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Do opposites attract?
Posted 1/29/08 , edited 1/30/08
-like i always do before i start a new topic, sorry if this is a duplicate, i did the search and all, and i found out there are a helluva alot of topics w/ the opposite gender, but i didnt see this one

anyways, just like the question asks, do you think opposites attract?

well i personally think it could go both ways, if they are too opposite from each other they wont have anything in common, but if they are too similar to each other it would be kind of boring, and like dating another you.



but in terms of non-dating, a positive end attracts a negative end, and 2 positives pushes away from each other and all that. other things with this topic i guess, would be opposites like big and small, and how u can see that. i guess u can talk about opposites in general in here



Edit: improving first post reasons (sorry i keep doing this i like this post to be pretty ◕‿◕)

This is true to some extent, because if you didn't have the opposite of something, it would have never existed. For example, you can't have light without darkness, and darkness without light.

Angel and Demon (opposite) anime couples

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25 / F / If you bend over...
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Posted 1/29/08
yes but u must remember u will always have at least one thing in common if u look hard enough.. this i know -.O
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24 / F / Oregon
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My best friend is my total opposite but at the same time a lot like me. She is everything I'm not, has everything i lack. if she were a man I would marry her, lol.
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Posted 1/29/08
I think to some degree, you need to have some similarities and differences.
But it's pretty easy to find someone who's not like you, because we all are a bit different in a way.

In a relationship, I think you do need to have lots of opposites, but not so many that you fight 24/7 because you can't agree on something. XD
Posted 1/29/08
Hmm Bro , I understand
It can't be too much difference or else there will be a argue about everything and eventually break up
but desame is too similaryou cant live happely after without never had 1 argue
between much difference and a bit desame is the best x3
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28 / M / California
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Posted 1/29/08
People are attracted to certain traits, physical or mental.

Sometimes these are traits that they possess as well. Sometimes they aren't.

To conclude, opposites probably attract as much as similars do.
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Posted 1/29/08
it depends on how the couple are.
both could love having surprises as part of the relationship. or aren't afraid of changes or be adventurous.
basically both couple have to be open minded to make it work.
and appreciate each other's difference of opinions or decisions
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28 / M / Portland
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Posted 1/29/08
NO
my opposite would say yes tho
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25 / M / Reverie
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Posted 1/29/08
They can be, but there is alway's a connection.
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76 / M / Florida, US
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Posted 1/29/08
Opposites don't really attract but having differences helps fill out the other person's behavior and personality. Also, there are some things that you can learn from each other or ways you can keep each other in check with.
It can also be more interesting in your relationship since you guys won't agree on everything.
If you guys are completely different and don't share some important things; you're going to end up in a bad situation as well.

Opposites don't really attract. If they happen to like each other for their differences (which I doubt) or two different people end up liking each other; it's not because they were so different. They merely were attracted to one another and happened to be different.
Posted 1/29/08
no but there is a chance
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30 / F / Japan
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It just depends on the person. I think being too different from one another can put a strain in the relationship because there aren't any common interests with one another. I think you should have some common interests but you don't have to be exactly the same to get along with a person. I mean, that's like saying your friends have to be exactly like you or they aren't your friends. Everyone is different so I don't know about the phrase "opposites attract." People like whoever they like whether they are very much alike or very much different.
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24 / F / my own little world
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Posted 1/29/08
definately. the whole point is finding someone who completes u. we admire qualities in others that we lack. plus it's a physical law of science....opposites attract! if u don't believe me try it out with a magnet....
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I'm with someone whose completely opposite of me. I believe we complete eachother. He's everything that I'm not. I'm not whole a without him.
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i had these friends who were soooo in love with each other, but both were too stubborn to admit it.
only me ++ my friend jenny knew, and we had a week before he'd move to china.
so we're like,
7 days=OPERATION HOOKUP!
and on the very, very,
VERY last day before he moved, ALAST
THEY FELL IN LOVE! [err, like, go out with me yo.]
cutest couple in the worldddd.

he's like, stubborn, impatient, cocky. lmao!?
and she was like, exact opposite. friendly, patient, sweet.
;0; too bad the bastard MOVED! </3
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