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How does Love turn into Intense Hatred?
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Posted 12/20/13
This actually is happening to me right now, but its love for a friend, not a boyfriend. But its not my fault, because this girl that I have always loved and trusted and has always been around suddenly stops talking to several people, me included. She had reasons to stop talking to them, but not me. I asked her if i did something bad to her, and she said no, but she still avoided me and didnt speak to me. Today, she ended up apologizing to one of the people that she didnt like, stating she was sorry for the way she treated him, but nothing to me. I didnt do anything bad to her, yet she turned on me like i did something to her. I try to ignore it and move on, but I cared about her so much and she was my best friend. Ive never felt so disrespected by a classmate before now. How does she apologize to him, when he actually did something to get her mad, and not me, when i didnt do anything to her? People like that really get me mad, but i cant just stop talking to her because we were so attached to each other and she was one of my best friends. Im half angry and half depressed about it. Sorry for my rant, i had to let this anger loose
Posted 12/20/13
You can't hate something you're indifferent about.
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Posted 12/20/13
Maybe it's your way of coping?
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Posted 12/20/13 , edited 12/20/13
hahaha you and my bf should meet up and talk you guys would get along very well
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The same way rain turns to snow....it freezes
Posted 12/20/13
Well.. I don't know if it can be considered extreme hatred, but before I started going out with who I'm with now I was with another guy (in an online relationship). Over time I kept getting more and more scared that he wasn't who he said he was and as that time went on my love for him lessened; I couldn't really bare talking to him too much and I didn't have the courage to tell him how I felt, at first.
In a way I'm glad this happened because I started to notice his flaws when I didn't do so, at first. We didn't have too much in common and he kind of pressured me to do things at times. He kept talking about reality and..I guess that's understandable, but still. It just scared/worried me. As my love lessened and as I started to notice the bad more often I despised him a bit. I'm thankful that I finally had the courage to end the relationship, though (however he repeatedly tried to guilt trip me into getting back together with him to the point where I just stopped answering and disappeared). Just the thought of being with him and not who I'm with now upsets me.
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Posted 12/20/13
Its the reason I don't date anymore.
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Posted 12/25/13
love into intense hatred? when people are in love they look past imperfections, i think, and maybe you found out something that really put you off and started hating that person?
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Posted 12/26/13
I'm okay with it.
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Posted 12/26/13
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Posted 12/26/13
I dunno.

I used to. Must have. Must have been there. It's in that corner of my mind. But my brain is fuzzy these days.

I know you will get over it.

You'll look back and be like "Woah man. He was such a fucking loser. And I? I was just fucking stupid to even care about such a flooping dude." Then you'll laugh it off like whatever <3

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Posted 12/26/13
I've always found that if I love someone, it's an all or nothing deal. I either love them like my own self, or I happily dream of their screams of despair. My first GF I loved very much(so much as I was capable of at the time), but then she hurt me badly, and I turned to hating her because she touched the ONE thing I couldn't forgive. She's apologized later, and because I'm a forgiving person(golden rule, right?), I forgave her. But it was impressed on me that if I spent enough emotional capital on someone to love them, I would be unconsolably bitter if they trashed me in return.
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Posted 12/26/13 , edited 12/26/13
Yes, it has happened to me recently. It's mostly because of the reason that it did not work out. It could have gone better, but his feelings subsided and I was foolish. Eh, you'll get over the anger, move on with your life and just ignore that person.



cynthash wrote:

I've always found that if I love someone, it's an all or nothing deal. I either love them like my own self, or I happily dream of their screams of despair. But it was impressed on me that if I spent enough emotional capital on someone to love them, I would be unconsolably bitter if they trashed me in return.


Exactly.


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Posted 12/26/13
Dearly beloved....
Posted 12/26/13
Magic.
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