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What if women went up to guys they liked rather than waiting to get asked out?
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Posted 9/22/13

TakumiMayama wrote:

I've had one girl that asked me out, sort-of. I remember being in my Human Anatomy & Physiology class back in highschool and this girl that always needed help with her work started talking to me about how she liked me. I could tell she was attempting to either pop the, "Do you like me," or "Want to hang out sometime," question, so I immediately cut her down in a calm manner. She handled it a lot better than I've seen guys who get rejected by the girl they ask out, lol.

She was a sweet girl, but my goals in life pretty much prevent me from getting into serious relationships. Since I do not care much for casual relationships, I kept her as a close friend instead.

That being said, knowing she took the courage to get around to asking a guy out, I'm sure there's other women out there that are also doing about the same thing to other guys.


That actually happened to me as well once. Just like you I had to decline knowing full well that after high school we would never see each other again and I had no need for a 2-3 month relationship. We still talk on facebook though.
Posted 9/22/13
Wouldn't really make much a difference.
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Posted 9/22/13
There's no difference really. Guy, girl, whatever go ahead and make the first move.
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Posted 9/23/13
It happens, but is still very uncommon. In general girls have the mindset of 'if i dont ask i cant be rejected, and i dont have to ask so ill just avoid the chance of rejection', which is something boys simply cant get away with.
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Posted 9/23/13
I don't see any problem with that... might be a good thing for shy guys that won't ask a girl otherwise..
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Posted 9/23/13
It's not uncommon, at least not in the area I am from. I think girls who openly pursue men are great, and guys who are not ok with it are not so great. It's pretty simple for me.
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Posted 9/23/13

Validity wrote:

It's not uncommon, at least not in the area I am from. I think girls who openly pursue men are great, and guys who are not ok with it are not so great. It's pretty simple for me.


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Posted 9/23/13
ok i have done this 2times asked a guy out that is

ok first time i told a guy that i liked him i was about 13/14 yrs old lool and he was about a year or so older then me anyway so i tell him that i like him and then i peck his lips ,,, then i ran (YES PEOPLE I RAN OFF) I was so scared that he didn like me and that he hated the kiss,,, that be4 i knew it i was gone. so after that for about 2 days everytime i sew him i would run off again.
(bare in mine he live 2doors across from me) i was avoiding rejection by day 3 i was walking past his door after school and he sew me when he was looking out his window he ran out and called me i turned to see hu it was sew him went to run again lool but this time he grabs my hand but also holds on to the banister with his other hand which had something sharp on it it sliced his thumb open anyway i start to panic and think he must hate me more now coz i have hurt him but instead he said he wanted me to take him to the hospital so i call a cab took him with me to hospital were he told me that if i had not ran off that first day he could have kissed me back hahahah that relationship lasted about 6month hehe coz he had to moved away with his perents lol


then next time round was with my man now

when i was nerely 16 i met him and within 2month i just asked him out he told me no at first coz he didn go out with girls b4 3month then every week till it was 3month i asked if he would and in the end he said yes that he would have gone out with me sooner but wanted to see if i would keep asking anyway its been bout 6years now

it can work but i think how a relationship starts will be how your relationship follows(meaning i took the lead and now our hole relationship is with me always taking the lead)

so if we all see that there is normaly a female role and a male role in relationship and you want it that way then alway allow the man to take that lead but if you like things different then do it how ever which way you want...

i wish i had let him take the lead.....
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Posted 9/23/13
If I had the confidence to do so, I'd have done it years ago.
Posted 9/23/13

Lenalee1 wrote:

If I had the confidence to do so, I'd have done it years ago.


I was waiting for u..
I turned around and now ur with Jamal?
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Lenalee1 wrote:

If I had the confidence to do so, I'd have done it years ago.


Hmmm... confidence is a thorny lover..
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Posted 9/23/13
Still Forever Alone
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Posted 9/23/13

marcel20 wrote:


eggy_roll_1 wrote:

i would have no idea to get the confidence to do so..and i'm not the type of person to flirt :(


That means you totally wait for the guy to make all the moves...how do you get a guys attention? I'm curious.


LOL i have no idea either. i have no experience with love. well i can't force him to like me or get his attention, i really don't know xD
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Posted 9/23/13
I know this girl that did that and got rejected....she was sad for a few days.

Welcome to a mans world!!
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Still Forever Alone


Wanna start a club? Could be like the Neighbors Club in Boku wa Tomodachi, just more sad.
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