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Post Reply Why Are Homophobes Obsessed with Gay Men But Ignore Lesbians?
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Posted 8/17/13

PauPow wrote:

Because homophobes and people who act violently towards homosexuals are often gays in the closet. It is relatively common to feel "uncomfortable" with some subjects (specially regarding the sex subject) but acting aggressively or insulting gays and lesbians just because they are holding hands often indicates that that person has unsolved issues about himself.

And for those who like clear facts this is a REAL list of 16 hardcore anti-gay politicians who got busted BIG time:
1) Caleb Douglas Hesse: busted with underage boys.
2) George Rekers: busted using rentboy.com to get his personal boy toy.
3) Pastor Eddie Long: Being sued by 4 different young men for sexual harassment.
4) Troy King: Busted big time by his wife having sex with a young man.
5) Richard Curtis: One of my favorites ones. Pretty hardcore anti-gay militant… until male prostitute Cody Castagna showed pictures of Curtis wearing a red negligee while having sex and watching gay porn.
6) Ted Haggard: Busted with male prostitute Mike Jones and meth. After being busted Haggard said “I’m not homosexual, I’m just an heterosexual with issues”. ^_^
7) Glenn Murphy Jr. Busted trying to perform oral sex to another young Republican while that man slept.
8) David Dreier: Republican member of the U.S. House of Representatives who has voted against gay marriage rights, gay legal rights and gay adoption rights. Accused of having sex with members of his staff and even paying his alleged boyfriend a high salary. (boy toys ain’t cheap son!)
9) Bruce Barclay: Republican commissioner accused of raping a 20 years old man and hundreds of videotapes with him having sex with young men.
10) Roy Ashburn: busted DUI with a gay man in his car after picking him up in a gay bar.
11) Jim West: Hardcore antigay mayor busted in the mysterious website gay.com (0/5 in originality!)
12) Larry Craig: busted in 2007 for cottaging an undercover police officer.
13) Ed Schrock: Caught on tape asking for the services of a male prostitute.
14) Robert Allen: Florida State Representative, Arrested for offering to perform fellatio to an undercover cop in the men's room of a park for $20.
15) Mark Foley: Busted having sexual conversations with two boys age 16 and 18.
16) Phillip Hinkle: Caught giving money to a 18 years old teen on… wait for it… Craiglist.

All the previously mentioned men were hardcore anti-gay politicians who voted many time against equal rights... until they got busted.
Show me an homophobe and I will show you a busy closet.


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Lesbians are hot. Men are... very hairy and.... gay love involves........... very dirty sexy, with 2 hairy dudes going at it. And I'm talking about real gay men. The kinda gay men I hang out with. They're simply men who like other MEN. Not MEN who like men who act like.. in their own words "faggots".

I have nothing personal against gays. I'm just saying it how I see it. Most gay men are just.. too strange. Also.. I'm not gay. No matter how much gay dudes try to convince me I am..
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Posted 8/17/13 , edited 8/17/13

kamosuzo wrote:
Hmm... I wonder...

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-big-questions/201106/homophobic-men-most-aroused-gay-male-porn

So funny.

Oldthrashbar wrote:
And I'm talking about real gay men. The kinda gay men I hang out with. They're simply men who like other MEN. Not MEN who like men who act like.. in their own words "faggots".

So guys who screw bears are more gay than guys who screw fairies? I don't think it works like that.
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Posted 8/17/13

Em0SceneStabr wrote:

I think it's because women are viewed as delicate beings (says society) and when you have 2 delicate things touching each other it doesn't sound so odd. But Men are supposed to be strong and masculine (says society) So when you have them doing "womanly things" like being penetrated it is a lot or shocking and Different from the "Norm" than to females "touching" each other.


Probably this.

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Posted 8/17/13 , edited 8/17/13
It's generally accepted (or well, less disturbing among other things) if its girl to girl. Not so much for boy to boy.
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Posted 8/17/13

Oldthrashbar wrote:
Yaoi is hot. Women are... very bushy and.... gay love involves........... very dirty sexy, (sure you're not a fag?) with 2 bushy hoes going at it. And I'm talking about real gay women. The kinda gay women I hang out with. They're simply women who like other WOMEN. Not WOMEN who like women who act like.. in their own words "dykes".

I have nothing personal against gays. I'm just saying it how I see it. Most gay women are just.. too strange. Also.. I'm not gay. No matter how much gay chicks try to convince me I am..
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Posted 8/17/13

FlyinDumpling wrote:

Gay men seem to be more stigmatized than gay women. Is it because of the idea that girl on girl action is something "hot" to most straight men? Of course this statement is made with the presumption that these homophobes are presumably straight males, take the question anyway you want

For some more insight:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TLSwuI8ewIY


As for your question, probably because the vast majority of "homophobes", as it were, are heterosexual males. Obviously. And to expand, gay guys are all the straight guys have to worry about.

I don't promote homosexuality because it is just not natural, but I won't condemn someone if they are (I have a couple gay friends). Same goes for both genders.
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Posted 8/17/13
It's not just repressed Freudian attraction. It's disgust.

Psychologically speaking, disgust is one of the strongest triggers for hatred and violence in the human mind.

Though, I think it's great that in our current era, men who obsess about what a horrible abomination gay sex is, are now stigmatized as being homosexuals themselves in the view of the public. It does a lot to curb their bullshit when everyone starts whispering (he must be a fag) behind the bigot's back, or straight to his face. Fuck em, they deserve it. The old generations are dying out and the new wave of liberated thinkers are taking over. Shows progress.
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Posted 8/18/13
Muh equal rights.
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24 / M / Florida
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Posted 8/18/13
They're insecure, and most likely attracted to men themselves so they want to bury it in insecurities and hate for homosexual males. It's really funny seeing how they react sometimes though. They honestly overreact in my opinion.
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Such kind, decent, intelligent people here on this thread. I bet if we ran the planet, it would be a world free of "morality" and "religion" and anything else that would get in the way of our bodily desires(the most important thing, of course). If only we, the intelligent, educated, people could re-educate all those silly people about their silly ideas of Marriage and Individual Responsibility.
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Posted 8/18/13
My sister and I wonder the same things. Our brother is against men on men but likes women on women. He's so stubborn when me and my sis tries to tell him it's the same darn thing and he just to close minded to hear. So we just don't bother arguing with him.
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Posted 8/18/13
Well, I wouldn't say they "ignore" lesbians; they objectify lesbians. To the point they don't see lesbians as anything more than for pleasure, and ignore lesbains that aren't "hot" enough. So, still incredibly homophobic!
But lesbians do get incredibly ignored none-the-less, since a lot of pro-gay is towards gay males and barely acknowledges female homosexuality, among other things. It's complicated, there's all sorts of shades to homophobia and support. Making assumptions isn't really fair when talking about weirdly complex beings such as humans.
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Posted 8/18/13
Well in the Bible it says nothing about Lesbians. :P
haha idk thats all i can say XD
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Posted 8/18/13

sasakibomb wrote:

Well in the Bible it says nothing about Lesbians. :P
haha idk thats all i can say XD


That's probably true only because female homosexuality was something that wasn't even acknowledged as existing back then. I mean, women having sex between them? Hell, even having feelings ? They were, like, you know, those things that kinda happened in a family and then you traded to another man in exchange for something else. When they were 12 or 13, possibly.

As to modern day homophobes, the short explanation is just that the thought of man-on-man turns them off, while woman-on-woman does not. Of course, being hetero, I am not interested (and found definitely unattractive) by the thought/sight of sex between men, but I expect homosexuals to feel the same towards straight sex. Declaring it "immoral" and "against nature" is an idiotic generalization of personal tastes - as if I said that I don't like pizza, HENCE pizza is against the will of God and all pizza must be destroyed.

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