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I know someone actually offered me lessons..
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I know someone actually offered me lessons..


Wow really!! I had to learn on my own! ><; Lucky! I'm just like poker face he's just really nice and not flirting or is he..o.O That's how I feel most of the time
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Yeah it didn't help LOL and yeah thats basically me the whole time. And then I feel a bit bad for wondering. It's just like the huge big cycle pft!
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Yeah it didn't help LOL and yeah thats basically me the whole time. And then I feel a bit bad for wondering. It's just like the huge big cycle pft!


Same here.. I even broke some hearts here on Cr that I'm not proud of >>; I just felt awful...
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This is only true for women. As a man I have observed that MOST women being nice is a tricky thing, since MOST are NEVER nice unless they want something in return. This leads most men to foolishly fall in love if they believe a woman is being sincere without expecting anything in return. They may realise their foolish infatuations and play it off as though the woman was into him and was just flirting because they can't be honest with themselves.

In retrospect, a man being nice is taken for granted. The man is plainly doing what he considers is appropriate, as he is chivalrous. (hahaha yeah.. right..) In reality if they aren't being chivalrous that they in it for sex, if not a relationship.
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Same here.. I even broke some hearts here on Cr that I'm not proud of >>; I just felt awful...

Oh that sucks. I'm sorry, I know what thats like.

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Don't be sorry it's all in the past now but, mainly guys fell for me when I was on Cr which was strange because boys weren't always nice to me
Posted 7/18/13 , edited 7/18/13
I totally agree with you.


I'm just a generally nice and polite person, and not to mention completely oblivious to flirting :S

If I'm really enjoying someones company and they ask if we can catch up for coffee another time, I always say yes n___n Because you know, we're having a nice time, I like chatting with them and I can always do with more friends in my life !!

Then after I'm left wondering if maybe they had misinterpreted me, and I immediately feel bad because I just genuinely wanted to drink some coffee ): ):
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As a canadian i try to be kind to anyone i come across. Of course not all of us are as curtious and polite as the rest but in general i dont take kindness from women as flirtation
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rich9085 wrote:

As a canadian i try to be kind to anyone i come across. Of course not all of us are as curtious and polite as the rest but in general i dont take kindness from women as flirtation


Ah so Canadians are just genetically pleasant folk? Well can't really say I haven't suspected as much.
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Yeah it's happened in school years ago and in public a few times. I don't miss going through that, because I find it baffling that one can read kindness as flirting in their head. .___.
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So often I don't even... which starts a troublesome affair with me thinking "oh gawd now I have to tell him I'm not interested and then he'll hate me and go away to The Land of Unreachableness, but hey why would he, he's a sensible guy, I'm sure he'll still hang out with me" which then outcomes with me awkwardly saying I'm not interested and then the dude awkwardly disappears out of my life anyway (can't blame them though). Did I mention awkward?
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Naw nvr happened. You can tell by body language if a girl is being kind or flirting.
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Always.
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I see this has happen a lot mainly to guys and few girls V.V;
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