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Have you ever Loved at the wrong time??
Posted 11/25/13
Have you ever loved someone who didn't love you back at the time, but later along in life fell for you head over heels to find that you moved on? I remember this time I really fell for this girl...I was 15 and she was 17 at the time I thought she was the only one for me. She did not feel the same way about me which is ok, but later on in life she relayed the message to me that she was immature and didn't understand how great of a guy i was(her message not mine).
We promised at that young age that when she hits the age of 24 and were both not with anyone that we'd marry each other.(NO i didn't steal this from an anime...its real)

Silly children make funny promises-without thinking of the future. After getting older and dating different types of women, I came to find that she actually wasn't my type at all. So when she became 24 she looked for me and found me at work...we had a kinda awkward conversation and neither of us brought up the promise, but i'm sure it was on our minds. I didn't have the heart to reject her directly, but not bringing it up in conversation was a sure sign i believe. If only the love the younger me had-met the love she had for me later...everything would of worked out fine, but this isn't possible(neither of us were the bad guy...just too early or late with our feelings). I was reminded of that past while coming across this video. (watch) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lvYomgYtqyY


Have any of you experienced something like this?...if so please share and if you haven't experienced it share what you think about it.




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Posted 11/25/13
I had crushes years ago but nothing like that will never happen.
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Posted 11/25/13
nothing like that, but when I was in college, this girl that I was friends with and I made a pact that when which ever of us dies first the other can eat their brain to prove or disprove the theory that you can actually acquire someone else's memories by doing so. We had another friend who was going to school for law write up the document, and had several friends witness the signing. It is almost exactly the same thing as your experience, but totally different in every detail! What kind of whine goes best with brain?
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Posted 11/25/13
Me and this girl have had an on and off relationship since highschool, recently we were watching How I Met Your Mother and realized we were kind of like some of the people from there, sort of, and I think jokingly made a pact about if we were both single by 40 we would get married. But that is clearly far away and I have no plans to get married. Lol.
Posted 11/25/13 , edited 12/6/13

qualeshia3 wrote:

I had crushes years ago but nothing like that will never happen.


lol you are 22...you just never know


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nothing like that, but when I was in college, this girl that I was friends with and I made a pact that when which ever of us dies first the other can eat their brain to prove or disprove the theory that you can actually acquire someone else's memories by doing so. We had another friend who was going to school for law write up the document, and had several friends witness the signing. It is almost exactly the same thing as your experience, but totally different in every detail! What kind of whine goes best with brain?


I would guess a good 1950's Merlot

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Posted 11/25/13

marcel20 wrote:


qualeshia3 wrote:

I had crushes years ago but nothing like that will never happen.


lol you are 22...you just never know



I really doubt that would ever happen mainly because I won't allow it to happen.
Posted 11/26/13
Oh my word no, and I hope I never go through that.
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Posted 11/26/13
Yup, a few times. But since it's never really mutual and then broken, it's comparatively mild when put side-to-side with real relationship breaks. Now THOSE hurt.
Posted 11/26/13
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marcel20 wrote:


qualeshia3 wrote:

I had crushes years ago but nothing like that will never happen.


lol you are 22...you just never know



I really doubt that would ever happen mainly because I won't allow it to happen.

It doesn't have to be exactly like my situation...you have had crushes before? then it may have already happened without your knowledge.
One of your crushes may have already crushed back at you...not everyone is honest about their feelings(even if you couldn't fathom why they would crush on you). There are many in this would who have loved or liked someone, but simply never told them and let the opportunity pass them by.
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Posted 11/26/13 , edited 11/26/13
My god, what is with all these love related threads?
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Posted 11/26/13 , edited 11/26/13

marcel20 wrote:

="View quoted post"]wrote
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marcel20 wrote:


qualeshia3 wrote:

I had crushes years ago but nothing like that will never happen.


lol you are 22...you just never know



I really doubt that would ever happen mainly because I won't allow it to happen.

It doesn't have to be exactly like my situation...you have had crushes before? then it may have already happened without your knowledge.
One of your crushes may have already crushed back at you...not everyone is honest about their feelings(even if you couldn't fathom why they would crush on you). There are many in this would who have loved or liked someone, but simply never told them and let the opportunity pass them by.

My Turn:

Posted 11/26/13

saksiss wrote:

My god, what is with all these love related threads?


Because love is awesome ...join in would ya?
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Posted 11/26/13

marcel20 wrote:


saksiss wrote:

My god, what is with all these love related threads?


Because love is awesome ...join in would ya?


Tempting, but nah.
Posted 11/26/13

saksiss wrote:


marcel20 wrote:


saksiss wrote:

My god, what is with all these love related threads?


Because love is awesome ...join in would ya?


Tempting, but nah.


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Posted 11/26/13
never had anything like what happened to the OP happen to me. but i have been in many strange and unusual relationships.
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