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Why are beautiful people hated on soo much?
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Posted 11/27/13
So many hateful posts in this thread, it feels like 4chan.

Geez...
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Posted 11/27/13 , edited 11/30/13


My opinion of attractive people being "hated" might stem from other people's perception of said attractive person.
Insecurity is the biggest factor. Insecure in one's appearance and ability to attract when other people [attractive people] are in the area.
Stereotyping of attractive people: arrogant, conceited, and basically full of themselves [opinions, mind you!]. I have known some very attractive people who are the most fun, kind-hearted, and friendly people anyone would love to be around ... At the same time, I have come across some attractive people I have felt inferior to [is it my own insecurities projecting that or a vibe I am getting from them ... won't ever know. ]

Truthfully speaking ... I am not [in any way!] attractive!
However, I would like to believe I am okay-looking.
I enjoy appreciating how an attractive guy looks ... who wouldn't?
I believe an attractive gal is blessed, but [admittedly] I am envious of her blessed looks.

By the way, ranting helps sometimes.




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Posted 11/27/13 , edited 11/27/13
Long story short: Most people are insecure on some level. Attractive people often do inspire jealousy, as well. It's normal. Attractive and extremely vain people do give arise to stereotypes, though there are assholes who use the stereotypes as an excuse for viciousness towards attractive people. While we're at it, let us not forget the occasional dick-head who likes to think that it's wrong for an attractive person to complain about jealousy and whatnot.
Also, trolls/flamers tend to flock to threads like yours, as is fairly obvious. *cough* Shukuzen *cough*
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Don't get me wrong, I'm a human being and seeing someone who was lucky enough to get the genes to be attractive complain about anything said genes brings them makes me feel a bit annoyed, maybe even frustrated. However, you keep that to yourself, and you don't attack people for it. It's just silly.
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You shouldn't bother yourself with the pointless troubles of lesser minded individuals.
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One thing I haven't seen mentioned yet is, that attractive people usually have an easier time in life.
People naturally prefer cute and pretty/handsome things/people. This starts when you're young. Better looking kids may makes friends more easily, not get picked on as much, receive more lenient treatment from adults, et cetera. So as they go through life, it's easier for them to be more positive, get ahead, be chosen.
Then think about the not so attractive kids, growing up watching the difference in the way they are treated. A life time of this can easily affect a person's view and they may harbor resentment. No matter whether or not an attractive person is aware of it, they are probably recieving favor in most aspects of life.
So their is a view of unfairness stemming from something you have no control over (truthfully we have a little control over it via diet and exercise). Which can obviously be very frustrating.
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No, the thing is that many men are territorial and this isn't just happening to you, its happening to almost every guy. The thing is that you are more self-conscious about it. So stop caring like most of us guys do unless you want to prove yourself as some alpha. Being attractive might add fuel to it but I don't suggest using it as the main reason. The main reason is not because you might be better looking but because you are also a guy.
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Beauty is 1% reality and 99% delusion.
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Posted 11/27/13
TL;DR.
I'm not hated on. That says something. LOL
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Posted 11/27/13
This might come off as me being a jerk but...

As none of the people complaining that they are getting hated on for looking to attractive have actually posted a picture of themselves it might just be that you're wearing something offensive without thinking about it and people are staring at you and feeling the need to protect their friends/girlfriends from you or picking a fight if they are really offended >.>
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Posted 11/27/13

leexlee wrote:

TL;DR.
I'm not hated on. That says something. LOL


I just wanna pinch your cheeks
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Posted 11/27/13

seckspanther wrote:


leexlee wrote:

TL;DR.
I'm not hated on. That says something. LOL


I just wanna pinch your cheeks


Ouch.
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wow i cant believe this actually happens in the world lol, but then again im not surprised.. for me personally.. if i see someone attractive.. i just dont really care enough to stare or even take notice, i guess its because i am in a relationship, and i think my own gf is beautiful. So i know i dont feel insecure about anything because my gf accepted me and i accepted her, so i dont really care what outside parties think of me and so in return i dont really care much for them. so if i saw you taking up space.. i would just treat you like a normal persona and not care that you are there, im just enjoying my time with my girl... and you are doing what you are doing lol
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Nowadays, it seems like, far as relationships, beauty and sex are more important than anything else. More importantly what do we define as being beautiful and/or ugly? Everyone on this planet has different taste in appearances along with personality.

Do we want "beautiful" people or "sexually attractive" people instead?

Just my opinion though.
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Posted 11/27/13
I thought they are popular and liked most of the time.I guess not
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