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How to tell if a female is into you?
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There are so many ways to tell..

The most common obvious ones I saw in high school were when they asked me "Can I wear your jacket", always asked for hugs, or bit their lip whenever they talked to me.

Then there's the huge list of the subtle, small signs that some people have been posting on here already.

The most annoying one was the sit on your lap with a skirt and no panties; like get off me ho
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Listen to what the females have said and take it to heart. They said all of what I would have said. My best advice is you're in college, aim for any girl you're interested in because you and they are there for the experiences. College will be one of the best times of your life if you just let go (but be smart about it).

The only time interest gets complicated is if you're good/best friends, almost nothing ever good comes out of following that route.
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umm not sure lol
but for sure she'll make time for you
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Mycow8me wrote:

The Deredere... They fire a moe moe kyun beam at you.

The Yandere... They put both their hands against there face and blush while staring directly into your eyes without looking away. Beware of these ones.

The Dandere... To embarrassed to do anything in public, get them alone.

The Undere... Selfless and agrees to anything you say.

The Tsundere... likes to act tough and pick on you.

The Coodere... Acts like she hates you but randomly shows affection.

There are others but I got lazy.


You surely know all of this. Are you expecting something in your own part of lovelife?
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Women actually do this stuff?

Either I'm as oblivious as a brick or I've never met a girl interested in me. Or both.
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Body language, the way she looks at you. if she touches her hair. if she looks nervous. her posture. if she wont look at you in the eyes. couple ways ; )
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lowcee wrote:

im a girl but i generally become shy because sometimes there is that intense hot feeling that i bet the guy doesn't feel at all.

also, i barely show any interest. haha hard to get?


I used to feel overly warm in those situations back in my teen days. Bad part was I started turning red in the face.

Though anymore, relationships are too much of a hassle so I no longer date. Too many people dating/marrying anymore for lust, greed, revenge..at least in my general area girls tend to be terribly spoiled. No offense to the non greedy ladies on the planet. But when a girl asks about your annual income, housing and what kind of car(s) you have you better get ready to run or be fleeced. Guys are the same way too, I'm lucky I'm not one of these types. Being poor sucks but it sure shows who your true friends / loved ones are.



As for the topic of how you may know if a girl is in to you. Just look for the obvious, if she is constantly looking at you without an angry look she may be into you. Though I would suggest having something reflective to look at just incase you have something on your face.

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I ask the girl out on a date. well given that I'm into her, but then again why would you want to know if someone is into you that your not into?Anyways If she goes and we have a good time (laughs a lot, solid conversation flow, we both agree to a second date) then chances are that she's into you. If the date lasts longer than planned its a good sign too. Idk, I have that kind of mentality where I don't like to chase a girl for very long without being sure I'm chasing someone I can catch.
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me: So... how're you and your boyfriend doing?
girl: Boyfriend? I don't have a boyfriend :/
me: Oh, what a coincidence, I don't have a girlfriend either.
girl: Are you saying you want to date or something?
me: Well it would be a whole lot better than the both of us being single and lonely :P

The girl will then tell you weather or not she's interested in dating, or she'll have told you all about her and her boyfriend earlier in the conversation.

This is the "safe" method used by guys that just aren't sure if a girl is into them or not. It's saved me a few times from awkward rejections and actually ended up in a relationship for me once haha.

Good luck!
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Even if they do turn you down you can play it off as no big deal and save yourself the awkwardness of running into a girl that totally rejected you
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You could always ask.

Turns out it is an effective way of getting an answer more times than not.
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Posted 9/17/13

Dobie wrote:

You could always ask.

Turns out it is an effective way of getting an answer more times than not.


Ask the female if she's attracted to you?
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i would say how to tell is if you talk to here and she tells you what guy she's into if it protains to your persona then that a hint, if she starts to respond regularly thats one and if she goes out of her way to say hi to you, or if she is willing to give one of your favorite things to do a shot these are my thoughts
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Is she being flirty? Is she hinting that she's interested in you with what she's saying or her actions? Those are some of the things you should think about and put into consideration. However, asking is a far more direct way of finding out. I understand sometimes you can be shy or whatever the case may be so if that's the case then, depending on the circumstances. You may never find out. You can have someone else do it for you but most girls or at least girls I know, would rather the person that likes them ask them because that shows that you're not nervous or scared or that you have guts
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22 / M / Livingston, Louis...
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Posted 9/17/13
They poke your belly cause it's like jelly?...

Just kidding, although a lot of girls seem to do this to me. Shame I'm too lazy to work for a six pack. I'll get one one day.

If she knows you're a freak and still hangs around you, I should think that says something about a girl. My girlfriend has an extremely high tolerance for pervy stuff, and she has this weird habit of poking my belly and my sides when we hang out, so that's where I guessed this from.
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