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Losing Interest / Excessively Lazy
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Posted 2/10/14
i have done that all my life, but i pick up small bits and piece it together. well with people that i can be calm with or know. if i can't figure it out 99% a shot in the dark and in usually right. except when people are switching languages where words sound the same but mean different things.

if its an interview or something along that line im just tense and can't do that.
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Posted 2/10/14
Of course that happens to everyone. It is respectful and best to stay mindful while communicating with other people though.
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Posted 2/10/14
Happens to me all the time xD I don't blame you. Usually when I'm tired I tend to space out, just try to be considerate! They are your friends after all
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Posted 2/10/14
Not really
If I feel like not talking with anyone I'd avoid people by going into my room or isolating myself at public places which is easy to do actually

As for not listening to what someone tries to tell me, I consider it very rude so I don't do that, unless intentionally when I'm arguing with my sister.
I'm trying to imprve my social skill so that's probably why I listen to what ppl say and ask questions about themselves which always make them keep talking and that's good, most of the times.
Posted 2/10/14
I have when I converse with a individual, but only when I feel I have little to no connection with them. If I feel the conversation shifts to a topic I do not feel comfortable speaking about nor have a interest discussing (e.g. pointless gossip, insulting another person, forming rumors), or if the individual does not want to give enough effort to want to speak to me or if I receive a one word reply every time, I will definitely lose interest to want to continue speaking with that person.

I would not want to purposely wander off when conversing with any person because I find that very disrespectful to them. I push to always be attentive as possible because I try to think I would not want anyone to lose interest in me and stop focusing on what I was saying. If it does happen, I hope that individual would gain some courage to admit it and not have me realize it later.
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36 / M / Denver
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Posted 2/10/14
Before some of you give yourselves ADHD, I should probably clarify: most people are, in fact, boring.

As for myself, I don't talk to those people anymore, so I don't have to cover it up with politeness. Problem solved.
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Posted 2/10/14
Yes.
Posted 2/10/14
Yeah, I lost where you were trying to get at.
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Posted 12/27/15
Year-end cleaning. Closing threads with no new posts since 2014.
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