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Posted 7/17/13

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NekoGirlSashira wrote:



Guys Always Think I'm Flirting With Them But, I'm Not. I'm Just Nice!


girls always think I am flirting when I am just being nice.


I feel you guy! I'm like what's wrong with being so nice I was raised that way!
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I been polite to women before some know I am being nice others send me some disturbing messages back leaving me in the wtf happened zone of where did this conversation go for example once I girl told me here her problems about some stuff in her life i told her how to handle it in a polite way next thing you know one of her girl friends says stop flirting she has a bf so I am just like where did I go wrong did I ever ask this person out did I ever give the wrong impression all I was being was polite and doing what I could do help and I'm the pervert ok don't get it myself, but I know it happens might be cause nice guys are dieing out and the norms crazy ass people who treat others like trash idk neva done statics on that but i would be intrested in the results
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Yeah, them horny males are always thinking dirty things when they're with a girl who's acting nice around them.

From my experience, if you mention you "want a banana for lunch," my mind interprets it the dirty way. That's how I think, as a male, or it's just that I'm hornier than most males.

If they think that you're flirting with them when you were just being nice, its obvious that they were looking for cues to move in on you, meaning he is interested in you, or your body. If he wasn't interested, then he shouldn't think of that way.
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I think you just horny you my friend have had one too many hormonal burgers lol but starters i have joked around with my friends with crude humor but my mind doesnt usually go to the garbage can when a girl says hey nice package u carry there or hey hows ur day going or for another when they say come over here or can we do this another time or stop ur making me feel flushed all those are preverted cuz u choice to make them perverted
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Posted 7/17/13

iLoveBoobies wrote:

Yeah, them horny males are always thinking dirty things when they're with a girl who's acting nice around them.

From my experience, if you mention you "want a banana for lunch," my mind interprets it the dirty way. That's how I think, as a male, or it's just that I'm hornier than most males.

If they think that you're flirting with them when you were just being nice, its obvious that they were looking for cues to move in on you, meaning he is interested in you, or your body. If he wasn't interested, then he shouldn't think of that way.





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I think you just horny you my friend have had one too many hormonal burgers lol but starters i have joked around with my friends with crude humor but my mind doesnt usually go to the garbage can when a girl says hey nice package u carry there or hey hows ur day going or for another when they say come over here or can we do this another time or stop ur making me feel flushed all those are preverted cuz u choice to make them perverted


Oh gosh all this talk about men being horny is slightly uncomfortable >////>;
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But it's not entirely false. :P
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Yes, a lot >//<
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iLoveBoobies wrote:



But it's not entirely false. :P


Haha sadly your right about that >//<
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not entirely it true but not all men are horny corn dogs but respect the ladies be nice be chill and if they think ur hitting on them i guiess more power to them and vis versa lol
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Posted 7/17/13

-Barage- wrote:

not entirely it true but not all men are horny corn dogs but respect the ladies be nice be chill and if they think ur hitting on them i guiess more power to them and vis versa lol


Ah Onii-Chan is right! Women are just as big as perverts as men even though they don't admit it!
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when someone is nice to me, makes me like them. When a dude is nice to me makes me think he could be bf material, or crush material. makes me want to be nice back. maybe thats mistaken as flirting but, i dont think it is. truth is flirting is obvious, and kindness is tricky to see.
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its pretty obvious when a girl flirts and vis versa just depends on the situation really and the people
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Oh, Tumblr.
Aren't you a cesspool of wisdom.
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Definitely happens to me a lot, but meh. I just clarify if they do ask me
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I think some people are so used to either being ignored or ridiculed that they mistake sincerity for sarcasm. I cannot tell you how many times I've said something nice to someone only for them to come back at me and give me crap for saying it. After the blow up, I tell them I was being sincere and they end up apologizing. It's gotten to the point where I am keeping my mouth shut more often because of these issues. In fact, I can tell you I've been blocked on twitter at least 3 times because I told someone they looked nice in a photo and they took it as me being a creeper. The whole time I am thinking "Ok, you posted your photograph on Twitter. Did you honestly expect no one to say anything about it?"

This kind of behavior has really turned me off to some forms of social media. The people that know me know I am honest to a fault. I don't say things to be mean. I know the difference and I know how people can perceive things. I just think people have become so jaded that they cannot take a kind word without thinking you are saying it to get something out of them.

I used to be a really big flirt when I was in my early twenties, but I left all that behind. Now I just try to be kind to most people. Sadly, my kindness has gotten me in so much trouble I can't even begin to tell you all about it.
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