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The overlooked pains of Replacement
Posted 1/27/08
-like i always do before i make a new thread, sorry if this is a duplicate, but i searched for replace and replacement, and there is a "who would u replace your fam members" but it is really the same topic

Sometimes its hard for others to realize how hard the pain is of replacement, unless its actually happening to you. There are many kinds of replacement, and when it happens to be you it hurts.

- When you don't have a mother anymore, and you feel like when your dad gets a new "mother" that he forgets the one you already had

- You are doing so well in your job, but you get replaced, just because there is someone who is doing better than you.

- People always say, "there are plenty of other fish in the sea" but isn't this fish the perfect fish for me? You can't replace love that easily

- When you lose a friend, they say, "you have plenty of other friends" or that "you will find a new friend" well i dont care about other friends, that friend was special to me, and no one can replace them.

It can hurt quite a bit, and its stupid when people think they can be replaced so easily. But sometimes, its not actually replacing, but moving on. Your friends can't be replaced, you can't be replaced, and bla bla bla. What I mean i guess is that maybe there are better things to do ya know
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Posted 1/27/08
How can you replace something unique?
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You can never replace a family member! They are BLOOD! The same blood that runs in our vains... unless they are actually blood related maybe... but still family!
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I wish I could replace some of my relatives, their evil. Anyway, I think that you can replace people in a general sense, but you can never replace an individual. There's only one of that person, and once they're gone that's it.
Posted 1/27/08
There`s a saying and it goes something like , " You can replace anyone but your mother . ' . A mom can be your dad , can be your best friend , can be your sibling , etc ... except for lover of course . Everyone is unique in their own little way ... but sad to say , any one of us could be replaced ... no matter how much it hurts .
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Posted 1/27/08

saiyukilover wrote:

I wish I could replace some of my relatives, their evil. Anyway, I think that you can replace people in a general sense, but you can never replace an individual. There's only one of that person, and once they're gone that's it.


Aye, kinda like when you're spending more time with another friend instead of your .. more regular one.

Then the regular one has been replaced by the other friend
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Posted 1/27/08
i don't think anybody could replace another person. everyone is special in their own way. you can get more friends even more family, but they don't replace the ones you have. they just become special to you in their own way. in the loss of a parent, i think it's unfair to expect the child to accept a new parent as being mom or dad. i think they should form their own relationship with the kid first. don't expect to be "mom", just be another adult who care for them or be a friend.
Posted 1/27/08

n_n303 wrote:

sorry hawtdawggy but i disagree. I think you can always replace a friend or boyfriend. Not a family member but other people...i think you can.

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especially if they're treating you like shit (>___________>);


lol yea its easier to replace your boyfriend/girlfriend like that, and yea sucks wen they treat u like shit -.-, in that case i want them to be replaced

and a friend yea, but some of them u cant replace, like your best friends, actually idk, blah i dont feel like thinking right now lol
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I could always replace things but people is hard to replace, unless they are a piece of crap who treats you like crap. ~_~ **Sorry**
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Posted 1/27/08
i don't necessarily think that you ever replace someone. Everyone is different and the role they play in your life is different as well. The traits your relationship may have with the newer person may be very similar to the previous person, but it's never really exact.
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I think it is easier to replace a friend than a family member since I've already forgotten all my friends from Elementary and I haven't forgotten my grandfather. Well, maybe that's just me. >.<
Posted 1/27/08
My friend replaced me with a different friend before, so yea thats how it kinda applies to me
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You are emotionally weak; simple as that.
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feelings dat already happened
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Couple are always replaceable. Well for me at least since I usually end up with som one who treats me like shit ^_^
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