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Post Reply what is first on your priority list in terms of overall life goal?
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Posted 9/21/13

IamChamp wrote:



nah, ur not forgiven ..
Keep judging me, I like it ..
either or u made me feel like a douche bag for a min ... it's cool (;


No no it was my fault. I don't have no right to judge you on a misunderstanding it's not right.
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Posted 9/24/13
Id say my number one goal is to be happy. So far so good,.
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Posted 9/26/13
A girl likes me, and me her. What we are is indescribable, like best friends but more, more than anything i can think of, it's just like we are attached completely to each other.

Been about 6 months now, sadly her past BF's were horrible to her, one of them even stabbed her...
So she is scared of taking steps forward, which is hard for me because i am scared of not moving forward and her to stop liking me....
Just going to have to be there for her, support her and keep making her happy until she decides she is ready for me and to take the next awesome step forward.

Family has always been important for me so yeah....

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26 / M / Canada
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Posted 9/26/13
Third option, easy. I'm very much an idea guy. I don't need lots of money, or tons of friends, or even a significant other. As long as my basic needs are met, and I have access to a computer and the internet, or a library and a pen and paper, I can be reasonably happy. All I really want to do is think.

Second would be relationships. While I'm not too interested in going out and making friends, the ones that I do have are important to me. Similarly, I'm not actively looking for a girlfriend, but if I find one anyway, I'm sure I'd value her a lot.

Career is a tertiary concern. Ideally, I'd like to make my career and my ideas one and the same, but it's not out of any desire to share my ideas or anything - I just don't like wasting my time on work that I don't enjoy. I'll endure other work for the sake of my livelihood, but I don't understand the appeal of power and money, especially when it takes so much time and boring effort to attain them. I'd be far happier just doing my own thing.
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25 / M / Sydney, Australia
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Posted 9/28/13

Bavalt wrote:
Career is a tertiary concern. Ideally, I'd like to make my career and my ideas one and the same, but it's not out of any desire to share my ideas or anything - I just don't like wasting my time on work that I don't enjoy. I'll endure other work for the sake of my livelihood, but I don't understand the appeal of power and money, especially when it takes so much time and boring effort to attain them. I'd be far happier just doing my own thing.


I think I can understand why some people want power and money.


Maybe they're just naturally ambitious, so the process of attaining those things give them satisfaction. But I think many people in this society (especially in Japan) do the ladder climbing because of family pressures rather than because it's what they truly want.

And in an advanced society, people usually are more friendly towards someone with a higher social status than those of a lower status... i mean just look at how many people will make a joke about, "You're going to end up working at mcdonald's"... i mean what is so bad about working at mcdonald's if you truly enjoy hospitality?
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Posted 9/28/13 , edited 9/28/13
my ultimate goal is happiness.

my 1st step is financial stability.

it's hard to think about other things when you've got bills up to your eyes because you can't get a job that covers the cost of your bills--medical bills, car insurance, rent, utilities, health insurance, student loans, credit card debt, transportation costs. living without heat in my apartment through a snowy winter; waiting outside in the cold at the food bank for food & having to use food stamps; spending hours waiting around at DSHS for financial help; working 2 part-time jobs, 13 hour days, 7 days a week & not getting paid overtime--i've done it. it SUCKS.

i know no matter what, i won't have an issue making friends. & i have family that is (generally) supportive.

i've given up on love for now. the other half of my heart moved to the other side of the world. indefinitely. a day hasn't gone by in...almost a year now...that i haven't thought about her only time will help me get over her, & somehow, i believe it's going to take a LONG time.

somehow, i've got to attain financial stability while maintaining a relatively stress-free lifestyle, otherwise i'll be triggered into a relapse o_o

i got dealt a pretty shitty hand at life...but i'm fortunate in many ways as well...oh life...one day at a time...
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Posted 9/28/13
Go to japan and coax Mukai Osamu to marry me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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15 / M / Denver, CO
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Posted 12/18/13
Romance
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21 / M/ F/ California
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^^.....So hard not to judge....
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Posted 8/9/14
staying alive!
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20 / M / Unknown
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Posted 8/10/14
My only goal is to not be bored. As long as I can do that nothing else matters.
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23 / F / USA
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Posted 8/10/14
To be comfortable and happy.
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It doesn't matter.
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Posted 8/10/14

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Just money. That's all. Because in the end, that's all people want from you anyway.


I don't like to share so I don't need a lot of money.
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23 / M / Corner of Moon &...
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Posted 8/10/14
Finish college & land a good job
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Posted 8/10/14 , edited 8/10/14
My goal in life is to be happy. That means never leaving my house and watching anime. My other main goal is to die, it's something we all need to do at some point, and it should be the happiest moment of our lives.
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