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If you could cheat on your significant other and they would never find out EVER, would you do it?
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Posted 3/25/14 , edited 3/25/14

KhmerKittyKat wrote:

TO be honest, I'm pretty surprised by the responses. Most of you guys actually replied "no" from my experiences guys wouldnt even give it a second thought. They would definetly cheat on their significant other even if they so called "loved" them. They're actually pretty heartless when it comes to other women. They dont think it's wrong to cheat on their wife/gf which is weird for me b/c how i was raised and where i grew up it's not something you even think about. It's pretty simple you like boy or girl and that's it no one else included ...unless its a baby. So i like to throw out another question then if guys say no to cheating then what about strippers? To me that's equivalent to cheating but nowadays it seems to be a normality in the nation....and the reason i don't bring up the women cheating on their guy is b/c women tend to be more emotionally attached to their significant other and less likely to cheat. Not saying all feel that way but most of us are.


This is like 500 years late, but here goes.
First, to answer your question, I personally don't think going to a strip club is cheating, but I don't think that it's right either. Especially if you are sneaky about it, or if you significant other doesn't like it (this goes for girls too! But more commonly men).

Second, to reply to your comment, you say that women become more emotionally attached to their partner, and I agree with that, to a degree, even though it's a kind of broad statement. But I do think "which gender cheats more?" varies depending on which gender you associate with more. All of my guy friends have had girlfriends cheat on them and they themselves have never cheated. Hell, my ex told me she had cheated on a lot of her boyfriends in the past.

I dunno, maybe everyone just cheats on everyone and people are scum.
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Cheating is one of the lowest things a person can do, there is no respect in it and the relationship you have built would have been for nothing. I was cheated on when I was a teenager and still to this day I have never forgiven him,

Now I'm married and been in a relationship with him for 11 years which is a long time considering I'm only 26. If you don't trust your partner then the relationship will fail and if you trust them and then one of you cheats it will ruin the relationship. I don't see the point, if you want to cheat and sleep around then just tell your partner, show them some respect.
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No, I could never cheat on my girlfriend, mostly because she is also like my only friend, and I would blurb about it with her XD

And I would just feel so bad that happen.
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Dude i feel guilty when i pet a dog that isn't my own. Plus you wont be able to love two women as much as you can love just one.
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No. And not just about sex, but about money and all the other things that are part of a marriage partnership. I know lots of people who hide purchases from their spouse, but I see hiding something like that as cheating on your relationship as well.

That I won't cheat doesn't mean I will always be monogamous. Neither I or my wife feel that monogamy is a requirement of marriage. However, anything done with someone else outside of the marriage would be fully known and discussed with the other partner. At the current time. neither of us has any intention of having sex outside of the relationship. It is something we have discussed and experimented a tiny bit early on and are not interested in right now.
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Posted 3/25/14
No. Never. I love her to death.
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I've been cheated on, and karma has a funny way of getting people back. if a guy cheats on his girl with another girl that is also cheating on her guy, one of them is going to cheat on the other and no one wins (happened to my ex-bf, HILARIOUS!!)

I would feel awful if I cheated on my boyfriend. He's helped me with so much in the past 2 years, without him I really wouldn't be doing the things I'm doing now.
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Had to laugh xD
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The results relieved me. Good on ya, faithful people. and those 7+ boys and 1+ girl(s) who voted yes, shame on you.
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Man, eff you if you're cheating on your SO. Just break up with them if that's what you want. Don't make them think everything is hunky-dory like that
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No I'm older and have been married to the same woman for longer then most people in this forum have been alive and it is a matter of respect and I would know the guilt would kill me !
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NO! i wouldnt want my girl going down on another man so why would i hit it with another woman?
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Posted 10/12/14
No. Never.
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