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Are you more of a Dominant, a Submissive....maybe something in between??
Posted 7/20/13 , edited 10/9/13
I already know the definition of each of these types, but which would your personality type be the closest to..... a Dominate or a Submissive...maybe not quite either of the two??? I myself would have to choose Dominate, because I like to run things so that they go the right way and lead to a positive. I can be submissive like when I am being taught something new or in situations I couldn't give a damn about ....Its only in things that really matter to ME that I become the Dominant in. Also sometimes I play Submissive to rude dominant folk to read them and then Dominate them...its the "Ultimate Sadist Move" I call it...let them believe that they have power and then take it lol its the best

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I have low self confidence, so it's more like submissive and obedient.
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I am more dominant because I like to have my input if I don't like how something is done or if I disagree. Even if I am incorrect I still like to question and try to take control ^^
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Probably a mixture of the two. Most of the time I would be submissive (because people are idiots and its easier to just go with it) unless someone screws stuff up, then I take over.
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Posted 7/20/13 , edited 7/20/13
A manipulative submissive.


By that I mean, I let people take control over me, on the surface it might seems he has control, but in reality, I'm the one who's in control.

(Don't think I'm a snake or something, lol... I'm just independent).
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I am way more dominant. I am that guy who will jump up and lead a group rather than just be a part of it. I love working in teams but normally will put myself in position of the lead role. I just like having things done my way. I'm not saying I wont let your opinions be heard and that my way of thinking is always correct, but I will make sure you at least hear me out.
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25 / M / Canada
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Posted 7/20/13
I'm something in between. I'm naturally quiet and passive, so when someone else wants to take charge, I let them. However, critique and analysis are very much strong points of mine, so I usually end up taking an 'advisor' or 'lieutenant' position within any group I'm a part of. People tend to notice this eventually, and now and then, I'll be pushed into some sort of leadership role because they think I'd be good at it, but it rarely works out, because I balk under so much attention, and I'm not good at taking the initiative.

So yeah, generally speaking, I'm a natural second-in-command who's most comfortable passing out ideas and advice to someone who has the charisma and drive to make it happen.
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Posted 7/20/13
Submissive. I am completely useless in situations where I can't use rationality to convince someone. I can just never bring myself to flat out tell someone they're doing it my way no matter how sure I am of myself, and quite often I'll just back down and watch them fail (and rarely, succeed). The only time I really insist on my views/ideas are when I'm pretty damn close to certain, and it rather heavily affects my well-being. Other than that, it's too much of a bother -- I'll submit. Strangely enough, I've gained quite a bit of trust that way.
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Posted 7/20/13
I am definitely a dominant personality. I hate being lower than someone else, and it shows often in my relationships. I've had a complex about dominance since I was young. My girlfriend seems to think she's the dominant one in the relationship, but fortunately for her I'm going to let her enjoy that naivete for a few more years.

I'm QUITE the sadist, though I know where to draw the line. I suck at lying, mainly cause I never do it(I'm brutally honest), and I'm a huge pacifist when it comes to fights for the sole reason that if I did get physical I'd end up in jail. But contrary to what everyone else sees in me, I'm not one who likes to be commanded, and I despise being expected to do things.

On the other hand, I do have weaknesses my girlfriend has taken numerous opportunities to exploit. Sometimes I feel lowered, and I proceed to have my fun when she's done toying with me. I guess you could say she's kind of a sadist too, but I'm a horrible sadist compared to her, and unlike her, I don't have a lick of submissiveness in me.
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20 / F / Wherever the wind...
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Posted 7/20/13
Definitely submissive. A large percentage of the population is composed of close-minded, self-indulgent individuals and arguing with them is so pointless and bothersome it ages you. And hey, being in the sidelines is FUN. You get assigned less work because they think you're dumb and clueless. Plus the cat fights and backstabbing skits are always a treat to watch. xD
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21 / M / Missouri
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Posted 7/20/13
Dominant, but not controlling.
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i don't really fit either category i guess that makes me a cat
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I am submissive to my gf but in every other case i fight to be dominant because of my pride
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26 / M / The Netherlands
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Submissive, I let people walk over me.
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21 / F / Your Cookie Jar
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Posted 7/20/13
I guess a mixture of both. I'm submissive more when I'm around people I don't know well.. but once I do get comfortable with someone's personality I tend to be more dominant ? xD Weird thought. Umm, although if I'm in a group of people that I don't know well and everyone in the group don't know what to do I tend to take leadership, which I don't mind much. I guess I do like leadership when its done my way but I'm super duper shy at first so I don't say anything x3
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