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Posted 4/2/14 , edited 4/2/14

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I can't stop laughing at your nick name right now.... I am dying!!

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:p I aim to please!


What made you think to put your crunchyroll nick name as that? lol

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What made you think to put your crunchyroll nick name as that? lol

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It goes way back to when I played World of Warcraft. It's a very long story. Long story short, everyone in the guild called me "Lemontits" or "Lemontitties" so the name just stuck :p
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Lemontitties wrote:


crazysouthsider wrote:


What made you think to put your crunchyroll nick name as that? lol

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It goes way back to when I played World of Warcraft. It's a very long story. Long story short, everyone in the guild called me "Lemontits" or "Lemontitties" so the name just stuck :p


Awkward yet extremely funny.

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If you use violence on/against your child then they'll grow up only to use more violence when they get older.


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Personally, I think spanking is reserved for the women I love.


Also, I agree whit you on that!


There's a difference between abuse and discipline. My parents spanked me when I was little. As a result, I suffer a psycho-logical condition called "respect for others."
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no this is not approiate everytime i get spanked by my mommy went i was young i hated my mommy more and more i love her still but sometimes i hate her without meaning it...btw i think parents should slap their child` hand or make them step on grits with their bare feet ok
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no this is not approiate everytime i get spanked by my mommy went i was young i hated my mommy more and more i love her still but sometimes i hate her without meaning it...btw i think parents should slap their child` hand or make them step on grits with their bare feet ok


This is normal for a child to feel that way. You may have thought you hated her, but in reality, you just didn't like her spanking you. No one does obviously.
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psycholgically proven that negative reinforcement has the exact opposite of what your trying to enforce not doing ~~~~ simplified meaning....... negative reinforcement in this case "spankings" never work out the way you want it too..... unless its implied symbolic/symbolism/ interaction on what was said earlier that spanking on the grown ladies is a sign of love ~~~ that is not so much the case with kids

Positive reinforcement is the only perfect way it works

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the other way that works

is FEAR training or TERROR training

which is a form of negative reinforcement but on a more extreme!!!!!!!!!!! scale most commonly called "torture"


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also if you spank consistently for bad behavior years later on your child you increase the chance of you (the parent or the enforcer) will increase the chances of you going "berserk" more frequently ( or a better term YOU WILL RAGE MORE and end up going overboard and doing something you will regret) and your child (or the punished one) will have an increase likely hood of even worse behavior in the future making you question what you did wrong as a parent + the child will grow used to it after a while.

in short the art, school, and science of psychology has proven that negative reinforcement NEVER WORKS OUT THE WAY YOU WANT IT TOO.


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I think it should be used sparingly. Now a days I think some of the problem is some of the parents just let their kids do whatever and cave in to them whenever they start throwing a tantrum, then they grow up to be huuuuge brats. I think there are plenty of ways to punish a child and spanking is one you should use as more of a threat, at least that's how I was raised, having never really being spanked but still scared as hell of it.

Alternatively, I agree with some others that it can also be used in a little more.. intimate situation.
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Lemontitties wrote:


orange-chan wrote:

no this is not approiate everytime i get spanked by my mommy went i was young i hated my mommy more and more i love her still but sometimes i hate her without meaning it...btw i think parents should slap their child` hand or make them step on grits with their bare feet ok


This is normal for a child to feel that way. You may have thought you hated her, but in reality, you just didn't like her spanking you. No one does obviously.


am not a child
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am not a child


I'm talking about when you were one...>.>
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am not a child


I'm talking about when you were one...>.>


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There were scarce few times that I was hit and I remember them all. At the time that they happened I was probably resentful about it but now I'm almost positive that I never again did the things I was hit for. I think as long as it's few in number and for serious offenses it's probably helpful for most children.
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Lemontitties wrote:


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Everyone has their own way of parenting and for most parents that do spank there kids they aren't child abusers.


Well, Muur doesn't seem to think so. Apparently, spanking your child is child abuse. The ignorance is strong I tell ya.


Well by definition is spanking child abuse, why? Because the other person is hitting or hurting - spanking the child, so how can you not understand that? -.- That isn't ignorance, that's plain knowledge. People who think that spanking their child is right - are the ones who are ignorant and just plain bad parents. You shouldn't use violence as a way to teach kids, but I bet most of the time that they spank their kids, is because of their own frustration, not for the better well-being of the kid.
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Well by definition is spanking child abuse, why? Because the other person is hitting - spanking the child, so how can you not understand that? -.- That isn't ignorance, that's plain knowledge. People who think that spanking their child is right - are the ones that are ignorant and just plain bad parents. You shouldn't use violence as a way to teach kids, but I bet most of the time that they spank their kids, is because of their own frustration, not for the better well-being of the kid.


There's a difference between discipline and child abuse. You should learn it sometime.
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