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Post Reply Do guys like receiving sultry pictures of their girlfriends?
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22 / M / KS, USA
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Posted 11/21/13
What sort of low scum would require sultry pictures just to be hap...


Ok I can't even type this without laughing, yeah we love those pictures.
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Posted 11/21/13 , edited 11/21/13
Talk to him about it and get his answers. He's not a mind-reader, and there are too many possible reasons for his behavior for the mystery to be cleared up by asking us. Give him a chance to explain before you "diagnose" him.
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tinyd0t wrote:

Please may I state that I am not here to attract any guy attention, neither am I wanting to see anything sexual responses. This is a genuine question, and I need you guys and girls' opinions on this.

I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now and in the past 3 months I have moved abroad for a new job, and in order to keep things exciting between us, I try to send him pictures of myself from time to time, but his responses are always one liners like "that's nice" or just tell me to behave.

Is that normal?


yes that is the appropriate response what where you expecting?


there is only so much a picture can do.

specially if you are not physically close (you can drive or fly on the weekends or holidays to see each other.)

everyone in long distance relationships know they won't last but every single one of them believe that they will be the exception to the rule.

from experience i can tell you that it is very hard to keep them going. a picture alone won't spice things up even if you send him a nude. the issue is not being there physically with him, if that however is not an option video conferencing does seem to be a better option.
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tinyd0t wrote:

Please may I state that I am not here to attract any guy attention, neither am I wanting to see anything sexual responses. This is a genuine question, and I need you guys and girls' opinions on this.

I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now and in the past 3 months I have moved abroad for a new job, and in order to keep things exciting between us, I try to send him pictures of myself from time to time, but his responses are always one liners like "that's nice" or just tell me to behave.

Is that normal?


Maybe he doesn't have time for a lengthy response because he's busy with the pictures you're sending him... if you know what I mean.
Posted 11/21/13
I personally don't like things like that - either doing it, or receiving it.

I think it is just a personal thing. Why not try this - don't send those pictures to your boyfriend and then wait to see what he says, if he notices or cares.
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Posted 11/21/13
Not really no, I much rather like to see an effort at home instead of a phone tease :phew:. No but seriously, I think that sort of thing can get really out of hand if the wrong person gets their hand on your phone, to me it isn't worth it.
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Posted 11/21/13
wouldn't do it myself - just the type of person i am i guess
if you don't wanna send pics then don't
tbh it sounds absurd that people do this
it all depends on the type of person you are

but your situation is a hasty one - good luck!!!!
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Posted 11/21/13
It's more than likely that he likes it, but he may just not know the right way to respond. Maybe he thinks it would be weird to respond any other way
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20 / M / San Antonio, TX,...
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Posted 11/21/13
He likes it a lot, lol.
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24 / M / Santa Barbara, CA
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Posted 11/21/13 , edited 11/21/13
If you sent him pics and all you got was a two word response then I would say he's either really busy or just not into it? Although, it could depend on how physical you guys are/have been as a couple?
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24 / M / West Coast
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Posted 11/21/13
Personally I wouldn't mind them but I would also tell her to stop and instead use skype or another online video chat system to get my pics as I dont like knowing that the pics sent can be found easily.
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Posted 11/21/13
Hmm, I don't know, maybe you can send me the pictures and I'll see if they're good enough.
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Posted 11/21/13 , edited 11/21/13
To be honest, there will not be many guys that would turn it down, but there will be no doubt a few who would and I guess you would have to be the judge of that.

In terms of his response again it depends on what he is like, he's behave response could be a more sarcastic, sadly texts can't portray sarcasm very well.

I really think its a situation that none of us can genuinely answer as its each to their own
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Posted 11/21/13 , edited 11/21/13
I think the real problem people see with this is that the pic can get leaked but that's not really the issue with the practice of sending pics itself, it's a problem with the person receiving it.

Sending of the pics in and of itself can help keep a relationship lively. Girls I've been with have sent them to me before and I've returned the favor, although I do tend to not do full-on frontal things, just suggestive shots. They like to send and they like to receive and each person does as much as they are comfortable doing. Maybe some people don't particularly like either one, but I've never met such people yet. Luckily, nobody I've been with has proven to be untrustworthy, even after we went our separate ways. I, obviously, have not shown anybody the pics I've been sent before. No harm comes of it if both people are mature enough to keep it under wraps, methinks. Admittedly, every split has been on neutral or good terms. I have no idea how I'd react to a very bad breakup full of anger and insanity. I think I can keep cool, though.

The people judging you are the ones that were not meant to be looking at the pics. I have no clue why their opinions should affect you or your relationship or your partner. I also don't know why they judge in the first place even though, in all likelihood, they enjoy such things in THEIR own relationships. It's stupid.
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24 / M / Michigan
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Posted 11/21/13
I've always thought it was nice, plus I don't like asking for them so I usually if the girl is comfortable with it, she can just send them.
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