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My absolute no-no:

1) Mr. Know-It-All - arrogant, believes that he is better and more intelligent than most human beings. Talks down to the girls he dates, and generally acts like a d*ck.

2) Sweet talker - the guy who overly uses the words like babe, hun, sexy, gorgeous on the first date. Makes you think that he repeats the same sort of cheesy dialogues to every single girl he meets.

3) The "Nice Guy" - personal biggest turn off. This guy believes that girls won't date him or put him in the friend zone because he is "too nice". Note that I like to date a nice and genuine guy, but not the nice guy who feels sorry for himself, and often lets girls walk over him and that's probably the most unattractive trait a man can have.
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- The Serial Liars:
It doesn't matter if he is attractive, I find lies to be a turn off in general. And because I'm a very analytical person, I see through lies like a transparent window.


- Uninteresting: This is totally subjective. But I've met a guy who is very plain. He works 9-5, goes to the pub sometimes, he doesn't say more than one word when replying to a question. Lives a very simple life in a rural area, has his own house...
He's not shy, that's a different story, he's just... plain.


- Single minded: Doesn't matter what you say to this sort of men, he will keep believing his own ideals no matter how logical your reasoning is. For example, I was talking about how I've taught kids who were refugees, and this guy I was on a date with was ranting about how they won't stay in their own country etc and build a life for themselves over there I mean, I don't take offense to that, and I've tried to explain what a "refugee" is to him... but he wouldn't listen and kept repeating the same ideals to me.

That's when I knew I couldn't date this person.

Sexually unattractive: I don't really care if I get branded "superficial" for this, but I can't date someone I'm not sexually attracted to... that's like asking me to date Justin Bieber. Everybody has their own type, a lot of people are attracted to Justin Bieber, but he's not sexually attractive to me.

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I suppose I'm too picky about these things I blame my analytical brain and also my low tolerance to a lot of things.

But I just don't want to rush into a relationship knowing beforehand I'll get dissatisfied with the person, I'd rather not start one unless I feel 100% I want to be with the person.

I'd rather hurt them sooner rather than later.


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Casanova: A guy who thinks he is gods gift to women, and hits on every female he sees. Ugh get away from me creep.

Immature: I mean emotionally as well as physical for this one. I can't stand men who act like they are still in middle school, I want a man not a boy.

Disrespectful: Should speak for its self, but basically a guy who doesn't respect women and is abusive.

Mama's boy: Guys who are a little too close to their mom in a creepy way, or are looking for a mom not a lover in the relationship.
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Arrogant, mama's boy, immature, a idiot, a nympho or intolerant to people and change.
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Heh, don't date a narcissist, they combine a lot of these traits. One of Carbo's PSA's to women.
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What do women want?
Guys keep asking, women keep us guessing.
And that's why whenever a man is try to figure what a woman wants,
he often looks like a cat chasing a laser pointer.
Confused disoriented but strangely hopeful.

Women seem to want contradictory things in a man.
Women want a man who is ambitious, an achiever,
who is successful both professionally and financially; who is not materialistic.

Women want a man who is solid, steady, consistent and reliable
who is fun, unpredictable and spontaneous.
Women want a strong-willed decisive man who takes a stand and doesn’t waiver
as long as he’s flexible, open minded and can admit when he's wrong.

Women want a lot.
Women want a realist who is romantic.
A guy who is serious but playful.

Who’s confident but humble and horny but faithful.
Women want a man who is career driven, but family oriented.
Women also want a man who is smart but not nerdy,
caring but not needy,
affectionate but not clingy,
protective but not possessive,
emotional but not neurotic,
funny but not a clown,
dominant but not domineering,
in control but not controlling.

No problem.
Good to know.

So take notes guys,
all we gotta be strong but sensitive,
tough but tender, masculine but gentle and manly but vulnerable.

Seems easy enough.

EDIT: The funny thing about this is, I think even though women ask for so much, any one thing that's missing, women can't get ove themselves and all the flaws they have, to get over the few flaws of a man.

EDIT- From Brian Scott McFadden http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qbJOLq5wXwk
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know it all, sweet talker, uninteresting, unattractive, too talkative, doesn't accept me..
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ColouringYourLife wrote:

never liked Know-It-All's

dirty guys

chavs ......

boy racers

a guy that calls me animal names i am not a Chick ¬.¬! am not yellow and am not 5cm tall


Well I am yellow and 5cm tall... what are boy racers by the way?


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- The Serial Liars:
It doesn't matter if he is attractive, I find lies to be a turn off in general. And because I'm a very analytical person, I see through lies like a transparent window.



I don't know why but a lot, I mean a lot of boys that I knew seem to lie all the time to big themselves up, and they are all pathetic little lies and the most stupid thing is they can't even keep the stories straight.


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Mama's boy: Guys who are a little too close to their mom in a creepy way, or are looking for a mom not a lover in the relationship.


Mummy's boy is definitely one of the biggest turn off, I dated a guy who worshipped his sister in a really unhealthy way, imagine how N. Koreans worship Kim Jong Un and that's him to his sis. He told me on the first date that his sister is and will be the most important person in his life.
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Haha Girl talk is funny to read...back to science and politics for me
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The male type.
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I mean some guys don't have a choice in being the overly nice guy because people have made him that way it's a selfesteem issue. I think female should pay more attention to that guy because he understand emotions and treats weman with respect.
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This thread is hilarious.
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the poverty type
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the type that are unmotivated, arrogant, or ignorant.
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I have yet for someone to prove my previous reply wrong.
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