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If you could cheat on your significant other and they would never find out EVER, would you do it?
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Posted 2/28/14
Hell no
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Posted 2/28/14

uncletim wrote:

they know THEY ALWAYS KNOW. My wife knows when I sneak a fucking cookie when I am on a diet


Or have an extra beer

THEY ALWAYS KNOW!
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I see your little game.

If I say yes, then you will know given the chance, i will cheat, so I can't hide it from you, so therefore I won't be able to cheat without you knowing.

If I say no, you accuse me of lying, or you decide I'm spineless and you can walk all over me without worrying I will leave you.

Well played, very S. But the answer is:

WE AREN"T GOING OUT, SO I CAN'T CHEAT ON YOU! STOP HIDING IN MY SHRUBBERY! EVERYONE CAN SEE YOU ANYWAY!
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Posted 3/1/14
Definitely not.
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TO be honest, I'm pretty surprised by the responses. Most of you guys actually replied "no" from my experiences guys wouldnt even give it a second thought. They would definetly cheat on their significant other even if they so called "loved" them. They're actually pretty heartless when it comes to other women. They dont think it's wrong to cheat on their wife/gf which is weird for me b/c how i was raised and where i grew up it's not something you even think about. It's pretty simple you like boy or girl and that's it no one else included ...unless its a baby. So i like to throw out another question then if guys say no to cheating then what about strippers? To me that's equivalent to cheating but nowadays it seems to be a normality in the nation....and the reason i don't bring up the women cheating on their guy is b/c women tend to be more emotionally attached to their significant other and less likely to cheat. Not saying all feel that way but most of us are.
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Posted 3/1/14
I would know!
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Honestly it really depends on the relationship I'm in.
You said no now, you might do it in the future for whatever reason.
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But if you were in a relationship wouldn't you just break it off instead of cheating?
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Posted 3/2/14
What would be the point of being in a "committed" relationship if you're just going to cheat? Just stay single and mingle until you want to settle down. Don't break someone's heart because you can't control your impulses.

I would never cheat on my boyfriend because I respect him and our relationship and just because I care for him deeply. I find it disgusting that any man or woman would cheat on someone who probably is committed to you, knowing they won't find out. It doesn't make it any better and it shows you lack any kind of respect and morals.
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Posted 3/2/14

KhmerKittyKat wrote:

But if you were in a relationship wouldn't you just break it off instead of cheating?


As simple as it sounds, it's not always easy for many people who cheat. Sometimes cheaters are torn between to people they care deeply for but cannot decide who they wish to be with. They'd rather hurt them than risk being single and losing that connection with them. Sometimes they just don't want to hurt the person they are cheating on and they just kind of stick around until they fall out but usually before then, the partner tends to find out. People cheat for numerous of reasons but there really is no good excuse.
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Posted 3/3/14

KhmerKittyKat wrote:

TO be honest, I'm pretty surprised by the responses. Most of you guys actually replied "no" from my experiences guys wouldnt even give it a second thought.


Obviously you have the wrong acquaintances if you think that all men commit infidelity, especially without a second thought.


KhmerKittyKat wrote:

and the reason i don't bring up the women cheating on their guy is b/c women tend to be more emotionally attached to their significant other and less likely to cheat. Not saying all feel that way but most of us are.


Where do you get your statistics from? Many studies show that women cheat just as often as men, with PERHAPS a 5% difference.
Posted 3/3/14

JaySilverComedy wrote:

For me, it's not a matter of getting caught, but my emotional guilt would destroy me.


Yup same here, although I don't think I'd ever go so low as to cheat on a boy... I mean I know I would be crushed if a guy cheated on me so I definitely wouldn't do it.
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Scarlet-the-Great wrote:


JaySilverComedy wrote:

For me, it's not a matter of getting caught, but my emotional guilt would destroy me.


Yup same here, although I don't think I'd ever go so low as to cheat on a boy... I mean I know I would be crushed if a guy cheated on me so I definitely wouldn't do it.


Yup, true that!
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Posted 3/3/14
No, because the guilt would be too overwhelming.
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No, because I've no intention of lying to my partner like that, or with pretty much anything else.

On the other hand, I've no real interest in monogamy, would I sleep around? Yes. Would I do so if it hurt her or would I do so without her knowledge? No. Never.

I don't really get why people place so much stock in monogamy, unless your relationship is all about sex, why is it such a defining factor? You can't have it both ways, either it means so much that it's enough to break it, or it's a pleasant sidestory that's fun for all concerned.

I much prefer cuddles, snuggling on the couch, whispered sweet nothings, etc, the more intangible emotional bits and pieces that reinforce that connection, than the indulgence of the flesh. I'm practically a nymphomaniac, but in my view, it's like Ikea furniture, my Peg A can fit anyone's Slot B, but on the other hand, I couldn't come home at the end of the day and feel comfortable relaxing in the arms of just anyone.

I value the emotional side of things far more than the physical side.
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