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Post Reply Why Are Homophobes Obsessed with Gay Men But Ignore Lesbians?
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Posted 8/17/13 , edited 8/17/13
Lesbians are hot. Men are... very hairy and.... gay love involves........... very dirty sexy, with 2 hairy dudes going at it. And I'm talking about real gay men. The kinda gay men I hang out with. They're simply men who like other MEN. Not MEN who like men who act like.. in their own words "faggots".

I have nothing personal against gays. I'm just saying it how I see it. Most gay men are just.. too strange. Also.. I'm not gay. No matter how much gay dudes try to convince me I am..
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kamosuzo wrote:
Hmm... I wonder...

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-big-questions/201106/homophobic-men-most-aroused-gay-male-porn

So funny.

Oldthrashbar wrote:
And I'm talking about real gay men. The kinda gay men I hang out with. They're simply men who like other MEN. Not MEN who like men who act like.. in their own words "faggots".

So guys who screw bears are more gay than guys who screw fairies? I don't think it works like that.
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Em0SceneStabr wrote:

I think it's because women are viewed as delicate beings (says society) and when you have 2 delicate things touching each other it doesn't sound so odd. But Men are supposed to be strong and masculine (says society) So when you have them doing "womanly things" like being penetrated it is a lot or shocking and Different from the "Norm" than to females "touching" each other.


Probably this.

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It's generally accepted (or well, less disturbing among other things) if its girl to girl. Not so much for boy to boy.
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Oldthrashbar wrote:
Yaoi is hot. Women are... very bushy and.... gay love involves........... very dirty sexy, (sure you're not a fag?) with 2 bushy hoes going at it. And I'm talking about real gay women. The kinda gay women I hang out with. They're simply women who like other WOMEN. Not WOMEN who like women who act like.. in their own words "dykes".

I have nothing personal against gays. I'm just saying it how I see it. Most gay women are just.. too strange. Also.. I'm not gay. No matter how much gay chicks try to convince me I am..
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FlyinDumpling wrote:

Gay men seem to be more stigmatized than gay women. Is it because of the idea that girl on girl action is something "hot" to most straight men? Of course this statement is made with the presumption that these homophobes are presumably straight males, take the question anyway you want

For some more insight:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TLSwuI8ewIY


As for your question, probably because the vast majority of "homophobes", as it were, are heterosexual males. Obviously. And to expand, gay guys are all the straight guys have to worry about.

I don't promote homosexuality because it is just not natural, but I won't condemn someone if they are (I have a couple gay friends). Same goes for both genders.
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It's not just repressed Freudian attraction. It's disgust.

Psychologically speaking, disgust is one of the strongest triggers for hatred and violence in the human mind.

Though, I think it's great that in our current era, men who obsess about what a horrible abomination gay sex is, are now stigmatized as being homosexuals themselves in the view of the public. It does a lot to curb their bullshit when everyone starts whispering (he must be a fag) behind the bigot's back, or straight to his face. Fuck em, they deserve it. The old generations are dying out and the new wave of liberated thinkers are taking over. Shows progress.
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Posted 8/18/13
Muh equal rights.
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They're insecure, and most likely attracted to men themselves so they want to bury it in insecurities and hate for homosexual males. It's really funny seeing how they react sometimes though. They honestly overreact in my opinion.
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Such kind, decent, intelligent people here on this thread. I bet if we ran the planet, it would be a world free of "morality" and "religion" and anything else that would get in the way of our bodily desires(the most important thing, of course). If only we, the intelligent, educated, people could re-educate all those silly people about their silly ideas of Marriage and Individual Responsibility.
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My sister and I wonder the same things. Our brother is against men on men but likes women on women. He's so stubborn when me and my sis tries to tell him it's the same darn thing and he just to close minded to hear. So we just don't bother arguing with him.
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Well, I wouldn't say they "ignore" lesbians; they objectify lesbians. To the point they don't see lesbians as anything more than for pleasure, and ignore lesbains that aren't "hot" enough. So, still incredibly homophobic!
But lesbians do get incredibly ignored none-the-less, since a lot of pro-gay is towards gay males and barely acknowledges female homosexuality, among other things. It's complicated, there's all sorts of shades to homophobia and support. Making assumptions isn't really fair when talking about weirdly complex beings such as humans.
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Well in the Bible it says nothing about Lesbians. :P
haha idk thats all i can say XD
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sasakibomb wrote:

Well in the Bible it says nothing about Lesbians. :P
haha idk thats all i can say XD


That's probably true only because female homosexuality was something that wasn't even acknowledged as existing back then. I mean, women having sex between them? Hell, even having feelings ? They were, like, you know, those things that kinda happened in a family and then you traded to another man in exchange for something else. When they were 12 or 13, possibly.

As to modern day homophobes, the short explanation is just that the thought of man-on-man turns them off, while woman-on-woman does not. Of course, being hetero, I am not interested (and found definitely unattractive) by the thought/sight of sex between men, but I expect homosexuals to feel the same towards straight sex. Declaring it "immoral" and "against nature" is an idiotic generalization of personal tastes - as if I said that I don't like pizza, HENCE pizza is against the will of God and all pizza must be destroyed.

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sasakibomb wrote:

Well in the Bible it says nothing about Lesbians. :P
haha idk thats all i can say XD


Actually it does. Both the old and new testaments condemn it. Even if you want to try and take the most flimsy of interpretations the overall message is the same in both books, everything outside of the prescribed "husband and wife" context is looked at as taboo, a sin, evil, what-have-you.

Leviticus 18:22; Leviticus 20:13; 1 Corinthians 6:9 Romans 1:26

Not that I actually think anyone should give a flying fuck what a bunch of asshats from the bronze age think... They were wrong then and time has done nothing to improve the morbid stupidity which saturated their dogmatic nonsense.
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