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Posted 2/28/14 , edited 9/4/14
Welcome, welcome boys and girls of all ages! Feast your eyes and step right up to the Friendzone! A circus of nice men who're usually the nicest guys out there, as the girls they love cry on their shoulders!

"Ouuu! Ahhh!"

Jokes aside, the friendzone is a fantastic-hellish place for guys like me. Not to boast, but I really am one of those nice men. I do not play girls, 'nor do I abuse them physically or mentally. My reputation and status around my area is pretty clean, and people know me as a well-rounded nice guy. My personality is giving and nurturing. Although, whenever I have my eyes on her, it heightens up. She notices it and likes it. Then out of the blue, BAM... all of a sudden went for a guy who doesn't deserve her and treats her badly. This leaves the guys like us inside this circus tent, playing out our "act" until our good karma arrives.

I hate the term "friendzone", but in most respects, and being a male, I find this true when you're on the baseball field of love.

What do you think of the friendzone? Females, it's a harsh place for guys like us, and as some may have never entered it yet.
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Posted 2/28/14 , edited 9/3/14
You will find a girl that will appreciate you.


I am exactly like you, seriously. Friend zones all through highschool.
I was 17 when I was kind of with this girl, we were seeing each other and she randomly went for a dude that was a total ass.

You know what I did? I actually started hanging out with her best friend who actually appreciated me for being the nice guy. We actually started dating after a while. There are people out there who love the nice guy. The thing is, you can't be too nice. You can't be someone who gets walked all over. You need to make the first move and you can't beat around the bush with girls. You need to act if you want it.

Me and my girlfriend have been together for 5 years this April. We are actually best friends and she is amazing.

You got this, hang in there.

oh and the other girl, went nuts, and had an abusive relationship after ours. oops.
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Posted 2/28/14
Was in the friendzone until my Senior year of high school.
Decided to not be friends with women
Lets just say I am now having no troubles in college.
Being a dick is the way to go.
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Posted 2/28/14 , edited 9/8/14
Females get placed in the friendzone too.
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Posted 2/28/14 , edited 9/22/14
It doesn't exist. It's born out of a sense of entitlement that some men feel towards women they are attracted to. Sure, it's all well and good to be a "nice" guy, but that doesn't provide any basis for expecting any sort of relationship out of it.

Women aren't looking for that, at least, not that alone. Physical attraction is one of the single most important factors at the outset of a relationship/its development, and if a girl just doesn't feel it, no amount of kindness is going to win her over. People are going to get hurt in relationships as well, and I can say with full confidence that the "she only dates assholes" cliche is just that. Of course she is going to make it out to seem like the guy is the bad one when things go sour, as he'll do the same with his circle. It's human nature to want to hide our faults from those we care for/who judge us most.
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Posted 2/28/14

qualeshia3 wrote:

Females get placed in the friendzone too.


No they don't
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Posted 2/28/14 , edited 2/28/14

qualeshia3 wrote:

Females get placed in the friendzone too.


Personally, I find this to be 80%-20%. 80% being males, and 20% being females. You never ever, ever, ever hear a female actually "being in" the friendzone.
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Posted 2/28/14 , edited 9/3/14
I feel like this is just another version of nice guy vs jerks thread....

but anyways, friendzone is kind of another way of saying that a relationship is meaningless to you unless you are that person's love interest. Isn't it a bit asshole-y to say "Your friendship means nothing to me"
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Posted 2/28/14
I'm pretty much always 'sister-zoned'.... That wipes out everything *nods* Oh well. There goes the beginning of a hopeless road to an awkward outlook to life.
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Posted 2/28/14 , edited 9/12/14
If he/she doesn't like you, he/she doesn't like you. Do yourself (and everyone else) a favor by growing up and moving on to someone who actually reciprocates your feelings .

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Posted 2/28/14 , edited 9/4/14
I dunno ya'll. Me personally I don't believe in the friendzone cause if you have game then eventually A will lead to Z. The friendzone seem's more like a crutch guy's lean on when they don't really wanna pursue anymore cause they don't wanna mess up a good thing and vice-versa for females. Don't bite my head off please lol
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Posted 2/28/14

tf2pyros wrote:


qualeshia3 wrote:

Females get placed in the friendzone too.


Personally, I find this to be 80%-20%. 80% being males, and 20% being females. You never ever, ever, ever hear a female actually "being in" the friendzone.



Well, they obviously do not get it as bad as any male but they do get placed there.
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Posted 2/28/14

Shin-Nrl wrote:


qualeshia3 wrote:

Females get placed in the friendzone too.


No they don't


Yeah they do.
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20 / M / Louisiana
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Posted 2/28/14
Never the friendzone. Not yet at least
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Posted 2/28/14 , edited 3/2/14

qualeshia3 wrote:


Shin-Nrl wrote:


qualeshia3 wrote:

Females get placed in the friendzone too.


No they don't


Yeah they do.


ok
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