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I just want to ask what is your thoughts on virginity and sex? Do you want to lose it or keep it before marriage?
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My thoughts are that I want to keep it for after marriage. During high school people are just rushing into sex and talking about it like it is a big deal, and I don't want to be part of that. I feel like it is really special and I don't want to just go and get wasted. When I was younger my mom told me something that really stood out to me. We are Christians and when she was talking to me one day I thought she was going to bring up something about God and how He says we should do it with our husband, but she talked about how a lot of people will pressure you but they will never be there for you in the end. And ain't that the damn truth. >.<
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One's virginity is a very special thing, and most guys are terrible, so...
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^ Lmao
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minatothegreatjiraiya wrote:

One's virginity is a very special thing, and most guys are terrible, so...


Meh, the same thing is also with women...

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I'd essentially have to lose it before marriage because I don't really want to get married. But I'd take my time and be really careful about it. At the end of the day it is sex, and not the be all and end all.
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Sebby_chan wrote:


minatothegreatjiraiya wrote:

One's virginity is a very special thing, and most guys are terrible, so...


Meh, the same thing is also with women...



Did I say guys? I may have meant people.
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Posted 8/30/13

minatothegreatjiraiya wrote:


Sebby_chan wrote:


minatothegreatjiraiya wrote:

One's virginity is a very special thing, and most guys are terrible, so...


Meh, the same thing is also with women...



Did I say guys? I may have meant people.


Ditto to that
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Posted 8/30/13
I wont have sex with someone until I've been in a relationship with them for a year.
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So many young people on this forum lol...... i guess if you havnt lost it keep it till it means something.... idk i lost mine at 13 and i kind of regret it to be honest.
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I think you are absolutely right to wait until you are married. Your virginity is a special gift that should only be shared with your spouse. Most people by the time they are ready to marry have lost theirs and it's not something they will ever get back. This is a sad reality. Your mom is right about what she says about people wanting to pressure you and they will not be there for you in the end. That is something I have experienced over and over again. Hold tight and don't lose sight on what's important!
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Never losing my virginity. Honestly speaking, I dislike the idea of interacting with other peoples private areas very much.. Frankly I find them gross to look at. People can argue that I'm gay, but in all honesty, I would rather die than have to go through with sex. Label me as a prude or whatever, doesn't really bother me as it's not true.

Tl;dr: genitalia is disgusting and I wouldn't touch it with a 10 foot pole.
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Well I can't say I'd rush into it. But if we were in a relationship for a while I don't mind.
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Your body is a temple. What your eat, drink, smoke, listen to, touch, heat or cold, all have an effect.

Sex is no different...but sex should not be trivialized...it is a paring and a bonding to another human being that you 'should' trust with your life, because it can easily create one.

Yes I know their are all types of birth control, but that won't keep you from getting sexually transmitted diseases...

Women are not receptacles....and men are not dildos or plugs....neither are toys!

Sex commands respect...don't have sex just to have sex...if you are a virgin, you are a special surprise package waiting to be opened by the right person...for life...not for a thrill.

Human beings are fragile...on both sides. Chose your mates wisely...because you will be stuck with them forever...or what they leave behind...and no...it won't be a piece of empty baggage...

Yeah, I'm old fashioned....so sue me...
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I saw so many people just throw themselves around sexually throughout high school, personally I found it stupid and repulsive. I don't necessarily think you have to wait until marriage, but at least save it for a very long lasting and meaningful relationship. I got so tired of the majority of people around me more or less being whores/sluts (that goes for both genders) by the time I finished high school it made me immediately morally repulsed by most people. (I'm not religious, I just stick to my own sense of moral values.)
Ideally, to me you should only have sex with someone you will most likely spend the rest of your life with. But I understand that's romanticizing things and in reality you probably wouldn't find a perfect relationship like that the first time. But people I knew in high school that had already had sex with 2+ people I just found it disgusting and I hated them as people.
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I think that most typical males should care more about other things other than sex/virginity. They should be more like me.....staying in there room playing PropHunt and watching Gintama'. ^---^
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