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What if women went up to guys they liked rather than waiting to get asked out?
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Posted 9/23/13
I have seen it happen, when a girl ask a guy out. It was someone in my close circle of friends. For her it work, and she still going strong with her guy. I myself find it extremely attractive when a girl knows what she wants and just acts upon it. Most girls are not like that, maybe I would have to say 5 to 10% of girls have the guts to do something like that. I don't know how much truths there is to this, but having two sisters I think for girls its really hard to be rejected. just my two cents.
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Posted 9/23/13
It's not very often but yea I've seen women doing the initiative to go ask a guy out, which I see as very brave and could take a lot of guts and confidence on the part of the girl herself. But I see society seeing it and her as a flirty bitch. At least where I'm from.
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There's a guy I'm crushing on majorly right now. I want to date him so of course I will initiate it but I want HIM to ask me out.
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Posted 9/23/13
Happen to me twice. One of them I didn't care too much since I didn't know her that well. However when my friend I known for years ask me to man up and ask her out, it really shocked me.
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Plenty of women make the first move. I'm one of them. But I've noticed a lot of guys seem kinda put off about it To be honest, I have no clue why, they just seem baffled about it and it really gets no where most of the time.
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Posted 9/24/13
Probably stay forever alone because i'd be too shy
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Posted 9/24/13
That would be great.
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Posted 9/24/13
@Everybody stating how they're "forever alone". There's absolutely nothing wrong with being alone.. I prefer to be single. Relationships are just way too much of a hassle.
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Posted 9/24/13
sure man
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The world would be a better place.
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Personally I don't see anything wrong with asking a guy out, I think its a good thing....and I never really had the problem of walking right up to a guy and telling him to his face that I liked him. I never cared about rejection . I actually had the problem of never being asked out...and I questioned myself this for years, so when I finally had the resolve to ask male friends of mine "WHY" they told me that as kind as I was...that I was the ideal girlfriend...that I'd make the perfect wife...my problem was that because of the way I looked..it was intimidating...they said I looked like the type of girl that would only give rich guy a chance...that really hurt my feelings. After that I decided not to date anyone until I was convinced that the person I was interested in liked me for me and not for what I looked like. I'm not shallow, I'm not conceded, I'm actually really shy and hate receiving attention. I just got tired of being the book that was always judged by its cover.
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Posted 9/24/13

eggy_roll_1 wrote:


marcel20 wrote:


eggy_roll_1 wrote:

i would have no idea to get the confidence to do so..and i'm not the type of person to flirt :(


That means you totally wait for the guy to make all the moves...how do you get a guys attention? I'm curious.


LOL i have no idea either. i have no experience with love. well i can't force him to like me or get his attention, i really don't know xD


Love letters, do eeeet xD
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Posted 9/24/13
I've asked out a couple of guys only one has said yes we're still together 4 years later so I can say that worked out well. I'm surprised it's considered unusual in some places all my female friends have asked guys to go out with them at some point. I even know one girl who asked out her Teacher at College!!! That was not such a success lol.
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Posted 9/24/13
really?? To me it seems like the guys are expecting to be asked out these days?? Seriously I hardly see guys going after girls anymore, it's the other way around

A guy even once told me that the girls should do the chasing and the guys the running

maybe it's just where i live idk

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Posted 9/24/13

marcel20 wrote:


cacofdz wrote:

Personally, I wouldn't know how to do it....


Well this one girl I went to school did it in a round about way. She simply said I look nice today and I replied thank you and thought nothing of it(shes just being nice I thought). She then said I looked nice the next day and the day after that....and I finally caught on to the fact that she just might like me, so I started paying more attention to her and realized that she watched pretty much my every move. I confronted her about if she was in to me or not and she was.

Its different for everyone, but it would have been easier for to just say "I've been watching you and I think your very handsome"(in a non creepy way) something like that or just asked me out on a date.


I've been watching you. And I think you're very handsome.

Never happened to me, but I believe my sisters do it to guys all the time so....it can't be that rare.
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