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Post Reply Kindness Mistaken As Flirting?
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Posted 7/22/13 , edited 7/22/13

NekoGirlSashira wrote:


No1sy_B0y wrote:


NekoGirlSashira wrote:


No1sy_B0y wrote:

Ja ne?

Wut?


Means later or goodbye


Oh, ok.

Ja ne.


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You're a horrible person.

Knowing I don't speak Japanese, yet you reply in Japanese just to make me jealous.

Well, you succeeded, and now I will go cry in the corner.

Meanie.
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Posted 7/23/13
I mistake it as some kind of contest to see if I can make you uncomfortable enough to not like me.
If that fails then it's probably flirting.
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Posted 7/23/13

No1sy_B0y wrote:


NekoGirlSashira wrote:


No1sy_B0y wrote:


NekoGirlSashira wrote:


No1sy_B0y wrote:

Ja ne?

Wut?


Means later or goodbye


Oh, ok.

Ja ne.


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You're a horrible person.

Knowing I don't speak Japanese, yet you reply in Japanese just to make me jealous.

Well, you succeeded, and now I will go cry in the corner.

Meanie.


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Posted 7/23/13
That was really well put! =^.^= Often times I find myself in the same situation and my intentions misunderstood. While being nice to everyone offers lots of "Pro Merits" there seem to be quite a few people out there who mistake kindness as a means to starting up a "close relationship."
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Posted 7/23/13


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Posted 7/23/13

No1sy_B0y wrote:



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はい。私はあなたの気持ちを傷つけるので。
私は右のようなひどい人だ?
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Posted 7/23/13
Men who mistaken kindness for flirting are usually the type of guys who women wouldn't flirt with anyway.
It's both interesting and sad at the same time.
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Posted 7/23/13

NekoGirlSashira wrote:


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フォーエバー


はい。私はあなたの気持ちを傷つけるので。
私は右のようなひどい人だ?


私はカエルを食べた。
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Posted 7/23/13

NekoGirlSashira wrote:


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フォーエバー


はい。私はあなたの気持ちを傷つけるので。
私は右のようなひどい人だ?


はい、あなたはそうです。
私は謝罪のために開いている
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Posted 7/23/13

No1sy_B0y wrote:


NekoGirlSashira wrote:


No1sy_B0y wrote:



フォーエバー


はい。私はあなたの気持ちを傷つけるので。
私は右のようなひどい人だ?


はい、あなたはそうです。
私は謝罪のために開いている


なぜ私が謝罪しなければならないの!あなたはそれを始めました!
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Posted 7/23/13

TheRealEscargotpudding wrote:


NekoGirlSashira wrote:


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フォーエバー


はい。私はあなたの気持ちを傷つけるので。
私は右のようなひどい人だ?


私はカエルを食べた。


それが良い味でしたか?
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Posted 7/24/13
Every please ignore the conversation ↑

Doesn't even relate to the topic >.>;
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Posted 7/24/13
Let us look at it this way:

Possibility 1: Person 'A' completely ignores Person 'B' and/or doesn't assist. ----The feelings from person 'B' of Person 'A' can range from indifference to dislike.

Possibility 2: Person 'A' acknowledges Person 'B' and/or does an action that wasn't requested. ------- The perception from Person 'B' of Person 'A' may be seen as a sign that Person 'A' cares about the status of Person 'B'. That the end result could be positive to indifference in perception of the act. Person 'B' will be more likely to interact with a person that shows kindness.

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Posted 7/26/13
A past co-worker of mine thought I was in love with her. I don't know where this idea came into her head, but apparently because I was nice to her ( I'm nice to everyone ), she thought I liked her.
Posted 7/26/13 , edited 7/26/13
Interest usually involves kindness from the interested party but kindness does not always mean interest. There are people who just naturally are nice to everybody. I think, if you can only recognize interest through kindness and not any other signs, that you should focus more on how nice they are to other people and whether you have some special treatment from them. If you get an excessive amount of kindness in comparison to other strangers, or sometimes even friends, then they probably have some sort of interest in you. I can't say that for sure though because some people are simply not interested in many people and they will be very kind to people they are only interested in a platonic manner. Basically, they want to be friends.
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