Is it weird to be in love with a girl i havent talked to in 3 years?
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I used to know this girl before I moved to a different state, and we flirted and talked a lot. We had some issues and she said she didn't want to hear from me ever again the day after i moved. So here i am 3 years later and haven't talked to her, or dated anyone. Is that normal or am I obsessive?
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Neftin wrote:

I used to know this girl before I moved to a different state, and we flirted and talked a lot. We had some issues and she said she didn't want to hear from me ever again the day after i moved. So here i am 3 years later and haven't talked to her, or dated anyone. Is that normal or am I obsessive?


Hi there. If the main reason you haven't dated anyone is because you're still hung up on her, then I would say it's probably time to move on, and that if you make some efforts to let that be a part of your past, and meet people and live your life in the present, that it'll become easier (and if it doesn't, maybe it is a bit obsessive--but I am not a doctor, or psychologist, or counselor of any sort, so don't put a whole lot of weight on that opinion.)

Now to the business at hand--I'm closing this thread because personal threads aren't allowed in the CR forums. However we do have a special General Help/Advice thread, so I suggest that you post there instead:

/forumtopic-1099/the-general-helpadvice-thread

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