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Post Reply Do guys like receiving sultry pictures of their girlfriends?
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Posted 11/21/13
Please may I state that I am not here to attract any guy attention, neither am I wanting to see anything sexual responses. This is a genuine question, and I need you guys and girls' opinions on this.

I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now and in the past 3 months I have moved abroad for a new job, and in order to keep things exciting between us, I try to send him pictures of myself from time to time, but his responses are always one liners like "that's nice" or just tell me to behave.

Is that normal?
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Posted 11/21/13
Well I've never dated anyone before but this is just my opinion on it: I believe that if he truly loves you then it wouldn't matter what you look like on the outside, its the personality that counts!
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Lol from experience, these teasing pictures definitely spice things up for the next time I would see them. Especially if your long distanced. That's just me though, it really just depends on the guy. I have more of a sexual nature I guess
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Posted 11/21/13
Go for it.
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Posted 11/21/13
I feel ya girl,
Maybe a tad differently though...example: Bf asked for pix and i delivered, but all i got was "that's nice"
It's not a very satisfying response x.x', but it's just how he responds lol
We're you guys intimate before that?
Maybe he's saying it in a flirtatious way?

Most guys I know would love a picture or two, but maybe ask him? Or like as him what kind of pose he wants?
See how he responds:)
As bothersome as that may sound lol or "whiny" it may seem xP
Might help :)

Congrats on the job!
Hope I helped a bit
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Posted 11/21/13
Tell him he won't get anymore pictures until he gives you more words.
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Posted 11/21/13
Well, most guys I know love that sort of thing. Some guys seem to love it more than others, I don't think it has anything to do with how intimate you guys are or how close you are, it's just a like/dislike thing. some guys love to see it, others might think its slutty. Not that you are or anything, some men are just a little more reserved than others.
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Posted 11/21/13
He's so funny. He secretly likes it. And that's normal.
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Posted 11/21/13 , edited 11/21/13
When I was overseas my wife sent me some pictures from time to time and I loved it and was always asking for more. If his sex drive is high and he doesn't seem to be effected, then you might worry, otherwise it just might not be his thing. You could always ask what he wants to try to keep things exciting. There are other ways to be intimate over long distances.
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In all honesty, he probably does but sometimes certain guys have personalities that don't really prefer it. Me for instance, I like and dislike stuff like that. He may be the same he likes it, but at the same time if he has an honor system, he may see you as his lady and hold you sort of on a pedestal and that may degrade his noble image of you. I did long distance for two years and for me it was difficult to handle images as much as I preferred thoughtful and true words
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Posted 11/21/13
would personally think my bf was a slut if he does that

it depends on each individual. i wouldn't send stuff like that electronically, would rather give him a private show in real-time.
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I agree with what people above have stated. Some guys like it and some can do without. I would stop sending him pics and if he eventually asks why he isn't getting them anymore then you will know he did like them but was just giving lame unenthusiastic responses. If he doesn't ever bring it up then he is probably just one of those guys who doesn't care about it too much. Either way though I would never send pictures to people like that if I was a girl. I would say a good 90-95% of guys I have observed and known all share those kind of pictures with their friends. Married guys don't seem to do it as much but when it is just bf/gf guys are always showing the pics off to their friends. So just be careful. At the very least make sure your face isn't in them or something. Of course I guess it is probably a bit late for that in your case....Oh well. Just my opinion on it all.
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No. I'm married now, but back in the day I found it creepy and slutty. I prefer for the good stuff to be saved for the bedroom. The real thing is better than a pic any day. But to each his own. Just keep in mind, young ladies, that at least half of those pics get shared with people you don't necessarily don't want them shared with. Think about that the next time you dress up like Sailor Moon with a cucumber.
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Posted 11/21/13
Trick question.

As a guy, I'd say that of course we tend to love it. But as a father of three grown daughters, I warned them strongly against the practice. Once you send it, it's out there, and you don't know who's ogling you.
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Posted 11/21/13 , edited 11/21/13
I think it sounds like he's missing you a lot. It could be that the pictures are reminding him that he can't actually be intimate with you right now, and that's making him frustrated. It's far more important for the both of you to make sure you set aside enough time for each other. Keep communication up so that you don't start feeling lonely, and if you're gonna send pictures like that, do it when you know he's alone and not occupied with something else, so that you don't give him whiplash or risk somebody else seeing it.
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