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Why are beautiful people hated on soo much?
Posted 11/27/13 , edited 12/8/13
I know not everyone does it, but it has become quite the annoyance recently....something I usually ignore.
Today I want to rant about it a little if I may.
Let me set it up for you I am very attractive which is a given since I've been in the shell off a body and face all my life
When I walk into a area where a guy is with his date, girlfriend, friend+, sometimes even his wife 75% of the time the guy reacts as if my presence disrupted their life and gets all insecure and clingy with his female partner it even happens with girl-girl relationships when the dominant one starts watching me and gets clingy with her girl. Mind you there are other guys everywhere who they could focus on but nope...just me. Most the time when this happens the girl with them catches wind that something is making them insecure so they look around and see me and sometimes flirt to make the other person more jealous. I become part of something soo stupid and has nothing to do with me...almost got into 3 fights over me doing nothing but being human and taking up space. Plus I get this thing a lot where if I don't give someone my full attention that I am automatically stuck up..especially if the person talking to me is female.(not everyone does this)

I have also heard from physically beautiful women that other women hate them, comment on their looks freely, but if they were to comment back that they will be labeled as stuck up or arrogant.

Why are very attractive people hated on soo much? or if you experienced something like this please share.

EDIT: this post is NOT a troll post...do not allow trolls to tell you otherwise thanks you also this post isn't all about me personally...it is a chance to talk openly and non hatefully about a bias.



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Posted 11/27/13 , edited 11/27/13
Aaargh
I know the feeling of being too attractive.
It's such a curse!
I wish I was ugly!
Mabe I can get surgery to fix it.
I think Everybody will like me more if I were ugly.
Posted 11/27/13

Sir_jamesalot wrote:

Aaargh
I know the feeling of being too attractive.
It's such a curse!
I wish I was ugly!
Mabe I can get surgery to fix it.
I think Everybody will like me more if I were ugly.


Did you really need to edit something with soo little effort put into it?
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Posted 11/27/13

Sir_jamesalot wrote:

Aaargh
I know the feeling of being too attractive.
It's such a curse!
I wish I was ugly!
Mabe I can get surgery to fix it.
I think Everybody will like me more if I were ugly.


Are you insulting the ugly people who trying to become attractive? accept what you got. Not everything is bad but most of all people think what they can't get or achieve is the best. so don't worry it just matter of jealousy and jealousy is part of people so it is normal. Accept what you got and be gratefull of it.
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Yeah i thought that was just me, at first thought its the way i look, and i wounderd if any other good looking dude had the same problem, to be honest i get the impression that people that see me just think am full of myself (mostly girls) until they actually talk to me that is, it just shows really how people are affected by appearances and it really pisses me off.

Sometimes guys give me dirty looks just cause their girlfriends staring at me, i give one straight back of course bastard its not my problem am not the one staring at your girlfriend, you should reconsider who you choose as a girlfriend lol

but now i feel a bit better its not just be suffering from this haha
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Posted 11/27/13 , edited 11/27/13
This whole post... stepping into dangerous territory mate better if you let it die down before people get angry
That said
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Posted 11/27/13
You should not allow the reactions of insecure people to affect you so much. The fact is that YOU need to have confidence in yourself, and only you know if you are good and kind as well as attractive. There are many beautiful people who suck as human beings. Unfortunately, for you, this stigmata / stereotype promotes a reaction from those around you who have insecurities of their own. I am not one of the beautiful people, just average I guess, but I have developed a charisma / confidence level that allows me to interact with beautiful people without the fear of being overshadowed by them. Typically, people who react as you suggested have not yet accepted who they are and feel threatened. (IE. If I'm not careful, I'm going to lose my GF to this guy because he is so attractive and I'm not!) It is total BS, and if their relationship is that shallow, then they need to put in the effort to change that. All I can say is that life is too short to allow the reactions of these people to bring you down. Live your life for you and the ones you love, and F the rest!
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Posted 11/27/13

dmguaragno wrote:

You should not allow the reactions of insecure people to affect you so much. The fact is that YOU need to have confidence in yourself, and only you know if you are good and kind as well as attractive. There are many beautiful people who suck as human beings. Unfortunately, for you, this stigmata / stereotype promotes a reaction from those around you who have insecurities of their own. I am not one of the beautiful people, just average I guess, but I have developed a charisma / confidence level that allows me to interact with beautiful people without the fear of being overshadowed by them. Typically, people who react as you suggested have not yet accepted who they are and feel threatened. (IE. If I'm not careful, I'm going to lose my GF to this guy because he is so attractive and I'm not!) It is total BS, and if their relationship is that shallow, then they need to put in the effort to change that. All I can say is that life is too short to allow the reactions of these people to bring you down. Live your life for you and the ones you love, and F the rest!


Very well said, and thats very true there are a lot of "Beautiful" people that suck as human beings and thats whats giving the bad name, and there are many insecure/shallow people that in the world that actually think like that, turn a blind eye to them sort of people life is too short. Excellent advice
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Posted 11/27/13
Well I'm sure not all really attractive people are like this but all the ones that I have known are stuck up jerks . I've known quite a few people both female and male that were very good looking and did some modeling and they weren't very nice to me or anyone else really.

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Posted 11/27/13 , edited 11/27/13
Haha your right there not , and because of that if you see a good looking person people automatically assume there a dick haha but to be honest i have met some good looking people and try that dick shit with me get a middle finger in there face lol not literally but i tell them about themselfs XD
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Posted 11/27/13
lol insecure people ...
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Posted 11/27/13
Beauty isn't a thing you either have or don't.. Everyone is beautiful to someone. Personally, I've been attracted to about 90% of females I've met in my life that were under the age of 50. The other 10% would have been attractive with a few alcoholic beverages or dimmer lights. But I doubt this post is truly about that at all...

The sheer fact that you almost get into fights is proof that this is more about you than other people. We are supposed to believe that you, minding your own business, on three separate occasions had random people just walk up to you and start a fight with you. No. To describe these scenarios so well, you must be overly examining everyone in your surroundings, which is probably the real reason why people might seem insecure or uncomfortable around you. I mean, you mention married people, so you stare at people enough to verify if a wedding band is equipped. Seems to me like you just like drama. You pay way too much attention to strangers around you and it is creepy, then you act shocked that it causes issues. Then to top it all off, you fabricate the reasoning behind it.

That's all assuming this isn't just some made up troll post. After all, your profile says you are male but you imply that lesbians are bothered by your presence.
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Posted 11/27/13

marcel20 wrote:Did you really need to edit something with soo little effort put into it?


Yes, I did.
I needed to edit twice.
My jealousy kept showing.
Posted 11/27/13
am sexy ^.^ well i don't feel it i just get called things for being thin and get evil looks from people that like 9x the size of me . its like WTF did I do. I have very high metabolism . i cant seem to gain or lose it but my hole family like it
Posted 11/27/13
I'm not attractive so I'm really not sure about how you're feeling, but maybe it's because they're jealous? Idk. That's just what I'd think. I have a friend who's pretty attractive and he's one of the nicest people I know, yet other guys always try to put him down for no reason.
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