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Post Reply Are you an aromatic or asexual?
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Posted 7/14/15
Well i have never been interested in relationships but i do have as much sex as i can get... So i might be aromatic, but definitely not a sexual unless it is a particularly unlucky month...
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Posted 7/14/15
Eh...if you want to call "not looking" aromantic, you can. It doesn't mean I can't experience romantic attraction, or that I'm actively opposed to such, but rather that I simply don't right now.
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18 / F / England
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Posted 7/21/15
Aromantic
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26 / M / Goshen, IN
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Posted 10/24/15
Asexual, like making my partner feel good but it's more work than enjoyment. I prefer cuddles
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25 / F / New Jersey, USA
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Posted 10/24/15

Snowon wrote:

Asexual, like making my partner feel good but it's more work than enjoyment. I prefer cuddles


D'aww!
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28 / F / Bamboo Land
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Posted 10/25/15
Neither. Too bad you didn't put other.
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Posted 10/25/15

Inulover16 wrote:

Neither. Too bad you didn't put other.


Sorry.
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24 / F / United States, DE
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Posted 10/25/15
I am neither of those ...
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Posted 10/25/15 , edited 10/25/15
I am hopelessly romantic soul. I seem to be after different things than other people. So I don't know, if I fit the modern net-dating society that well. If I try to be nice and change my ways, I have always ended up in a hopeless relationship. Being single is something that has come as a choice for me. There are people who I can make happy but at the same time they turn me unhappy.

Supposedly this challenge in life, could perhaps state that I am aromantic. I love real romance but it is very hard to find in the modern day. To share a magical moment with another person is rare. I am trying my best so that I could fill the void reserved for that special significant other. As I am not after fake romance, I've probably shot myself in the leg more than just once. But It is what makes life interesting and at least for now I am still being optimistic.

I'm also quite asexual towards everyone who does not fill the first condition for the romantic encounter. Yet I am the extreme opposite, if the condition is filled. Meaning that I just can't get enough of the significant other - giving everything I can towards mutual happiness.

Though I think this type of behavior is explained by the fact that I am overly sensitive and reacting to even the slightest nuances in a social interactions; both the near vicinity but also further away. I am surprised that I am not introverted but an extrovert. Though bar nights can be exhausting as my head involuntarily picks up stuff I don't want to pick up. Someone having drama inside the same room can really drain my batteries fast. I suppose the reason why I am asexual towards anyone but the significant other is the uncertainty about what'll happen. How emotions play along and etc. For me both sexuality and romance are twined tightly together by a thread. Each time I have disturbed that connection, I've ended up hurt bad.

So yeah. I suppose you'd need the voting option for hopelessly romantic aromantic!? xD



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19 / M / Louisiana
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Posted 10/25/15
Neither!!
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Posted 10/25/15
I always thought it was silly that people are bringing romance into sexuality when it's obvious the two don't necessarily need to be linked and, in fact, often are not. The same people talk about this but bring up "aromantic" when you ask them about their sexual orientation. Does not compute.

But, no, I am a hopeless, cheesy romantic and I am straight.
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Posted 10/26/15 , edited 10/26/15
Neither, I would like a relationship and have a healthy amount of sex.
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Posted 10/26/15
Neither
Posted 10/27/15 , edited 10/27/15
I wish so I could stop having crushes and feeling so lonely XD

I'm quiet and an introvert but I don't like to be alone 100% of the time. Everyone needs that human contact sometimes, I sure do!

I'm very romantic and I love boys, even love my best friends who are women so I could never see myself as an asexual or aromantic. I'm a loner but that's different haha
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