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What type of girl would you avoid dating?!
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26 / M / Atlantic Beach, NC
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Posted 1/10/14 , edited 1/10/14
That's a pretty broad question.

The main kind of girl that I wouldn't date would be one that is trying too hard to be something that she isn't. It's incredible just how common this is, not just girls but a lot of people in general seem to be very uncomfortable with who they are. They try to hide things about themselves that they love but feel ashamed of, or pretend to like things they don't, or be knowledgeable about things of which they are ignorant of to try to fit a mold that they think whomever they are talking to will like most. It's extremely aggravating because it's very obvious when you do this.

Being a little self conscious is fine. It sounds mean but I actually think it's kinda cute to be a little shy. As a man, it gives me more confidence in myself to instill confidence in her if she has a secret hobby or something that she is otherwise nervous to share with others. Though obviously there is a huge limit to this, assertiveness should take over most of the time. Otherwise things can turn out really badly.

Chicks that are very closed minded are also a huge turn off. For anybody I know, not just girls that I date, I am ready and willing to dive into any new hobby you want to explore with me. It's how I got into anime in the first place. You may not like everything I'm into, and I may not like everything you're into, but that's fine as long as you at least share what you are passionate about. And if you don't at least accept that I like playing League of Legends, I love swimming more than life itself, and I watch a lot of anime, then there is no way I'm going to see you for more than one date. Though really, those two things fit a very broad amount of personalities.

I guess it's not really a subconscious checklist of traits that I am looking for, but rather that you just are who you are and accept everyone else for the same that makes somebody likable to me. I tend to get along with people of all walks of life, though my introverted nature keeps the people I do associate with very limited. There are several other red flags to look for that have already been mentioned (women that try to change you, won't shut up about exes, complain about how ugly they are, etc), but a lot of those people fit the other two categories more often than not anyway.
Posted 1/10/14
Well, if i'm to be honest at this point in my life, then probably very few. Beggars can't be choosers, after all. However, in spite of that rather open statement, I do have some fairly "high" standards, though not unreasonable, i'd say.

For starters, I won't date girls that trivialize love and romance. For example, if any girl says that she's "been in love" more than twice, then in my mind they're already sort of trivializing it to an extent that seems irreconcilably different from my own.

I'd prefer not to date a girl who is loud or assertive. Not because I think that's a bad trait, but because it seems incompatible with my passive and rather submissive nature.

Finally, I'd prefer not to date a girl who is excessively sociable. Extroverts in general, i'd say. However, in truth, I don't think that most extroverts would want to date me either anyway. I'd be too boring for them, i'd imagine.

Those are the types I think I would avoid, but as I said, beggars can't be choosers.
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i would date all the girls. every girl is cute in her own way *heart eyes*
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SaintJames012 wrote:


BreadCrumm wrote:

I couldn't date:

-Party girls
-Airheads
-Whores


Aren't those synonyms?


Well, this is why I do math..words aren't my strong suit. Haha. I guess I'm pretty open then... :O
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I'd avoid any girl that would date me.
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Whatever the hell kind of woman my stepdad's ex-wife is, I hope you guys avoid dating it. You hear about the sort of venomous women that manipulate men into marrying them, pop out children, divorce the poor fools, mold the kids into being dependent on her, and then kick them out when the child support payments end? She even went so far as to "diagnose" her children with various illness over the years for more cash and control, and she even gained legal power over her twenty-four years-old eldest son's finances. By the way, she also poisoned the minds of my stepdad's three kids against him, though, fortunately, two have since recovered and are aware of the monster she is.

My paternal grandmother is a real piece of work, too. A card-carrying manipulator who holds the puppet strings of most of her brood. Outsiders aren't welcome. You marry into the family; expect discovering her and the rest of her tight-knit group (possibly including whoever you married) gathering around the kitchen table in the middle of the night to verbally rip you apart behind your back, and even plotting against you. She particularly hates women who marry into the family. My Uncle Jerry (her middle son) has been all but disowned for sticking up for his wife, and Uncle John will probably follow suit, due to the racial attacks against his wife and stepdaughter.
Posted 1/11/14

aeb0717 wrote:

Whatever the hell kind of woman my stepdad's ex-wife is, I hope you guys avoid dating it. You hear about the sort of venomous women that manipulate men into marrying them, pop out children, divorce the poor fools, mold the kids into being dependent on her, and then kick them out when the child support payments end? She even went so far as to "diagnose" her children with various illness over the years for more cash and control, and she even gained legal power over her twenty-four years-old eldest son's finances. By the way, she also poisoned the minds of my stepdad's three kids against him, though, fortunately, two have since recovered and are aware of the monster she is.

My paternal grandmother is a real piece of work, too. A card-carrying manipulator who holds the puppet strings of most of her brood. Outsiders aren't welcome. You marry into the family; expect discovering her and the rest of her tight-knit group (possibly including whoever you married) gathering around the kitchen table in the middle of the night, verbally ripping you apart behind your back, and even plotting against you. She particularly hates women who marry into the family. My Uncle Jerry (her middle son) has been all but disowned for sticking up for his wife, and Uncle John will probably follow suit, due to the racial attacks against his wife and stepdaughter.


Wow, that is some seriously heavy stuff... BUT the good news is it will probably stop with your grandmother unless her influence lasts past her and causes that same behaviour in others of your family. In which case I would just exclude those people from your life because as tough as it is, sometimes it's better to exclude people from your life for various reasons (whether they are family or not. Depending of course, on how toxic you deem them to be)
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Posted 1/11/14

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Ah okay.


Just move to NY to boost it lol, seriously though, dont move here it sucks
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Posted 1/11/14
Anyone I'm quickly attracted to. Since I'm attracted to the wrong type of women.

Nice girl - Girls talk about "nice guys" but what about "nice girls"? Most (not all) females I have come into contact with seem to have major flaws that they try to hide from a guy they're interested in. While I understand that you try to put your best foot forward. They will be extremely kind, understanding, forgiving, and considerate to someone they like, even to the point where if they get cheated on, verbally, or physically abused they're still fine with it. But if they don't like you than even disagreeing about something minor like a TV show could end the "friendship" and you never get to experience their "good" side. So my point being this whole "nice guy" thing works both ways.

Nobody is perfect, but beggars CAN be choosers, at least I can. I would like to date a girl that I have things in common with that I can make laugh, and can make me laugh, and would invest in the relationship and be one of my best friends.
Posted 1/11/14

rockadilla wrote:

Girls talk about "nice guys"


I have personally never once heard a female friend talk about "nice guys" I feel like this is the sort of thing stand-up comedians say and everyone just repeats it
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Posted 1/11/14

GreatOnizuka wrote:


rockadilla wrote:

Girls talk about "nice guys"


I have personally never once heard a female friend talk about "nice guys" I feel like this is the sort of thing stand-up comedians say and everyone just repeats it


It's in the OP xD http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumtopic-813277/which-types-of-guys-would-you-avoid-dating

Granted it depends on different factors, I know that people get called out on it often because I've been called a "nice guy" multiple times. Other words for "nice guy" include: two-faced, fake, or shallow. But there are also people who go to great lengths to prove that "nice guys" are the plague of society.
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the only kind of girls I hate are gold diggers, and the ones who criticize everyone and are plain rude.
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Avoid 3DPD at all costs.
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It's not that different from what I dislike regarding anyone really. I don't like overly judgmental girls or ones that make broad generalizations/sexist statements towards men or women.

I'd also rather she weren't the type that was't interested in my looks or was mainly interested in me making her feel wanted/protected. I want her to want me like I want her= by personality and looks.
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