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Your thoughts on polyamorous relationships?
Posted 12/22/13
Well, if all the people involved are fine with it, it's fine, but it's not something I would do.
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Posted 12/22/13
That would never work for me. When I find one I'm going to give her my whole soul. It's either yes or no in that response. It can only be one. Well there can be causes where some people might accept each other and not taking either one too seriously but it's always a dilemma when several people are having a relationship. At some point I think there will be some disagreements and feelings that want more from either one. Oh I'm not the one to talk about this really. This is my opinion. Human mind and how emotions interact with people is so individual and variable. It's impossible to speak for all that. About the morale I dont' mind as long as they are happy. Well that's my free will but the society might say something else... There again. World today thank you!
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Posted 12/22/13 , edited 12/22/13
As long as everyone involved is consenting and the 'poly'-aspect of the relationship isn't held a secret from anyone, I don't see any kind of problem with it.

Is it something I would do? No, but then again, it's not for the same reason as for many others: I personally don't have any interest to commit into any sort of longlasting romantic relationship, with just one person or otherwise.
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Posted 12/22/13
I think as long as nobody gets hurt and everyone are fully consenting adults then people are entitled to live their lives as they wish relationship wise. I'm not one to judge peoples life choices. I don't think it's something i'd consider as a long term thing though personally. I think it's inevitable that i would end up picking favorites and then spend more time with one person. It's hard to focus yourself seriously and emotionally to multiple people in a long term relationship for several reasons.
Posted 12/22/13
Sounds like the good life, worthwhile, and i'm okay with it, having one partner must get boring.
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Posted 12/22/13
If everyone in the relationship is okay with it, and it works for them, then I have no problem with it. I'd much rather people be happy in whatever relationship works for them than miserable trying to fit into what society says a relationship "should" be.
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Posted 12/22/13
Nope, not for me. I am too jealous of a person and not afraid to admit it :). Plus I am not the type to commit to more than one person in matters of love.

It other people want to do it, it's up to them and none of my business.
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Posted 12/22/13
So long as we keep it within the lines of the actual definition where EVERYONE is consenting of the deal and they are all happy. All the more power to them. But if its one couple with some background players then no that is wrong and cheating.
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22 / F / Johnstown, PA, USA
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Posted 12/22/13 , edited 12/22/13
I'm fine with idea of a consensual polyamorous relationship, though I wouldn't want to be in one. I'd be all, "COMPETITION DETECTED. MUST ANNIHILATE," or, "SECURITY BREACH. ABORT MISSION, ABORT MISSION."
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Posted 12/22/13
It's not something I would want but I don't think there's anything wrong with it as long as everyone involved is aware of the situation.
Posted 12/22/13
Everyone wah? Are you for real?
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Posted 12/22/13
Lol I wonder how they break up. Or if one person leaves is that akward for the other two..?
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24 / F / New Jersey, USA
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Posted 12/22/13
Who needs two when you can have five in a loving relationship...right?

People just do as they see fit.
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20 / M / Existence.
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Posted 12/22/13
I can't manage to get one girlfriend. Now I'm supposed to get two?

Seriously, though, I don't really care either way about it.
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Posted 12/23/13
I personally would never do something like that, but if others do it, then its ok.
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