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Posted 3/16/14
No disrespect and I understand that you love or loved the bloke, but you're letting him walk over you. He doesn't deserve the time of day, so get it together, and realise that there are tons of people out there who if you even gave them 50% of the attention and affection you give this guy! they'd be on their feet worshipping you every day.

Move on, don't take shit, and enjoy your life, even if you stay single for a while. Don't be scared to be single, keep yourself busy and you'll realise that it's actually really nice
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Do you think he is debating whether to go to the party because of you? Doubt it..
Get your ass to the party and have fun.
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Avoid human contact entirely
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VenussKiss wrote:

Omg grow some balls. You're okay with another man treating you like his bitch...ugh, why?

Honestly, just move on..nd forget about him...seriously....He's fucked you over and he's fucked another woman over and because he knows you'll probably end up coming back to him, he'll keep running back to you. If you don't put your foot down then you are going to continue in the cycle of being fucked over.

Well, I wouldn't let my ex stop me from going to my friend's party regardless of how weird it feels. Just make short chit chat - "Hey, how are you doing, blah blah blah" and kind of do your own thing. If you guys are mingling together with the same person then just act natural but also keeping up that red line - "I'm not here to mingle with you, get back with you, etc, I'm here for my friend...got it?"

He may try and get back with ya but hey, if you want to go ahead but I suggest you don't.


^ This... But it also sounds like she's got some low self-esteem issues to deal with, otherwise she wouldn't have established herself to him from the beginning as his "whore-mat". She may have loved him, but he never loved her. Part of loving someone is respecting them as a person at least on a basic level. He never did that, and probably didn't because she didn't respect herself (dignity) either, thus non-verbally giving him the okay to treat her like crap. My advice is for her to work on loving and respecting herself before she gets into another relationship, and stay away from guys that are like the aforementioned ex-boyfriend. Only go to the party if you feel comfortable and confident enough to deal with and not be swayed by the toxic ex-boyfriend. Otherwise send a gift/card to the friend with apologies for not attending. If they are a true friend they will be happy with that and wouldn't want you at the party feeling miserable.
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