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What are your thoughts on the guy being expected to make the first move?
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Posted 3/6/14

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I think it's stupid and is part of the reason loads end up single so long. Should be set for either to do it.


I agree with the latter part of your post but not the first.

I don't mean to say that it should be a requirement for the guy to make the first move, but if he's too much of a wimp to ask a lady out then frankly he shouldn't expect to be in a relationship.
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kinda desperate really in manga i love it when the girl makes a move but really when you think about it...ITS KINDA DESPERATE ON BOTH SIDES! THEY BOTH WANT TO GET IN THEIR PANTS!!
ehh but ya
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I'm a guy and I always make the first move, but to be honest it's not because it's expected of me but because I go after what I want. I would like women to approach me though, it would definitely boost my confidence!
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I like guys who have some backbone. I'm not really into the whole shy/"nice" guy type.
Besides, I think too highly of myself to go through the trouble of asking anyone out.
I never felt the need or urge to do so anyway.
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if a girl likes a guy, she should not expect him to notice nor to read her mind nor to make a move on her.
there is no way for a guy to just know that a girl wants him to ask her out.
it could be that asking that guy that gets him to notice that "ohh this girl is kinda cute and attractive"... and really there is no harm in asking.. your usually just get a no at worst and if your friends i doubt you lose a friend over asking one out.
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Posted 3/6/14 , edited 3/6/14
My thoughts? Girls are lazy if they expect the guy to make the first move. I mean come on, they bitch about wanting equality but won't take some damn initiative when it comes to something like this. Pitiful.
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I've never asked a girl out. Too socially awkward and I don't believe in that stereotypical shit. Feminists want equality, yet still abide by age-old stereotypes and expect to be able to cherry-pick what they do and don't want. Nuhuh, get out of here with that shit.

I've never asked out any of the girls I was with. They've all asked me out. And my current one's a keeper. I don't know if living in the South has anything to do with this though.
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hmmm yes ladies times to start asking those losers out, here's a step by step process to make it easier


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It's a non-issue for me. I am hardly ever attracted to anyone, and they don't have the guts to ask me out.
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Anyone ever heard of Sadie Hawkins Day? Yeah its a real thing where girls ask boys out on dates and sometimes high schools have a dance on that day too. Kinda like valentines where we can be super romantic for a day. To answer the question, I think it shouldn't be an expectation because let's say a guy is single and not really looking to be in a relationship but the girl just loves the guy and needs to be with him. Why waste time to get noticed make him like you and ask you if he just so happens to ask another girl out then what beat your self up for not just asking. If I like a girl and know a hit about her I'll dive right in and ask her out because I don't want some other ass hole to come and take her from me
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Posted 3/7/14 , edited 3/7/14
If a girl likes a guy but never tells him that its pretty pathetic imo. Never had a girlfriend before so this might be me being ignorant and apathetic but they wont know unless you tell dem.

(kinda applies both ways)
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In my experience most women who makes the first move are pretty slick about it. They're the type that, when you're with them somewhere, they go "Uuh! I want to go there! Uuh! I want to eat that! Uuh! Yummy! Uuh! This way! Uuh! This is so pretty! Don't you think it's pretty? It's pretty. I don't care what you think! Haha! Just kidding! Uuh! Look over there! Uuh! This is so much fun! Don't you think this is fun? This is fun." and drag you with them everywhere, like literally, grab you by the hand and pull you after them, and you just feel like a rag doll or teddy bear and you're just going "Ok?" with a blank expression on your face.

To be perfectly honest, that's what my last ex-girlfriend was like. I have no idea how she got there. (Into my life I mean). She was a ninja.
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Posted 3/7/14 , edited 3/7/14
dude, how do you guys get asked out by girls?!
Never happen to me... lol


I have to do the asking
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Guys can be totally clueless so girls make the first step if you wish. Might was well go for want you want than have regrets later.

Now reverse the gender on the sentence above,

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Posted 3/7/14

miGneto wrote:


Muur wrote:

I think it's stupid and is part of the reason loads end up single so long. Should be set for either to do it.


I agree with the latter part of your post but not the first.

I don't mean to say that it should be a requirement for the guy to make the first move, but if he's too much of a wimp to ask a lady out then frankly he shouldn't expect to be in a relationship.


Yeah fair enough. I've asked girls out in the past but eh, I just think it would be easier for everyone if girls also did the asking more often.
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