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How hard is it for you to make friends? (inspired by watamote anime)
Posted 12/6/15
It's actually kind of hard for me.

I can't trust people like how I used to.

As I grow older, I've become pretty cynical.
Posted 12/6/15
Around a 3. I get along with some people easier than others. I just find some easier to approach.
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Posted 12/6/15
You could say that I have...trust issues...

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Posted 12/13/15
Really hard. Not because I'm shy or anything, but I'd rather not hang out with fake people.
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Posted 12/13/15
I have two good friends and one that's moving back soon. I don't have as many close friends as I want. I'm shy and I'm not in school anymore so there aren't many opportunities to make new friends.
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Posted 12/13/15
I have no idea how! Somebody write a detailed instruction manual please!
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Posted 12/14/15
Recently I've realized.... there is absolutely nothing to talk about!!!! I think as I grew up, I either became a really boring person or no one I've talked to has the same interests as me. Because it's sooooooo hard to talk to people, even close friends. There seems to be no topic to talk about.

Of course it doesn't help that I have social anxiety and get really self conscious and awkward.
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Posted 12/15/15
I have a single friend that I haven't seen in months or contacted in weeks, so that may shrink to zero friends eventually...

I've found that I'd rather not have friends. I tried to become friends with the new girl in school, but in the end I just decided one day that I'd rather be alone. I prefer to be friends with people I can trust and that have many things in common with me.

I have trouble becoming friends with people, especially since when I try to talk to someone, they always get distracted in the middle of our conversation and I basically am cut out of it. I find it easier to just not be friends with anybody and talk to people only when necessary.
Posted 2/24/16 , edited 2/24/16

eclair-lumiere wrote:

I have no idea how! Somebody write a detailed instruction manual please!


i need one too. if only there were a dummy's guide to making friends
Posted 2/24/16

elmoisred3 wrote:

Recently I've realized.... there is absolutely nothing to talk about!!!! I think as I grew up, I either became a really boring person or no one I've talked to has the same interests as me. Because it's sooooooo hard to talk to people, even close friends. There seems to be no topic to talk about.

Of course it doesn't help that I have social anxiety and get really self conscious and awkward.


so true...
well even with a common topic like anime, i can't really talk about it for long, but i know some people can circle around a topic for hours and hours.
Posted 2/24/16
3
I'm a nice and funny guy but I have problems approaching people.
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Posted 2/24/16
I voted a 4. I just can't relate to the people around me. Most of the closest and lifelong friends I've had are spread out on the globe, so we rarely meet up or we keep in touch once in a while. I'm also one of those people who moved around a lot, so eventually I found it pointless to have close relationships with people. The times I have to go out and socialize with people are obligatory.
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Posted 2/24/16
4 It's difficult to make friends but I'm super comfortable talking with strangers otherwise it would've been a 5.

I'm introverted but not the 100% kind, more like 20%.
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Posted 2/24/16
I like meeting new people... I just never hang out with them
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Posted 2/24/16
^
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Posted 2/24/16
I have a few friends but i consider most of the people i talk to acquaintances, it takes a while for me to trust someone.
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