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Posted 12/3/13

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I'm still single, so therefore I'm not good looking

also small and meek doesn't help if you're a guy


I'd say it has more to do with that attitude, not the looks/being small. As long as you have the right attitude, it really doesn't matter how you look. I've dated a few (3) model quality tens in my day, but I'd say I'm just a 7 on a good day. Attitude, man. That's the entire game.


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This can't be right. I'm something most sane women despise and even I can't remain single for a long time. Attitude means nothing. Nice guys or douchebags it's all the same; there's a woman for everyone. I'm more on the nice guy side myself.

That act yourself thing is bullshit too. Women hate a guy who acts truthfully because it shatters their dreams most of the time. I know, I've had countless loves FAIL because of this.
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Posted 12/3/13

Zachman wrote:


pandrasb wrote:


wasabi1787 wrote:


pandrasb wrote:

I'm still single, so therefore I'm not good looking

also small and meek doesn't help if you're a guy


I'd say it has more to do with that attitude, not the looks/being small. As long as you have the right attitude, it really doesn't matter how you look. I've dated a few (3) model quality tens in my day, but I'd say I'm just a 7 on a good day. Attitude, man. That's the entire game.


right attitude?


This can't be right. I'm something most sane women despise and even I can't remain single for a long time. Attitude means nothing. Nice guys or douchebags it's all the same; there's a woman for everyone. I'm more on the nice guy side myself.

That act yourself thing is bullshit too. Women hate a guy who acts truthfully because it shatters their dreams most of the time. I know, I've had countless loves FAIL because of this.


Hahaha love the cynicism, but you contradict yourself sir. You can't say there is a woman for everyone and then assert than you can't be yourself.

IMO, it's all about being yourself and accepting that who you are carries quality. If you're afraid of being real, then you're doing yourself and the lovely lady a disservice.
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Crap, sorry. My point was that I have better success without acting myself. My recent two relationships are the only exceptions. Just going off of experience, if you can call it that, but I can also respect your opinion.
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Crap, sorry. My point was that I have better success without acting myself. My recent two relationships are the only exceptions. Just going off of experience, if you can call it that, but I can also respect your opinion.


Older girls will see through the fakery. Heads up. And I've gotten more response from pulling apart the blinds. But that is since I was 22 or so, and I can remember instances when I was younger when it didn't work so well for me.
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Seriously though guys, aren't you gonna tell me the right attitude? >:3

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Posted 12/3/13
Well I don't think I'm ugly. lol
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Posted 12/3/13

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Seriously though guys, aren't you gonna tell me the right attitude? >:3

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Personally, I believe it's about being confident and comfortable with who you are. I'm a pretty scrawny guy myself, but I don't worry about it because it really isn't important to me. I think wasabi1718 really already answered your question. Just embrace what makes you who you are and don't pretend to be anything for anyone. The rest will all fall into place.

Alternatively there's this,
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Posted 12/3/13

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pandrasb wrote:

I'm still single, so therefore I'm not good looking

also small and meek doesn't help if you're a guy


I'd say it has more to do with that attitude, not the looks/being small. As long as you have the right attitude, it really doesn't matter how you look. I've dated a few (3) model quality tens in my day, but I'd say I'm just a 7 on a good day. Attitude, man. That's the entire game.


While I think confidence is an attractive trait I don't think it's a replacement for everything else. Face, body, and clothes are generally the first things people notice. I definitely see people who are facially average but look a lot more attractive because they have a nice style and they're in shape. So I wouldn't really discount these things as irrelevant.
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GreatOnizuka wrote:


wasabi1787 wrote:


pandrasb wrote:

I'm still single, so therefore I'm not good looking

also small and meek doesn't help if you're a guy


I'd say it has more to do with that attitude, not the looks/being small. As long as you have the right attitude, it really doesn't matter how you look. I've dated a few (3) model quality tens in my day, but I'd say I'm just a 7 on a good day. Attitude, man. That's the entire game.


While I think confidence is an attractive trait I don't think it's a replacement for everything else. Face, body, and clothes are generally the first things people notice. I definitely see people who are facially average but look a lot more attractive because they have a nice style and they're in shape. So I wouldn't really discount these things as irrelevant.


Oh no, I'm not saying it's irrelevant. Physical compatibility is certainly important, but I'd say as long as you are healthy, have good hygiene, and dress your age (not necessarily well, just appropriately) then at worst you're going to make a neutral impression which can be more than overcome with personality.
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Posted 12/4/13
i thought looks dont matter hehehe
i hate my height im short....
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Posted 12/4/13
I'm average.
I don't know why I think that way though.
Posted 12/4/13 , edited 12/4/13
Tall, lean, good cheekbones, nice nose, lazy eyes, vampy teeth and that smirk. Just saying. My dad was actually sort of short but my mom was beautiful and very tall. Fortunately she's the one I took after for the best bits.

Everyone has someone they appeal to btw and mine is the eastern European people, they are very frank in how they marvel looks so it's a good boost.
Posted 12/4/13 , edited 12/4/13
I don't view myself as attractive or unattractive. The face and the body that I have is just the face and the body that I have. It's what I've always looked like. I've never experience being in another body so I've never had anything to compare myself to. And when I look at myself in the mirror I don't really know who the person I'm looking at is.
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Posted 12/4/13
I'm a 6'4" Filipino. That's not something you see everyday.
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Posted 12/4/13 , edited 12/4/13
.My beauty status.

Body form: Slim. OK.
Skin health/Anime Skin: Not like Anime characters so.. NOT OK.
Hair style: Unique. OK.
Height: Too long. IMO. NOT EPIC ENOUGH. BUT OK.

So i'm average, as soon as i've gotten myself Anime Skin treatments i'll take a picture on me and use it as an Avatar here and on other sites. So then others can say what they think. You look good in the sake of others after all. If i'd judge my own look i'd end up arrogant.
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