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Are you a social person?
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Posted 2/5/14 , edited 2/5/14
recently i've been feeling a lil down over the fact im just not a very social person. i have a small close-knit group of friends and i see them in college and talk to them on facebook etc. pretty much everyday, occasionally we get together outside of school but it's kinda rare. it's not that i don't like going out etc. i just wont go out of my way to try and get everyone together when ive always been happiest indoors doing my own thing and keeping myself entertained. i dont really try to talk to people online either because i feel this weird pressure to entertain/interest people when im not the best conversationalist. i just feel like i SHOULD be out every weekend or free evening being all social and stuff like everyone else whos 'normal'. its dumb.

i guess i'm just wondering if anyones similar or thinks it's weird/normal etc? do you ever feel guilty about not going out? or feel pressure to be like 'everyone else' and go out?
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i never feel guilty for not going out, that means i don't have to spend money

it's okay not to be social, imo it's just important to be respectful if you happen to be in a social setting.
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no. i have a small group of friends and that's it. i dont mind not going out every weekends cos honestly, it's too much of a hassle for me. i prefer staying at home, lurking, talking to a few friends about awesome stuff, sleeping. but recently, as i just got re-admitted to school, i'm having a very hard time approaching people. i get pretty lonely that after classes, i got no one to hang out with. i envy my friends who are pretty well-known and can hang out with everyone effortlessly.
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I'm not the most social person in my highschool, I have about 3-4 people and a childhood friend I would bother talking to but never go out of my way to make plans with them since we don't all have the same interests, I don't feel guilty at all since I like being lonely, but if somebody offered I would say yes majority of the time ^^ I see myself as most social online though, only because it's much easier for me and there is a variety of people that are super awesome though people do grow out of that habit, I'm just waiting until I get to college and become independent and let life pretty much hit me in the face hard ^^;;
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@Sogna
haha i hear that! money is well worth it.

@Frolixx
i get what you mean, there's so many people in my year who just float around and seem to be close to everyone but i'm just not confident enough and stuff to be like that.

@revesur
i can definitely agree that theres alot of super awesome people, i just never seem to get to actually KNOW any of them. i feel like life hits me hard in the face everyday :-----// not fun.
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meet ups would be a great idea! gather a group of friends, and pick a place, plan the event, and take a plane and meet up ^^ would be a great experience!
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18 / F / Narnia
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I tend to be social anywhere but school.... i already know half of those pricks and i don't want to talk to them. if they talk to me or i have to talk to them ill be nice of course. (you never really know :\) and its not that i hate them all, i just rather avoid them.
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37 / F / Prince George BC
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Posted 2/5/14
I would call myself an extroverted introvert. I have no problem socialising with other people but I am very comfortable being on my own too. I'm not a party animal but I still like to go hang out with my friends too.
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@revesur
that'd be amazing haha even though i'd be so awkward X_x

@bule
can definitely understand that, theres people i avoid like the plague everyday

@canukred
sometimes i think of myself like that but then when i'm in social situations i can feel veryyyy uncomfortable and bleugh but it sounds like a nice balance~
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23 / M / San Diego, CA
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Posted 2/5/14
I only have a small group of friends I will enjoy hanging out with and occasionally watching anime or going out with.
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@nerder
none of my friends share my anime interest i so wish i could just chill with someone and watch anime all day omg
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Posted 2/5/14
Well you always have Crunchyroll.
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37 / F / Prince George BC
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none of my friends share my anime interest i so wish i could just chill with someone and watch anime all day omg


I feel you here, I have a circle of friends , and although some of them are on the nerdy side of things none share my passion for Anime, Manga and Japanese culture in general, thankfully I'm am starting to get to know some really cool people on CR forums that I can yabber about anime with <3
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Posted 2/5/14
i think i'll just have to trollop around the forums a bit more haha~
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83 / F / Bite the pillow.
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Posted 2/5/14
I am a social disease.
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