eye contact with girls is scary
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I don't get why I can't stand eye contact with chicks, like if I'm talking to them or if I'm doing them. I just can't stand it especially the smile + eye contact that freaks me out(in bed) I usually look away...


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Second nature to me tbh. Customer service has taught me tbh.
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Well I got the same problem, but it isn't with girls only, it's with everyone -.- The only ones that I don't have this problem with is; Well, older people, like doctors, teachers, etc. I don't think it scares me, but I think it's more a problem with myself not being able to face a girl IRL xD
It's probably got something to do with confidence and such things...Just speculating though.
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Definitely not a problem with me. I remember when I would get scolded by my dad he'd always tell me to look at him when he was speaking so I suppose you can say that making eye contact was ingrained in me early on

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That's hilariously pathetic.
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As one who can see, but is legally blind, i'm fairly incapable of "true" eye contact (since I can't focus my eyes that far unless they're right in front of my face). That being said, I've taught myself to make "fake" eye contact for courtesy's sake by looking toward someone's eyes even though I can't really "see" their eyes.

Can't people with good vision just do the same?

Or perhaps its just an emotional thing - since even though I have no problem making eye contact with girls, I do have trouble speaking with them.
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Broshmosh wrote:

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That's hilariously pathetic.


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Me: Don't look at me! The shame!
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"Eye contact with girls is scary"

I thought this was going to be a troll on the Forums hahah
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Maybe you'll get the hang of it by 28
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Broshmosh wrote:

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That's hilariously pathetic.


I can't agree more
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DeckardXLeah wrote:

I don't get why I can't stand eye contact with chicks, like if I'm talking to them or if I'm doing them. I just can't stand it especially the smile + eye contact that freaks me out(in bed) I usually look away...


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Death is not necessary, but maybe the locking and closing of this thread will help. Please stop posting personal threads (bordering on TMI) in General Discussion.

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If you intend to start a topic for general discussion, please phrase your opening posts in a way that actively encourages participation by others, so they aren't simply an overshare of your personal experience.



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