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Posted 7/21/13

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:excl: HELP
Okay I'm talking to a guy on CR I don't know him that well so
he told I was a cutie and put "*kisses your cheek*" is that flirting?


Depends on where he's from.


It says he's from NY and he put me on his favorite buddy list which is titled "My Interest"
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Yea.. and apparently sometimes even my female friends think i'm flirting with them (which is terrible, especially if she happens to like that guy, and she happens to know that the guy happens to like me.. also it doesn't help that she HAPPENS to only like guys that somehow like me OTL)

... ANYWAYS! I dunno.. i think girls also have a hard time telling if they're just being nice, accidentally flirting or somehow giving 'signals' or whatever, so guys will obviously have more trouble with reading girls.
Posted 7/21/13

NekoGirlSashira wrote:


Marsev wrote:


NekoGirlSashira wrote:

:excl: HELP
Okay I'm talking to a guy on CR I don't know him that well so
he told I was a cutie and put "*kisses your cheek*" is that flirting?


Depends on where he's from.


It says he's from NY and he put me on his favorite buddy list which is titled "My Interest"


Unless you're interested, none of it should matter.You can ignore it o ask him on PM.
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Posted 7/21/13

Marsev wrote:


NekoGirlSashira wrote:


Marsev wrote:


NekoGirlSashira wrote:

:excl: HELP
Okay I'm talking to a guy on CR I don't know him that well so
he told I was a cutie and put "*kisses your cheek*" is that flirting?


Depends on where he's from.


It says he's from NY and he put me on his favorite buddy list which is titled "My Interest"


Unless you're interested, none of it should matter.You can ignore it o ask him on PM.


I'm not I just wanted to make sure that he was so I can tell him I'm not single but he just told me it was compliment and that he's not good with girls but I don't believe that >>;
Posted 7/21/13

NekoGirlSashira wrote:

I'm not I just wanted to make sure that he was so I can tell him I'm not single but he just told me it was compliment and that he's not good with girls but I don't believe that >>;


Whatever floats your boat ;).
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Posted 7/21/13

Marsev wrote:


NekoGirlSashira wrote:

I'm not I just wanted to make sure that he was so I can tell him I'm not single but he just told me it was compliment and that he's not good with girls but I don't believe that >>;


Whatever floats your boat ;).


Right well thank you very much! I appreciate your help!
Posted 7/21/13

NekoGirlSashira wrote:

Right well thank you very much! I appreciate your help!


But i'm interested in you T_T. Great thread btw, i've learned so much here. K bye.
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Marsev wrote:


NekoGirlSashira wrote:

Right well thank you very much! I appreciate your help!


But i'm interested in you T_T. Great thread btw, i've learned so much here. K bye.


Haha what do you mean by interested in me and thank you I've made this thread because I know people would relate too it except as for me I mistaken flirting as being friendly
Posted 7/21/13

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Haha what do you mean by interested in me and thank you I've made this thread because I know people would relate too it except as for me I mistaken flirting as being friendly


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Posted 7/21/13

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Haha what do you mean by interested in me and thank you I've made this thread because I know people would relate too it except as for me I mistaken flirting as being friendly




Hahaha uh okay not sure where this is going XD
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Sometimes is. I think the best one i had was at a convention, stood next to cute girl in line so you make small chat and such. Seems like a nice girl etc but we go in opposite directions. See her again later, ask her if she wants to go for a drink later etc and ask for her number. She immediately goes ape shit, screaming about my harassment and how shell get me thrown out etc. needless to say I'm never going near someone that crazy.

Thing is this is nothing rare, seems a lot of people have a victim complex of if anyone shows them any attention rather than just saying no than you they treat it like a personal attack. Seems to line up with the increase in crazy feminists too...
Posted 7/21/13
A friend of mine says I'm a really big flirt, but I totally disagree. I think of flirting as deliberately trying to get someone's attention. I just happen to be nice to people I don't automatically dislike. I don't really consider that flirting. I could care less about trying to get anyone's attention or any of that crap. I just choose to treat people the way I would like to be treated, which is with friendliness, kindness, and due courtesy.
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*raises hand*
I was nice to someone at the beginning of my second year of high school. I complimented his art skills and gave him a cupcake (which btw, I had handed one out to everyone I knew at that time). The guy took it the wrong way.
Three years later and after at least 5 times of being shot down, he's still here. I'm not really sure what the appeal is.

On the other hand, the opposite has happened to me frequently. I've been told numerous times that I can't recognize flirting and take it in as normally chatting. Whether or not that is actually true, I don't know, because if I failed to figure it out, the person flirting has never told me straight up that I'm missing some flags, so maybe my friends are wearing rose colored glasses.
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Guys think I'm flirting with them, even after I tell them I'm gay.
Girls think I'm flirting with them, because I'm gay.

Can't a girl just be nice? D:
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I never mistake kindness for flirting, in fact it far more likely the other way around, if a girl jumped on top of me I'd probably think "wow, did she like me?.... nah she was probably just being nice."
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