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How did potential lovers confess their love to you?
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I don't have a lot of people confess their love to me, to be honest; but I guess I've had a few. Most of the people that get to know me know I'm pretty unattached and aloof.

One female, (who I actually felt bad for) was moving, so she planned these little gifts. I pretty much put them all in my closet as I didn't find any of them useful, but the last one came with a note exclaiming her love. I never talked to her again.

One female was getting married and for 2 months straight she would call, and text me. It was really uncomfortable because of her situation, but I was "the guy that got away". So I think she was having a crisis and cold feet, and ultimately just wanted to see if there really WAS something between us. There wasn't. She eventually blocked me on facebook because she embarrassed herself, despite me telling her it's okay.

Um, the last one I can think of is this poor girl in highschool who was really shy and overweight. Despite me being not interested in relationships in the least, I actually really do love people in a very general love for humanity, good will towards man, benevolent way; so I don't enjoy these situations and I always feel for them. But anyway, continuing the story, she walked towards me and was visibly nervous, shaking, etc. After a few moments of awkward conversation she finally expressed her feelings and all I could really say was, "I'm sorry, I don't feel that way about you." Tears swelled up in her eyes, and because the memory stands out in my mind, I always make myself very clear with female friends.

And although I've never had any guys confess their love, I have had a few express their intense desire to... do things to me. Again, same response, "I don't feel that way about you, I'm sorry.".
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I was blind sided. My act of friendly gesture on what I think about movies had cornered me on a restaurant filled with the suitor and suitor's friends. Discussing movies, like what the OP is currently fascinated about, was not a good idea in my part. It creates a delusional ideal that what they watch on movies could happen to them, filled with giant rainbows and farts of butterflies. They just want the asian experience since I was the one who's currently present there on that time. Love is for hippies. My existence is solely for the purpose of science and art. Not in particular order.

I just ended up paying for two. The horror.
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I torture it out of them.
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One was at a park. Only one worth remembering.
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My current boyfriend confessed to me that he loved me when we were doing hw. Or should I say was doing homework and then got sidetracked.
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Oh lawd!!! xD Hahahahahaha!!!
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onibrotonel wrote:

I was blind sided. My act of friendly gesture on what I think about movies had cornered me on a restaurant filled with the suitor and suitor's friends. Discussing movies, like what the OP is currently fascinated about, was not a good idea in my part. It creates a delusional ideal that what they watch on movies could happen to them, filled with giant rainbows and farts of butterflies. They just want the asian experience since I was the one who's currently present there on that time. Love is for hippies. My existence is solely for the purpose of science and art. Not in particular order.

I just ended up paying for two. The horror.


Abstract art is a beautiful thing...wouldn't you say? But for the sake of humanity please speak clearly as to what situation you are trying to portray or say
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This guy that I was into a lot confessed that he found me attractive which I thought of it as "he likes me" sorta thing but at the end things didn't go right and now we're not talking.
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The only girl that ever actually confessed to me face to face was in kindergarten or 1st grade.. Everytime after I've found out a girl dug me, was from other people or over the phone(random times).
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It's pretty normal when I get confessed to :v
It's not like they hire a sky writer to tell me >.>
More like "um...do you wanna go out?"
Or they give me a letter
Either way being confessed to has never made me happy...
Even if they are cute :O
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"do you want to sit on my face."
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VintageVengeance wrote:

"do you want to sit on my face."


lmfao
Posted 7/31/13 , edited 8/1/13

pandrasb wrote:

"Maybe you haven't been confessed to yet or confessed to someone yet"

I'm in this category, I only had a crushes in elementary, middle school... all ending in a crash and burn Dx

In high school didn't have a crush, unless you count famous actresses


well I have never confessed to anyone, but women are puzzled by me for some reason and become very shy
when they are thinking of me as more than a friend. every female friend I ever had has become possessive over me. They like
the way I fully show my attention to them or something like that(once you become my friend IRL I will spoil you with attention)
I've even have female FRIENDS(who have boy friends) get jealous of me flirting with women in front of them...I would be too confused
as to why this happen, but neither of us are interested in each other as nothing but friends. <==== I know long story.
One of my female friends (who has a boyfriend) was getting all weird clingy one day and she told me to listen to this song
...so we both put on one ear bud each and there was some female singer I didn't recognize basically singing about how
she loves this guy but that she's too scared to tell him but how that she wish she could tell him and the singer was soo emotional almost like she was crying while singing.
it was soo unexpected and awkward, but I didn't know if she was giving me a message or not so just said ummm...it was a good song after it ended. we were friends through work and the next day she quit...soo I still don't know if that could be considered a confession or not. I would have to go with not....I have had my share of female friends or the friends+ but I mean just say directly the three words I love you....not lets go out or something like that. Does anyone confess in that fashion anymore. I know that when I find the one that I won't hesitate to say it at all.
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Put a red rose in my mail box.
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17 / F / Behind you dear...
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When I feel like someone likes me I avoid them
There have been a couple times where I have been blindsided or cornered.
These two guys (who i both had no interest in) started competing for me? The really shy timid on asked me out first in front of the egotistic one. I said no. Then the egotistic one asked me out the next day in front of the shy one. He was shocked that I told him no also.
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