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19 / F / Edina, MN, USA
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Posted 8/14/13
Just curious...
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20 / M / Outside of LA
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When i dated someone who watch, read, and draw yaoi i was a little shocked on what her thoughts were when i would hang around my friends. I would get mad but playfully. But its just something she has an interest in. Although it is highly different between guys and yuri. Honestly i read and watched some yaoi and there are good ones just like any other anime.
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Well I'm a dude who's not even in a relationship but oh well I'm here now. From my perspective as a guy, since I don't mind yuri, if I had a girlfriend who's into yaoi I wouldn't really care nor have a right to complain. Though I'd prefer if she didn't look at stuff related to it and so on whilst I was in the same room.
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I wouldn't really mind but I'd ask what's their favorite thing in a yaoi, just to know what they like.
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I wouldn't really care one way or the other. We all have our things. Whatever she's into is what she's into. I won't really say anything about a girl being into something unless it is exceedingly dangerous like street drugs.
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I'm not dating anyone now, but when I did have a boyfriend and I told him about it, he didn't really care.
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17 / F / USA
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I dated a guy who was into it once.
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20 / F / England
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He watches it with me!
At first he didn't really get it, but since I explained it from a different point of view (it's just like regular romance anime but with an added 'forbidden' aspect, and more complex thoughts, not just 'ZOMG BISHIES KYAAAAA'), he was more open. Soon I got him to watch yuri with me, and yaoi wasn't far after~ It's really nice.
(Still haven't convinced him to write me a yaoi fanfiction, though )
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If they make a big deal out of it, I'd say you may consider leaving him. Of course there are several other variables to consider, but if they are just completely opposed to you liking it, it's a good time to stop and think about your relationship. The same should go for guys' interests too though. Take turns picking stuff and see how it goes.
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I don't have a boyfriend yet. When I do get one, I will tell him. I don't want to keep that from him.
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19 / F / Canada
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If the guy has any interest at all in female on female then he has no right to complain to me about what I look at or watch. If he complained, h would be out the door in less than a second. I don't care for double standards. I can watch what I want, when I want.
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28 / F / georgia, usa
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well im married lol but he didnt really know i was that into it until after we got married. over all he doesn't seem to care, he teases me about it a lot especially how giddy i get reading it lol he says i get the goofy smile of a teenager whos found their parents porn stash but over all he seems indifferent to it, he just doesn't like walking up behind me and getting a view full of the page i'm looking at when its full blown sex :p but to that i only say "well you should know better then to read over my shoulder" lol
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my guy friend likes traps :O
does that count as yaoi or what....?
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oPerfectIrony wrote:

my guy friend likes traps :O
does that count as yaoi or what....?


I think your subliminal friend zone message is more of a
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20 / M / Maryland
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Posted 8/14/13
I'm a guy who's never been in a relationship, but it falls under the way I am with pretty much everything else: if it looks good or i enjoy it, then so be it. (i.e. i like it, yuri, straight stuff, it'd basically a be a shorter list of things I won't touch with a 20 foot pole)
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