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Posted 9/25/13
A girl with nice hands. I can't have a girl
with ugly ass hands cooking me food.
I'll get poison and die... I'm fuckin.

As long she has her shit together and is wise.
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I don't really have a preference, although dark features are a turn on. In the end I just think the guy has to be kind and caring.
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Must not run away when I discuss Op-codes and Mip processor semantics.
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Posted 9/25/13

TakumiMayama wrote:

I'll separate this into both looks and personality. I weigh each about 50/50 since I believe that I can't love a girl solely for her looks, but I equally can't love her solely for her personality. (That doesn't mean what I look for in either personality/physical looks are equal, however).

Physically:
Asian (Japanese preferred).
Short.
Relatively small if you know what I mean.
Kid-like (not an actual kid, but looks more like one despite her being 18+).
Long hair, but not too long. Silky hair is a major plus.
Petite. She can't be overweight nor anorexic.
Otherwise, really good hygiene skills.

Personality:
Sweet.
Caring.
Loving.
Motherly-like.
Smart.
Interesting, not mundane.
Clean, no potty-mouth or inappropriate talk.
Considerate.
Down-to-earth.

Some major bonuses would be:
She's a native in Japan since that is where I want to live.
She is a virgin (this is actually an absolute MUST, if I'm going to save myself for her, she better do the same for me).
And as long as she IS a virgin, I doubt I have to worry about STD's or whatever, since that's a major deal-breaker.
No children ahead of time, which if she were a virgin, this would not be a problem.
She loves and gets along with her family and has close friends.

That's all I can think of from the top of my head.



That sounds exactly like me, right down to the kid-like part [except I'm not native Japanese (but I'm close) and I'm not 18 yet]! I would like to point out that a virgin can have kids (adopted or a younger brother she has to support) and a virgin could also have STDs (transmitted from pregnant mother or blood).
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Posted 9/25/13

melo_chip wrote:

Above all else, a lady who is trust worthy.

Doesn't restrict me as in allows me to be myself.

Kind and in a sense selfless.

While loving me unconditionally.

Hmm this is starting to get awfully cheesy



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Heck yeah home girl !
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Posted 9/25/13 , edited 9/25/13

Random_Name wrote:
I would like to point out that a virgin can have kids (adopted or a younger brother she has to support) and a virgin could also have STDs (transmitted from pregnant mother or blood).


True, I didn't think about those factors a whole lot.
Either way, I wouldn't be able to support an adopted child and/or younger brother/sister of the potential girl with the salary I make. If she were to have an adopted kid or is supporting her brother/sister, it'd probably be in my best interests to keep her as a friend. I'm not too much for throwing myself out to someone in the name of love while having my income support their child/their brother or sister, haha!

As for the STD part, once again, it'd just be a deal-breaker. I mean, yeah I could take my chances and hope I never catch her disease OR just remain a virgin with her, but I'll be honest, I can't see myself doing either of those. I don't want to take that chance of catching something from her nor do I want to be all, "Well, I love ya so much so I'll stay a virgin with you!" just because it wouldn't be fair to me.

If she had either of these things, I'd still keep her as a close friend, regardless. There just wouldn't be any romantic, lovey-dovey stuff going on between us, haha.
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Posted 9/25/13
I look for girls with lady parts...

it didn't work out with my last girl friend we were incompatible... I mean literally, it was a physiological impossibility.
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This all the way ..

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Posted 9/25/13
Lack of the asshole tendency..
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Let's see.. I'd be very careful in what to look for, as I would ultimately be looking for the future mother of my children (She'd be looking at my character too even more carefully, I'd expect nothing less from my future wife). The things I'd look for would be as such....
Absolute Musts:
Christian (Evangelical)
Virtuous (Patience, Charity, Courage, etc.)
Sharp Intellect

Of Moderate importance (if she met 50% of the below criteria we would do quite well; also it would be a major challenge to me personally to become a better person if I met such a woman ):
A subtle almost commanding presence
A generous nature
Takes care of herself health-wise
good with money (I'm not, so I'd let her keep an eye on finances)
Witty (but not pretentious)
Good ear for music
Reads
Understanding of my various idiosyncrasies
Perceptive

Bonus points (Stuff that I would like but would be like 'extra credit):
Martial Artist (especially if she is good with either a jian or rapier....)
Long Hair ("Give me a head with hair; long, beautiful, hair" )
Either European or Southeast Asian
Graceful but powerful, like a swan (interpret that however you'd like)
Likes either Classical music or Classic Rock (I'd define as roughly 1960-84) , or both .
Likes Alice Cooper, Jimi Hendrix, and/or Bob Dylan (major bonus points)
Prefers older books (before 1900 roughly)
Calvinist

But I have almost come to the conclusion it would be best to stay single my entire life, for various reasons (path my life is taking, and so forth) ,so that's probably why that list is rather long and specific. In other words it would take someone very unique to change my mind.
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Posted 9/25/13
Honestly I used to be really superficial and only want a girl who has a great body and so on and so forth, you know every man's dream girl. But to be honest, as long as she can love me for who I am then I'm good to go.
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Posted 9/25/13
someone who's mature, understanding and appreciates the little things in life.
And he has to be quite intelligent but modest and hardworking.

for looks i'm not looking for a model or anything but he has to be quite decent looking and not obese because to me that reflects on someone as being lazy and uncaring about their well being in my opinion.
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Posted 9/26/13

kimmycornet wrote:

someone who's mature, understanding and appreciates the little things in life.
And he has to be quite intelligent but modest and hardworking.

for looks i'm not looking for a model or anything but he has to be quite decent looking and not obese because to me that reflects on someone as being lazy and uncaring about their well being in my opinion.


I can agree with this definitely!
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Posted 9/26/13
PERSONALITY-
-Smiles or smirks
-energetic
-Smart
-Respectful
-Funny
-Blunt but can have a heart <3
-motivated
-Considerate
-Understanding
-ISN'T AFRAID TO HURT A GIRL
-knows how to have fun
-Daring
-isn't afraid of admitting things
- Knows how to STATE OPINIONS and RESPECT the other side
-Can at least have good conversations
-(i like a guy who can be playful like ex: i love tickle fights just not too too rough but can be rough)


Physical
not usually into looks
but for preferences:
-can be overweight but tall :3 (fluffy)
-cute smile and eyes ( i measure that by perspectives)

despite all these things, the main MAIN things to look for (in my opinion)
-Respect
-Understanding
-Accepting of who I am and where I come from
-gotta have a good smile/ or can smile with eyes :D


-I DON'T LIKE GUYS WHO SMOKE A LOT OR DRINK TO WHERE THEY'RE AN ALCOHOLIC
GUYS WHO DON'T KNOW HOW TO USE GRAMMAR OR PROPER ENGLISH
OR CONCEDED
DEFINITELY HATE HORNBALLS
a guy can be horny but not 24/7 lol there's a lot more than just sex.

side qualities that make an impact on me:
-emo
-rocker
-loves rock
-Japanese rock
-Korean pop etc.
-is willing to learn and experience new things if not then hmmm gotta know what to do if boredom comes up.

-I find it funny sometimes, how guys say they want skinny girls
I'm only stating my opinion:
but sometimes skinny girls might have all the beauty and shit for brains/personality
if a girl comes a long that has all of that then by all means chase her
but if you get liked/loved by someone who doesn't live up to your standards
then why be a picky asshole who might not find the perfect girl?
sometimes girls who are overweight ARE the bitches but NOT ALWAYS OR ALL OF THEM

As for girls who have certain standards for guys as well, vise versa
all guys who are "hot" and "sexy" are not always considerate or respectful
-im one to talk LMAO XD

i can state my opinion cuz i have liked guys who my friends call "ugly" but i saw past their looks and into their eyes
i love eyes and smiles not necessarily their eye color but something deeper


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