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What if women went up to guys they liked rather than waiting to get asked out?
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Posted 9/21/13

MarshDiamond wrote:

It would be kinda weird if the girl asked a guy out because how would it be said, "Hey wanna go out with me" and then the guy would be like wtf. If I ever wanted to ask a guy out I would wait till the right moment and say "wanna take me out for dinner" lol. It would just be weird. Hooking up maybe, but then you would be called a hoe for throwing your self out there like bait to take a chance lmao. In my opinion it would be odd. When I was in middle school I did ask a guy out once and he said yes but I also was the one that ended it...I wore the pants...it was weird lol.


A hoe?! lol I wouldt see it as that! ID see it as a woman whos confident and knows what she wants and takes risks! I like that! And also you ended it?! How Harsh Marsh! lol


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Posted 9/21/13
For me if any girl asks me out I just gotta say yes lol 21 still havent been on a date!
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Posted 9/21/13

marcel20 wrote:

ummm... Does this happen a lot in L.A. ?? because I don't see it a lot where I'm at.


I grew up in Texas and I would see this a lot. Happened to me frequently as well & that was 10-13 years ago before I locked things down. Women have only become more bold since then.
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I've asked men out tons of times.

And before you wonder, no, I am not very aggressive toward the opposite sex. I just had to get over my initial shyness/awkwardness and go for it when I realized that within the circle of people I know or want to know, most of the guys were as shy/awkward or more so than I was.

I will say I usually wait until I can be certain that the guy in question has an interest before I act.
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My older sister used to ask guys out all the time, and many of my female classmates did the same.

Personally, if I feel that a guy that I like is interested in me enough, I wouldn't mind asking first. I carefully evaluate them beforehand, though, and I want be friends first.
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Posted 9/21/13

maj666 wrote:

lol 21 still havent been on a date!


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Posted 9/21/13
I just haven't find the right one to ask out yet. In my place is not uncommon for a girl to ask guy out.
Posted 9/21/13 , edited 9/21/13
They do walk up to guys they like rather than wait to get asked out. It doesn't happen often, but it happens. It just depends on how confident they are.
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Posted 9/21/13 , edited 9/21/13

carsarelittle wrote:


maj666 wrote:

lol 21 still havent been on a date!


swag


You already know!
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Posted 9/21/13 , edited 9/21/13

maj666 wrote:

For me if any girl asks me out I just gotta say yes lol 21 still havent been on a date!

im glad im not the only one lol
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20 / F / I live in a world...
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Posted 9/21/13
I asked my boyfriend out. I didn't even let him ask me out. I made the moves.
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Posted 9/21/13
I live in LA. No, it does not happen here in cali. xD
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Lol yes because some guys are quick to call a girl a hoe. Yes I ended the middle school romance I started haha. I don't think it would really be that bad to ask a guy out its just that I wouldn't want it to be awkward and with me it would.
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Posted 9/21/13 , edited 9/21/13
hmm don't see it in* SoCal either..but then I'm new here
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Posted 9/21/13
I never ran into this problem.
1. A girl will make it known she likes you.
2. You ask her on a date.
3. You get some mother fucking sushi (because fuck you, that's why)
4. You then converse about things in a straight-headed manner because being shy and awkward is beta as fuck.
5. Then you drop her off.
6. Then, if she gives all the right signs, you kiss her goodnight and repeat steps 2-6 and eventually add some other steps.
GG, BG won.
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