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How did potential lovers confess their love to you?
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Posted 7/31/13 , edited 7/31/13
Never been confessed to, but I have confessed. It's embarrassing, but i'll share it anyway.

Background Info
In high school, the girl I was enamored with was almost my exact opposite. I was rather reserved and anti-social, whereas she was very assertive and vocal, but not in an obnoxious way. She believed that I was intelligent, kind, and poised (none of which is true) and that she herself was unintelligent, cynical, and uncouth (also untrue). She was also rather dark, and almost "gothic" but in a cute way.

Story
At the time, I was composing poetry and I asked her if she would read it. She agreed, but I never worked up the courage to give it to her. Then, at the end of the year, I took every poem that I had ever written, organized them, and put them into an envelope along with a confession letter (YES an actual confession letter like those ones in anime. I didn't even watch romance anime at the time, yet somehow I still wound up doing that lol). I then gave her the envelope in private along with a short verbal confession.

She then rejected me (in the kindest way possible). I believe she said something to the effect of "I'm not the kind of girl who deserves someone like you. I'm sorry, but i'm sure you'll find someone in the future who's much smarter and kinder." In my head I was thinking WTF are you talking about? But looking back I realized that she really was just trying to preserve my feelings. She was pretty self-conscious, so I think that kind of self-deprecating line came naturally to her and made for an easier rejection.
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Posted 7/31/13

marcel20 wrote:


pandrasb wrote:

"Maybe you haven't been confessed to yet or confessed to someone yet"

I'm in this category, I only had a crushes in elementary, middle school... all ending in a crash and burn Dx

In high school didn't have a crush, unless you count famous actresses


well I have never confessed to anyone, but women are puzzled by me for some reason and become very shy
when they are thinking of me as more than a friend. every female friend I ever had has become possessive over me. They like
the way I fully show my attention to them or something like that(once you become my friend IRL I will spoil you with attention)
I've even have female FRIENDS(who have boy friends) get jealous of me flirting with women in front of them...I would be too confused
as to why this happen, but neither of us are interested in each other as nothing but friends. <==== I know long story.
One of my female friends (who has a boyfriend) was getting all weird clingy one day and she told me to listen to this song
...so we both put on one ear bud each and there was some female singer I didn't recognize basically singing about how
she loves this guy but that she's too scared to tell him but how that she wish she could tell him and the singer was soo emotional almost like she was crying while singing.
it was soo unexpected and awkward, but I didn't know if she was giving me a message or not so just said ummm...it was a good song after it ended. we were friends through work and the next day she quit...soo I still don't know if that could be considered a confession or not. I would have to go with not....I have my share of female friends or the friends+ but I mean say directly the three words I love you....not let go out or something like that. Does anyone confess in that fashion anymore. I know that when I find the one that I won't hesitate to say it at all.


It sounds like you just haven't found the right lady yet, but I think that could count as an indirect confession... maybe

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Posted 8/1/13

marcel20 wrote:


onibrotonel wrote:

I was blind sided. My act of friendly gesture on what I think about movies had cornered me on a restaurant filled with the suitor and suitor's friends. Discussing movies, like what the OP is currently fascinated about, was not a good idea in my part. It creates a delusional ideal that what they watch on movies could happen to them, filled with giant rainbows and farts of butterflies. They just want the asian experience since I was the one who's currently present there on that time. Love is for hippies. My existence is solely for the purpose of science and art. Not in particular order.

I just ended up paying for two. The horror.


Abstract art is a beautiful thing...wouldn't you say? But for the sake of humanity please speak clearly as to what situation you are trying to portray or say


Funny thing is it was all written in English.
Posted 8/1/13
we were in this room with lots of people, and everyone slowly left one by one til it was just the both of us left... and yea we had a convo about things bla bla til it came to the point where he confessed .//A//.; and turns out i liked him too soo.. yeaa X//D
we got together after a while but meh = w = we broke up :3
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Posted 8/1/13
One drew a anime picture that looked like me and it had a speech bubble that asked me out. The others just said they liked me. ._.
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Posted 8/1/13
My current girlfriend met me on a bus on the way home from school. I was being extremely noisy, talking about perverted shit, and she told me to shut the fuck up. Three years later, we're still dating. Does that merit an award for weirdest way to start a relationship? So far, this is by far the greatest relationship I've ever been in when dating. Her family is...Scary, to say the least, but as soon as she's 18, well, we can move on and get a house, and start living together.

And before the pedo-police pull me over and correct me on my choice in women, I don't like older woman, nor ones that are my age. I'm 18, going on 19 in a few months, and she'll be 17 in a few months. Now back off. I prefer younger woman because of an age complex I have. I hate being younger than people, and I don't really get along with people who are my age or older for personal and medical reasons.

Come to think of it, the way our relationship started could be some really good fuel for a romance comedy anime or manga, couldn't it? I mean, it's strange enough.
Posted 8/1/13

onibrotonel wrote:


marcel20 wrote:


onibrotonel wrote:

I was blind sided. My act of friendly gesture on what I think about movies had cornered me on a restaurant filled with the suitor and suitor's friends. Discussing movies, like what the OP is currently fascinated about, was not a good idea in my part. It creates a delusional ideal that what they watch on movies could happen to them, filled with giant rainbows and farts of butterflies. They just want the asian experience since I was the one who's currently present there on that time. Love is for hippies. My existence is solely for the purpose of science and art. Not in particular order.

I just ended up paying for two. The horror.


Abstract art is a beautiful thing...wouldn't you say? But for the sake of humanity please speak clearly as to what situation you are trying to portray or say


Funny thing is it was all written in English.


Yeppers peppers it is surely English, but it is written like a slam poem.
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Posted 8/1/13

VintageVengeance wrote:

"do you want to sit on my face."


hahaha damn straight
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23 / M / West-Central Florida
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Posted 8/1/13
Consider this a blank post. It's a pun that basically says "Unfortunately, no one has ever confessed their love to me before."
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25 / M / NJ
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Posted 8/1/13
After a grueling match of figuring out which responses were the correct ones, i was finally invited to her room where she gave me a motorcycle key and that's where she confessed to me. I also got my Empress Social Link maxed out so that's a bonus.

...oh wait

yea i always have to do the work and asking out :P, its tough
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Posted 8/1/13
Never confessed... But I'm thinking of a School Days-ish thing might do the trick ;)
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Posted 8/1/13
A kiss on the cheek. Cause i'm super oblivious.
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21 / M / Texas
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Posted 8/1/13
Almost every time I've been confessed to was over a text message, lol. Not every romantic or memorable but I guess I'm too intimidating to confess to in person or whatever. I do remember one time I was confessed to by an underclassman, she was one of the weird kids if you may, who was kinda into the scene thing, I was walking around at a football game and she happened to walk up to me and start a conversation. During high school, I tried my best to avoid drama and stuff like that, so I tried to be nice and friends with everyone. So I tried my best to hold a conversation with her whole subtly trying to get away, she asked me things like, "What sports do you like?" and stuff like that, then out of the blue she said that I had a nice butt, and she really liked my eyes and that they were the eyes of a killer, and she thought I was cute. That kinda freaked me out, so if you can imagine a mouse trying to get a away from a cat, that's exactly what I felt here. I have a couple times I've confessed that I'll never forget. I remember one time in the 6th grade, I had a crush on this girl, and at the time I was in my play video games all day and snack stage, so that's all I did was sit in my room and play video games, so you can guess at the time I was kinda overweight, back to my story. Anyway, this girl was the complete opposite of me, she was popular, pretty, all the guys were all over her. So one time I finally got the courage to tell her how I felt, she rejected me saying "I don't like you, you're too fat and ugly to date." You know to a 11 year old boy, that kinda crushes you. I have another one, this time during high school, I was talking to this girl, and things were getting serious, so a couple months past and I told her how I felt and she agreed that she felt the same, so things were fine and dandy and I was happy. Well one day as were texting each other, she tell me that she doesn't feel the same and tells me she doesn't love me anymore. I was devastated and I go onto Facebook and find out she's been talking to and started dating another guy. I've never been so pissed in my life, I tore into her telling her and I said somethings that I honestly do not regret, lol.
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Posted 8/1/13
Ms. No Love Life, right here.
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Confess? That happens?
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