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Have you ever Loved at the wrong time??
Posted 11/27/13 , edited 11/27/13

marcel20 wrote:

Once I met her...she became a part of my history, a part that can never be erased nor replaced. You are right that the love never goes away completely, also there is puppy love, infatuation, sexual attraction, admiration and lust...these can feel like love, yet the end results differ. Once I break-up with someone or lose interest I must remove them from my life, because I have to move on and the only way for me is to never see them again(with out this I cannot move on). No pictures, gifts momento's or clothing that reminds me of that person...only in my memories will they remain. "Love at the wrong time" is more of a romantic notion than a real one...a thought that leads to nowhere, but yields understanding to a uncontrollable force. It simply asks what if?


What if the person had shared the same feelings you had? Hmmm...

Posted 11/27/13

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marcel20 wrote:

Once I met her...she became a part of my history, a part that can never be erased nor replaced. You are right that the love never goes away completely, also there is puppy love, infatuation, sexual attraction, admiration and lust...these can feel like love, yet the end results differ. Once I break-up with someone or lose interest I must remove them from my life, because I have to move on and the only way for me is to never see them again(with out this I cannot move on). No pictures, gifts momento's or clothing that reminds me of that person...only in my memories will they remain. "Love at the wrong time" is more of a romantic notion than a real one...a thought that leads to nowhere, but yields understanding to a uncontrollable force. It simply asks what if?


What if the person had shared the same feelings you had? Hmmm...



Your love is beautiful, you are very dedicated...I hear that ones first love is the most strongest and the scariest. I won't say that you should move e on, but that a love that distinct deserves the same in return. Yea, I chalk my experience up to puppy love too, but when I was 15 its was my first time feeling like that...it was overwhelming-the emotions I got, but I would never take that time back.
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Posted 11/27/13
'Cause every time I tried to tell you
The words just came out wrong
So I'll have to say I love you in a song

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Posted 11/27/13
Love another human ? is that really possible ?
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Posted 11/27/13
When is it ever a wrong time to love ^^ <3
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Posted 11/28/13
I am currently in love with a guy with a girlfriend.
They are very romantic with each other and they're almost 2yrs now.

and yeah.. I met them when they're already together so im just here..
hurting myself through continuing my feelings for him . _ .
Posted 11/29/13

Sogno- wrote:

'Cause every time I tried to tell you
The words just came out wrong
So I'll have to say I love you in a song

oldies ftw


Hmmm..I don't know that one-whats the name? Just curious
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Posted 11/29/13
Every time I read about these little love stories I can't help but think there's something wrong with me. I can find a guy attractive, enjoy talking to him, etc... but I never feel that indescribable "thing" that people would call love. Probably my worst trait is my instinct to lash out hatefully at people who say they love me

Maybe one of these days I'll get to see what all the love is about. Until then, I really have to calm myself down.



Posted 11/30/13

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Probably my worst trait is my instinct to lash out hatefully at people who say they love me

I love you, snookums.

No, but in all seriousness, I can't say that I know much of this. I'm experienced with unrequited love, though. It's not very pleasant.
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Posted 11/30/13
Well... I think everyone has "loved" at some point lol
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Posted 11/30/13
So I'm really into this girl. We met casually in another city at some event, and we kept in touch -- kind of a "just friends" thing. Anyway, she's in my city doing an intensive digital animation program for a year (which is literally 14+ hour days/6 days a week), and I'm working a full-time job. We went out together a small handful of times, but it's been extremely difficult because of our schedules. She's also kind of giving off this impression that she's not looking at having a relationship with anyone at this time. Furthermore, as soon as she finishes her program, she'll be going back home, or relocating to another city for work.

If there couldn't be a time any more wrong to "love" someone...
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Most definitely. About a year ago, I was talking with this girl all the time, we had a lot in common, but no real 'spark' in the end. I was in my last year of university, making a plan for my future, and all this drama turned it into a ridiculous mess, almost as bad as getting addicted to WoW raiding during my first year -_-
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I loved while I was still too young.
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Yep. It was the reverse, however. I wasn't interested in her back then but now that we don't talk anymore, I miss her
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during my sophomore year of HS I had this guy friend. we were really close, and he was my Spanish tutor for a while. I was dating this one guy, I was head over heels for him, but then I found out he was cheating on me. so my guy friend helped me out, we made out a few times, but that was it. I then transferred to a different HS, and we met up at a party. it was then that we decided to start dating. after a few months, we had a mutual break-up, the distance was starting to get to him and he was a senior that year.

few years passed, and I was home for the holidays. we met up at the mall, and we started talking and recalling the days when we were in HS. he asked if I had decided to stay here where we lived if we could try dating again. I told him I didn't know, since I was seeing someone at the time.

we talk from time to time, and he has a wonderful gf and I have my bf...but we wonder sometimes if maybe it was something that could have happened...the world may never know
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