Just broke up with my girlfriend :(
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No idea why I'm on CR of all places, just need a place to vent, sorry guys. I'm tearing up like a little girl ugh

She's so pretty, and her head would fit perfectly under my shoulder and i loved petting her hair and squeezinngg her... I jus wanna squeeze her and cuddle and make out but ofc she didnt like kissing though or anything sexual and only got horny once in a blue moon and sucked at sucking..... mouth too small. She expects me to let her lie on my shoulder and just stay still as she falls asleep without doing anything.. And apparently I'm way too sexual for her pfft

We break up every month because of some stupid shit and she expects me to walk her home every day and its ****ing freezing in NY, go to her dance performances, get her bubble tea, no thanks are you kidding me I'm not your servant.
Plus she says she hates new york, wtf I was born and raised here, and shes studying abroad for a WHOLE YEAR and acts like oh nbd we can just long distance for a year haha no.

We both want to be dominant and wear the pants in the relationship, apparently she wants the same quailities in a boyfriend that I want in a girlfriend ....

She's so damn pretty though and doing acting, if she actually makes it I'm gonna regret not going after her again for the rest of my life ugh but I can also fkn raise the roof and become a ceo 10kaday and live the models and bottles lifestyle, its not hard I'm already in the city I just need to network a little and land a few interviews and charm the interviewers. I gotta land a front office gig on wall street , but my grades are so damn sh*tty, how do I turn this around? I can do it but i gotta step it up

We're in the most confusing relationship ever, the first time we broke up I felt absolutely nothing. This time i feel like a heartbroken little girl what the hell is happening to me

I'm afraid i can't find someone as attractive as her again, ego just got bursted like a big balloon, but what the hell i'm tall and decent looking I can get an even more attractive girlfriend if I want... maybe I'll grab a rebound girl and play the f-ck out of her and throw her away. Gotta tone my body a little more first though, need to hit the gym again

She's so insecure too, always telling me shes getting fat but she still wants to eat her sweets and boba, yeah she does have a little midriff though. Hell she asked me out after I played piano for her, but a month later she wanted me to ask her to be my girlfriend, just so she could say no. I mean wtf? Keeps asking me "do you like me", "will you leave me if someone prettier comes along", "do you think i'm good looking" and I tell her what I really feel which are also the positives she wants to hear, and then I ask her something similar just for fun and she just shoots it down and makes me feel like absolute sh-t

I know this sounds really rambling sorry guys I just need a release and Im writing whatever comes to mind. Mods you can delete this thread if you want t_T
Posted 1/12/14

droondood wrote:

We break up every month because of some stupid shit and she expects me to walk her home every day and its ****ing freezing in NY, go to her dance performances, get her bubble tea, no thanks are you kidding me I'm not your servant.
Plus she says she hates new york, wtf I was born and raised here, and shes studying abroad for a WHOLE YEAR and acts like oh nbd we can just long distance for a year haha no.



You need to listen to the song, "When I was your man" by Bruno Mars...

And those are simple things that you do for someone you love... it's not like she's asking you to rob a bank.
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Not trying to downplay how hurt you feel, but I suggest posting this in http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumtopic-1099/the-general-helpadvice-thread even though you weren't specifically asking for help or advice. It just sounds like you need someone to listen to you and that thread may help instead of making a personal one without any direction. I will close this thread but you are welcome to copy and paste what you wrote.
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Yeah, thats it

I'm gonna find a new pretty or prettier girl and make her feel like sh_t, then get a kickass high paying job and make that regret run deep
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Nicole wrote:



Not trying to downplay how hurt you feel, but I suggest posting this in http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumtopic-1099/the-general-helpadvice-thread even though you weren't specifically asking for help or advice. It just sounds like you need someone to listen to you and that thread may help instead of making a personal one without any direction. I will close this thread but you are welcome to copy and paste what you wrote.


You can close it, I feel better now after venting. Thanks for understanding!

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Looks like she wasn't the right girl for you. Stay positive, you'll find someone suitable for you.
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your care for each other aside. some relationships just become toxic at a point.

all those arguments and break ups, those wounds dont always heal, and pile up into a big ugly scar.

so then it's maybe it's best to call it quits?

people change during a relationship, maybe you are meant to walk down separate paths.

that all being said, i feel your pain
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I don't want to be rude, but ehm.. If you two are breaking up every month, isn't it maybe better that you guys stay friends? You'll only end up hurting each other if you keep trying. Nevertheless, I hope you guys will work it out in some sort of way. As long as you're happy, right?


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Posted 1/12/14

droondood wrote:

You can close it, I feel better now after venting. Thanks for understanding!



No problem.

I apologize to everyone who is or was considering responding to this thread. I will be closing it.
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