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Posted 7/25/08

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krazy_for_u wrote:

I don't know who to choose?!
I really love my boyfriend,but my best guyfriend asked me out and i don't what to do! I never told them anything i just left it alone! i never told them my feelings and now it's summer break! i really want to tell them but i really don't know who to choose..

It's rather Mike(my boyfriend,and we've been together for 4 years)
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Deaxeng(my best guyfriend for 3 years)

I don't really know who to choose!They're both really nice but i'm really stuck here...Mike loves me and understands me and Deaxeng understands my feelings and he is so sweet..both of them gave me the cuttest pictures for Valentines day and both of them gave me a kiss on my birthday! (How lucky am i?)Well anyways i don't know who to choose!Deaxeng asked me out on Valentine's day and Mike told me in the playground where most people saw it..i need HELP!


well i think u should loyal to mike...after all both of u have share ur sadness n happiness together for 4 years...am i right? 4 years is not a short time...so my suggestion is u need to go on with mike...well u know, true love is hard to find...u need to appreciate it coz u`re lucky to have someone like mike....


Hey thx i;lltake your advice i hope it works and he still loves me

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Posted 7/25/08 , edited 7/25/08

krazy_for_u wrote:


hazzour wrote:


krazy_for_u wrote:

I don't know who to choose?!
I really love my boyfriend,but my best guyfriend asked me out and i don't what to do! I never told them anything i just left it alone! i never told them my feelings and now it's summer break! i really want to tell them but i really don't know who to choose..

It's rather Mike(my boyfriend,and we've been together for 4 years)
or
Deaxeng(my best guyfriend for 3 years)

I don't really know who to choose!They're both really nice but i'm really stuck here...Mike loves me and understands me and Deaxeng understands my feelings and he is so sweet..both of them gave me the cuttest pictures for Valentines day and both of them gave me a kiss on my birthday! (How lucky am i?)Well anyways i don't know who to choose!Deaxeng asked me out on Valentine's day and Mike told me in the playground where most people saw it..i need HELP!


well i think u should loyal to mike...after all both of u have share ur sadness n happiness together for 4 years...am i right? 4 years is not a short time...so my suggestion is u need to go on with mike...well u know, true love is hard to find...u need to appreciate it coz u`re lucky to have someone like mike....


Hey thx i;lltake your advice i hope it works and he still loves me



okay i`m sure he still love u just try ur best....i hope both of u will be happy together eternally....
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Posted 8/23/08

krazy_for_u wrote:


hazzour wrote:


krazy_for_u wrote:

I don't know who to choose?!
I really love my boyfriend,but my best guyfriend asked me out and i don't what to do! I never told them anything i just left it alone! i never told them my feelings and now it's summer break! i really want to tell them but i really don't know who to choose..

It's rather Mike(my boyfriend,and we've been together for 4 years)
or
Deaxeng(my best guyfriend for 3 years)

I don't really know who to choose!They're both really nice but i'm really stuck here...Mike loves me and understands me and Deaxeng understands my feelings and he is so sweet..both of them gave me the cuttest pictures for Valentines day and both of them gave me a kiss on my birthday! (How lucky am i?)Well anyways i don't know who to choose!Deaxeng asked me out on Valentine's day and Mike told me in the playground where most people saw it..i need HELP!


well i think u should loyal to mike...after all both of u have share ur sadness n happiness together for 4 years...am i right? 4 years is not a short time...so my suggestion is u need to go on with mike...well u know, true love is hard to find...u need to appreciate it coz u`re lucky to have someone like mike....


Hey thx i;lltake your advice i hope it works and he still loves me



so how is it now...? did it works?
Posted 8/23/08


not really.. i'm dating Daexeng instead of Mike!

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Posted 10/24/08
my crush lasted for 2 years i waz his friend but then he moved ....it waz painful but i kinda got over it im trying to find a bf now...for about a year>.< no luck
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Posted 10/24/08
I'm 18 and I have known the person I love literally since the day I was born( born in the same hospital)
But I moved away
and he went from being the air I breathe to hardly an acquaintance.
Now.. I think it would just be strange to pop up and say " Hey, you know I still love you"
Even if I was to say that....he wouldn't think of it like that.
I think he's put all that behind him and just sees me as an old friend.
It really is long and complicated.... what should I do?
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Posted 11/2/08
I have a friend who talked to me about something which I really don't know how to give advice on. She says that whenever she talks to her bf, it always seem like he's not listening. He's quiet when she talks but then he doesn't react or give any reply and then kinda like brushes it off by shifting to another topic, and almost always a topic about himself. She didn't really mind this when they were just new with their relationship, but lately this has been her problem. She feels as if her bf doesn't really care about her. Emotionally, she feels neglected. When she had problems at work, she came to me, and not her bf since her guy didn't seem to notice that there was something bothering her.

Well, for me I'm guessing that the guy is either the insensitive type or he doesn't really care. At least the guy should practice 'give and take' right? What do you think?
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Posted 11/3/08
its hard to wait around 4 something dat i know might never happen, but its even harder to giv up something dat i ever wanted.... its really but really hard!!
Posted 11/12/08
idk if this is love or not cause recently i've been talking to my bro's friend alot more than usual, he calls my house but he doesnt want my bro to noe cause he thinks it's embarrassing or something, but one thing is that he has a gf but they havent broken up yet... they're in the period of calming down and he always asks me for advice. i didnt notice that i'm starting to look forward to talking to him on msn and chatting with him on da fone until my friend told me that i might've actually fallen in love with him o.O
i'm getting really confused wat should i do? i dont think i'm in love with him cause.. well... i dont mind wen he talks about other girls and stuff... cause shouldnt u be jealous wen someone u like talks about other girls? so does that mean i'm in love or not? i really need an answer... help me...
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Posted 11/16/08

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idk if this is love or not cause recently i've been talking to my bro's friend alot more than usual, he calls my house but he doesnt want my bro to noe cause he thinks it's embarrassing or something, but one thing is that he has a gf but they havent broken up yet... they're in the period of calming down and he always asks me for advice. i didnt notice that i'm starting to look forward to talking to him on msn and chatting with him on da fone until my friend told me that i might've actually fallen in love with him o.O
i'm getting really confused wat should i do? i dont think i'm in love with him cause.. well... i dont mind wen he talks about other girls and stuff... cause shouldnt u be jealous wen someone u like talks about other girls? so does that mean i'm in love or not? i really need an answer... help me...


From what I understand, you're just having a nice time when you're talking with him..more like for company..not really the 'love-in-love- type..I have a good time talking to guys who talks about their problems with me because it's just like helping them out or something..having someone to talk to is pretty enjoyable.....but I don't really have any lovey-dovey feeling..
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Posted 11/16/08
I'm in love with someone for like 5 years (almost). Yeah, my friends think I'm crazy...
But from the first time he talked to me I had feelings for him and they never went away.
I haven't spoke to him for a really long time, but I feel really happy when I see him...
Sadly enough he is graduating this year and after that I won't be able to see him anymore.
Life is too sad when you're in love.
Posted 11/16/08 , edited 11/16/08

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taxingjiant wrote:

idk if this is love or not cause recently i've been talking to my bro's friend alot more than usual, he calls my house but he doesnt want my bro to noe cause he thinks it's embarrassing or something, but one thing is that he has a gf but they havent broken up yet... they're in the period of calming down and he always asks me for advice. i didnt notice that i'm starting to look forward to talking to him on msn and chatting with him on da fone until my friend told me that i might've actually fallen in love with him o.O
i'm getting really confused wat should i do? i dont think i'm in love with him cause.. well... i dont mind wen he talks about other girls and stuff... cause shouldnt u be jealous wen someone u like talks about other girls? so does that mean i'm in love or not? i really need an answer... help me...


From what I understand, you're just having a nice time when you're talking with him..more like for company..not really the 'love-in-love- type..I have a good time talking to guys who talks about their problems with me because it's just like helping them out or something..having someone to talk to is pretty enjoyable.....but I don't really have any lovey-dovey feeling..


ty so much for da advice! now i'm not feeling awkward anymore to talk to him hehe =P
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Posted 11/17/08
hi evLyb0die .. can u pLz heLp me ?? or give mei s0me aDvice .. Image


.hirx da sTory, der ix dis gUy i like, and my frEnd [alx0 his frend] toLd mei that he likes mei t0o, at first i d0n't like him c0'z i never sEe his face bUt when i see him naH .. w0w, i realLy feLt dat der was a c0nnection between us .. ahahaha .. [i h0pe he feeLs da xame ] den afTer dat, one of our frEnd toLd me, he is singLe since birth jUxt like meii [ahahaha] t0o make da xTorY sHort, we are excHanging message t0o eAch oTher beF0re bUt n0w when he gaVe c0mment anD wHen i repLied he d0esn't give any resp0nds .. but after few m0nths or weeks laTer he gives c0mment wHich is jUxt a simpLe hi, den ax da sAme thing i d0 c0mment him back bUt sTilL he d0esn't give any resp0nds again ... after dis past few weeks, he d0es da xame thing again but dix time i didn't resp0nd in his c0mment and try t0o ign0re him bUt da pr0bLem ix da longer da times he d0esn't view mai pr0fiLe da m0re it makes me like him x0o mUch !!!!! I aLwayz think abwt him .. and it realLy hurTs me x0o baDLy!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Image


i wish u c0uLd heLp mei, can u heLp me figure out wHat his trUe feelings f0r me and why his d0ing dix t0o mei ... c0z it makes mei feeL sIck !! Image Image Image
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Posted 11/21/08
I just wanna say don;t give up peoples!! I thought i would never fall in love with my friend but i ended up doing so and he's the love of my life!!! so just confess..the worst they can say is they wanna stay friends but just think of the best thing that can happen!
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Posted 11/22/08
well...once i went for a enrichment program and i met a guy and really liked him but that was a year ago.....

and i met him again...........recently during a maths enrichment class and its ending soon should i confess or nt..

(i m not even sure if he remembers me)
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