how will either person know how the other feels
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Well someone has to step up and ask the other out without fear of rejection because if you take care of it in the beginning like a ripping off a bandaid then it will pass faster.
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Posted 7/7/13
Dont they have have lava live for these kind of topics?
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Posted 7/7/13
I have no idea what that is lol
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i have never heard of that either
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Posted 7/7/13
hahaha what if the dream is already dating someone? Ahh the cold harsh realities of life man
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I'm a girl, and I look for guys who are nice, smart , funny and have a sence of humor.
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Threads like this are dumb and infuriating. They're full of two kinds of people.

1. Guys who think they have the answer to how to get into a woman's pants.
2. Girls who think they know how every girl thinks.

To the first group, shut up. You don't need to act any one particular way in order to avoid the "friend zone" (which is stupid anyway, but that's a topic for another time), you just need to realise that some people simply don't want the same thing you do all the time. If that's too much of an issue, you really need a reality check. Instead of trying to get with the person you've met just because she's cute, spend some time as her friend and figure out if you really are interested. You never know - patience and the right kind of attention may get you where you want anyway.

To the second group, shut up. Just because you're a girl who likes it when guys are subtle or just simply nice and that makes you like him more does not mean that every woman is like that. Between the women I know and consider friends, two respond well to polite men (gentlemen if you will), three have no opinion either way and another two actually like the type of man being described in OP's post - confident, "pushy" men.

The simple thing is guys, there is no right answer. If you want to be with someone you have to find the right person for you and then figure out if they will continue to be the right person. Figuring out then how to get laid or get into a relationship is another question entirely. For that you have to consider their position, your position, whether either of you really wants/needs a relationship at the given moment... the list is rather endless and threads like this confuse a lot of people, making them feel like they'll always be single because they can't act the way the people here do in order to get what they want.

Just my 2c. Feel free to ignore me, whatever. I'm just here to spread seeds of intelligence.
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~.~;

Thank you Brosh. My thoughts put into actual words for once.
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