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Posted 9/19/13
Ever feel like your unattractive compared to many other people around you? Personally, viewing those around me who dont have to wear much and still look cool or cute so easily kind of have me feeling down at times. Nice, colored eyes or hair types such as natural reddish brown, things like that.. Sure you could "re-create" yourself with dyes and contacts, makeup, etc. but it can be a hassle.
I would love to look in the mirror or take a photograph where i Am not unhappy about it.
Yes i understand personality is important but realistically speaking you dont notice that first now do you? That is what makes you stay.

Anyway, i want to hear if any of you have these moments and what do you personally do to get all "dolled up"?
(Sorry if something similar has been posted)
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I'm a young man, and I feel unattractive. I don't have acne, I'm not overweight, and I don't smell. I shave properly, I dress very nice most of the time, and I've been raised as a gentleman.

Out of all of this, I still feel unattractive. I have moles on my face, hardly noticeable since my 5 o' clock shadow or scruff covers it, and I feel like people stare at that more than my eyes. I do my best to show-off to the public to the best of my ability, but there's always something amiss. I feel as if "wannabe gangsters" nowadays get all the good in early life. But, that's from my personal experience around here.
Posted 9/19/13
I only feel unattractive when I've not been taking good care of myself. Other than that, I don't think there's any reason to see oneself that way.
Posted 9/19/13
I don't think I've ever felt unattractive, per se, but I've felt like I was 'not wanted'.
In the same way, I don't think I've ever felt attractive, but I've felt like I was 'wanted'.

Feeling 'not wanted' is something I feel all the time.
Feeling 'wanted' (or as if I 'belong') is something I've only felt once. And it is unlikely that I will feel that again because of what it requires.
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yes, most of my friends are pretty inside out, they doll me up
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I'm mostly don't feel aware of how attractive I am or not - I don't really pay attention to that much, and differences relative to other people don't really happen much.

Although most of the time when I look in a mirror, I think something along the lines of "damn, I'm sexy". Any flaws I notice in my appearance are an afterthought, such as "damn, I'm sexy, but I could do with a few kilos of muscles" or "damn, I'm sexy, but it looks like I'm a week overdue for a shave". Overall, I think I have the whole self-esteem thing down pat.
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Is it an overreaction to say that I always feel unattractive?
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No i've always been secretly overconfident about my looks and I don't care for other people's opinions, good or bad. Don't want it.
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All the time. I'm a horribly awkward skeleton, kinda short, bad face, bad hair, boring and negative personality. I'm unattractive inside and out. But we're friends on facebook and I think you're attractive (~like a facebook creeper), you shouldn't be so hard on yourself. Just my 2 cents of an opinion.
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Posted 9/19/13
Nope, never felt unattractive and don't use makeup because it's a too much of hassle for me to consider it worth my time.

In short...
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Posted 9/19/13 , edited 9/19/13
No, i duna worry bout it................boys to men,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,I graduated..............
I see beauty in all people, everyone has one or more lovely feature..men, women,
some 'great beauties" i dunn dig at all..
some folk on the street knock yer socks off...to be beholdin' beauty is the skin,,,beauty
is also buried deep with in heart...Bukowski for example,,,poet writer, vuglar, to the eye,quite the ugly
sort, but my mentor, MY MUSE, of which I am but a dark one at that...
Beware the muse that writes using your heart...
Posted 9/19/13 , edited 9/19/13
Sometimes, but it's only natural.

At the end of the day, people are going to like you, for you. If they don't, why keep them in your life?
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Posted 9/19/13
I feel unattractive right now because I haven't showered, but I think everyone at some point thinks they are unattractive; its a product of the media...
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24 / M / SoCal, HB
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Posted 9/19/13
"Ever feel like your unattractive compared to many other people around you?"

Yeah, But I don't really care that much, I'll let people rate me off my actions.

but physically
- short
- awkward posture (hunched and long neck)
- bad teeth (crooked)
- round face (?)
- skeleton skinny
- crap hair
- bad face in general
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Posted 9/19/13
Sometimes, I used to feel a lot worse about myself before I was in a relationship, but now I have much more self confidence :).
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder after all :3
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