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Are you a people pleaser?
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Posted 12/23/13

miGneto wrote:

That's not to say that I'm going to be an ass to people, of course. I'm just not going to try and change who I am just to fit someone else's mold or ideal.

It's tough, yes, but you'll learn to deal with it. Eventually, it will become second nature for you not to give a damn



I don't wanna become an ass either but still I want to be a better person than now. I'm slowly getting there and I did use the word "slowly".
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Posted 12/23/13 , edited 12/23/13
No, im not. People will only take advantage of you if you do that, and it seems like unfortunately some people have already been through that in this topic.
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Posted 12/23/13
I try to avoid any confrontations if possible. At work I tell my co workers that they can put whatever type of music they want..that I'm not picky (which I'm not). If they want to eat I usually respond with "whatever you want, I can eat anything". Again I'm not picky. So because of things like that I think I'm a people pleaser.
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Posted 12/24/13

dalmain wrote:

I try to avoid any confrontations if possible. At work I tell my co workers that they can put whatever type of music they want..that I'm not picky (which I'm not). If they want to eat I usually respond with "whatever you want, I can eat anything". Again I'm not picky. So because of things like that I think I'm a people pleaser.


Me too. I don't really like trying to get into little arguments either.
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Posted 12/24/13
LOL, No. Not even close to a people pleaser.
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Posted 12/24/13

AwesomeFantastic wrote:

LOL, No. Not even close to a people pleaser.



Interesting. Any advice you can give or no?
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Posted 12/24/13

qualeshia3 wrote:


AwesomeFantastic wrote:

LOL, No. Not even close to a people pleaser.



Interesting. Any advice you can give or no?


Not really we are who we are.

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Posted 12/24/13

AwesomeFantastic wrote:


qualeshia3 wrote:


AwesomeFantastic wrote:

LOL, No. Not even close to a people pleaser.



Interesting. Any advice you can give or no?


Not really we are who we are.




Thanks for commenting.
Posted 12/24/13
I was brought up on the principle that you only have to be nice to 3 types of people
1. parents and siblings ( all other family members are optional).
2. people who can have an effect on your education or job i.e you have to be nice to boss or teachers everyone else dose not matter.
3. people who can be useful to you i.e. you want something from them.
and then told no one is nice for no reason.
when told this by my parents at age 12 i was kind of shocked but fortunately began to see how true it was.
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Posted 12/24/13 , edited 12/24/13

Varete wrote:

I was brought up on the principle that you only have to be nice to 3 types of people
1. parents and siblings ( all other family members are optional).
2. people who can have an effect on your education or job i.e you have to be nice to boss or teachers everyone else dose not matter.
3. people who can be useful to you i.e. you want something from them.
and then told no one is nice for no reason.
when told this by my parents at age 12 i was kind of shocked but fortunately began to see how true it was.


That sound really interesting.
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Posted 12/25/13 , edited 12/25/13
Please ppl...for wut? If it gets me somewhere in life then sure, i'd be a buddy to some, but if I suspect something off about someone, then I always tend to test them. I seem to get results when I do
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Posted 12/25/13

qhero007 wrote:

Please ppl...for wut? If it gets me somewhere in life then sure, i'd be a buddy to some, but if I suspect something off about someone, then I always tend to test them. I seem to get results when I do



People pleasing isn't a good thing.
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Posted 12/25/13 , edited 12/25/13
Of course and the number one person I please is me.
Posted 12/25/13
Oh my word, no. That would be a terrible thing to do since you can never satisfy people.
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Posted 12/25/13

pirththee wrote:

Of course and the number one person I please is me.



Interesting.
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