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Depending on the situation. When you're just alone or something, is it okay? (Other than a death).

I find myself always in a trance, or daydreaming. I'll listen to OST's or music that will make me cry. No to pry into anything personal, I have low self-esteem. I've been told I'm very light-hearted, so I guess that's a good thing.

Is it okay to cry?
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dude. yes. obviously.
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20 / F / *in his heart and...
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Posted 8/14/13

tf2pyros wrote:

Depending on the situation. When you're just alone or something, is it okay? (Other than a death).

I find myself always in a trance, or daydreaming. I'll listen to OST's or music that will make me cry. No to pry into anything personal, I have low self-esteem. I've been told I'm very light-hearted, so I guess that's a good thing.

Is it okay to cry?


I had low self-esteem too so I hated to cry in front of people when my eyes started to water I would punch myself in the leg to make the tears go away I saw crying as a sign of weakness but, it's a sign of being human now I'm a lot better and a natural cry baby ^^; so yes it's okay
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Nothing wrong with crying as long as you don't do it so often it's a problem.
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Yes, it's fine.
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Crying is fine, especially if you're young or pregnant, or otherwise subject to hormonal upheaval. It's part of growing up. However, rather like exploring your sexuality (another part of growing up), crying is a private thing and is best kept to yourself. If you must share your crying time, then please do so with your family and friends instead of with the world.

Personally, I hate crying and haven't done it for years. But I'm an established adult with no bun in the oven. When I was pregnant I would find myself tearing up during Hallmark commercials, which was horribly embarrassing. I had been dry-eyed for years prior to my pregnancy, and have remained pretty stoic since, so it's pretty clear that being pregnant made me weirdly weepy as well as puffy around the wrists and ankles.
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Of course it's ok to cry, if any one makes fun of you for it, you tell them it takes a bigger man to show emotion than it does to keep it cooped up.
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...Yeah. I like to think so.

I used to think that it wasn't, but I was wrong. I only like to cry alone, though...
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It's perfectly fine. There are many things that make us cry and it doesn't need to be something tragic. Music effects us all differently and can sometimes get us into that deep emotion. But other than that, its just good to let it out sometimes.
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idk... probably going to give a bias answer unless you wan't to get something done... in my opinion i say yes and no -_- i like the feeling of crying and at the same time hate it because i rarely feel that sad emotion reflex so it feels good but feel's bad at the same time...
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No shame in letting bodily fluids out through your eyes.
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I think it's fine.. unless you're like a waterfall and do it all the time.. then it's just awkward for everyone around you!
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Yes it's fine
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people have said yes .. it is ok to cry... but the answer is no... it is not 'ok' to cry ...


if you are crying something is not 'ok' ... so that is the answer....


to fix this.. you must find the problem yourself.
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I hate to see children getting hurt. I would never hurt my children even to teach a lesson. If you cry, then you let someone know why and they will defend you.
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